On The Holiday

Thanksgiving How To Be Grateful

2009-02-28T18:00:00.003-08:00

Writen by Jeff Herring

Good - It is so easy to focus on the negative. In most situations, there is something good to be found, even if the only good thing is the situation cannot last forever. Practice asking "what is good about this situation that I might have missed?"

Reach Out - Take a look around, there are people less fortunate than you that you could help in some way. You can even do it for selfish reasons, as reaching out makes you feel good.

Attitude - Do you have a gratitude attitude? Do you ever slow down enough to notice all your blessings? One of the clear advantages of a gratitude attitude is that this attitude opens you up to more abundance.

Time - A friend of mine was diagnosed with acute adult leukemia this year. Time took on an entirely different meaning to him this year. Value your time.

Enthusiasm - Where is your zest for life? Getting excited about your day is a powerful way in which to be grateful.

Fun - When was the last time you had fun? It's a privilge many people in the world never have. Schedule some fun.

Unusual - Do you do the same old same old each and every day? Life has many cool things available, so why die the daily death of "I've always done it this way before?"

Live full out - Want to feel very grateful this time next year and most days in between? Then live full out.

Visit The Article Guy for more leading edge tips and tools for writing articles that bring you prospects, publicity and profits. You can also subscirbe to our monthly Article Empire Tips Newsletter. You are also invited to visit my Express-Start Article Writing Program for more information on the next article writing tele-seminar.

Finding The Perfect Mothers Day Gift A Daily Connection

2009-02-28T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by James Zeller

A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie. ...Tenneva Jordan

There is a name that often has the same effect as soothing balm on a tender wound. Many can go through life saying she doesn't matter, but it is the wounds of life that require the ministrations that only a mother can provide.

Surely you've had those moments when you desire the closeness of mom although you might indicate you'd rather not see her. We can all be grateful that moms see through our inner turmoil and willingly stand with us when the need is greatest.

The most selfless individuals on the planet are mothers. They are often the first ones up and the last to bed. They serve your needs without asking anything in return. They suffer through the abuse of adolescent children and willingly welcome us home when we come to our senses.

When the second Sunday in May rolls around it is the true essence of gratitude that brings us to the doorstep of mom's house with gifts in hand, from hearts that have begun to catch a glimpse of thankfulness.

Mother's Day gifts come in all sizes, fragrances, colors and styles. Most often these gifts are simple flower arrangements and gift cards. Moms will never respond unkindly, but perhaps it is time to consider a gift that is a thoughtful indicator of the love and appreciation you have for your mother. A gift of considerate choosing that takes your gratitude to a level that will surprise and delight the very one who gave you life.

Mothers spend a great deal of time in the kitchen and a unique kitchen gift or a gourmet gift of elegance and style will be remembered long after flowers fade, wither, and are summarily discarded.

Imagine a time in the future; your mother sits down for a cup of tea and traces her finger across the top of the European Glass Teapot she received as a gift from you. She remembers special long ago moments she was certain she had forgotten. A thoughtful, daily used gift can provide a personal ongoing connection between you and your mother. Best of all - her thoughts will be toward you not the gift.

This in no way diminishes the effectiveness of the gift; it actually enhances the overall gift giving experience. You see, a well thought out Mother's Day gift is as much for you as it is for her; useful and appreciated with memories attached.

When the second Sunday in May rolls around, consider a kitchen gift or a gourmet gift that conveys to your mom that you believe Mother's Day is more than a special occasion the day is a moment of insistence that she be held in the highest esteem. It may even be a moment when strained relationships can be mended and old offenses forgotten.

The second Monday in May will find your mom back in her daily routine. Why not give her another reason to think of you each day.

She will, you know.

James Zeller writes for gift related websites and blogs. Here is a selection of unique gifts that he found, and a creative collection of culinary gourmet gifts.

Read This Article If You Like To Say Merry Christmas

2009-02-22T18:00:00.003-08:00

Writen by Lance Winslow

Christmas Time is a very special time of the year; it is a festive time. It is a time fro random acts of kindness and time for reconciliation. It is a time for loving, caring and a time for sharing. It is time to say thank, exchange gifts and offer a smile to everyone you meet. Not because they are Christians but because they are human beings, on a planet we share; it is way to say, hi there; "Merry Christmas!"

Some in the media are creating a controversy over nothing in the attack on the words Merry Christmas. They tell us it is not politically correct, that you cannot say that? Why not? Would you rather people come up to you and say "Paper or Plastic? Thank you for shopping here now Go to Happy Hell!" Why is the "C" word becoming a bad word? It is far too many letters to be a bad word? If we can celebrate Halloween, which is the celebration of Evil Spirits, which is kind of silly, well then what is wrong with celebrating Positive influences?

If you like to say Merry Christmas, then say it; say it like you mean it. If you don't say something else and give it a real smile from the heart; we are all in this together and it is just silly to thrust a debate on the words "Merry Christmas" surely we have enough other things to argue over in our daily fix of sound and fury. Think on this.

Lance Winslow

Keepsake Christmas Album

2009-02-22T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Rachel Paxton

Do you hate throwing your Christmas cards away every year as much as I do? This year I decided to try to come up with some way to preserve our Christmas cards, as well as find a way to organize all the Christmas letters I've been faithfully filing away for the past six years. I decided to make an album for our Christmas letters using decoupage to decorate the covers with this year's Christmas cards.

I love decoupage. It's so easy to do and so versatile. It's really hard to get it wrong. I started by finding something to paste the Christmas cards on. I had some dark red card stock (next to the paper at the office supply store) that seemed heavy enough to withstand all the gluing. Next I cut our Christmas cards into all different shapes and sizes. I cut out little characters, scenes, holiday greetings, and even signatures of loved ones who had sent the cards. I next arranged the cutouts, overlapping one another, on the card stock, and started applying them one by one with the decoupage finish.

There are several kinds of decoupage finish available. You can find a variety at your local craft store. I have two different kinds: Plaid Royal Coat Antique Decoupage Finish, and Mod Podge Gloss-Lustre. The first one gives an antique-like appearance. The paste yellows when it dries, making your collage look aged. The more you apply, the yellower it gets. The Mod Podge dries clear. I used the antique finish and was quite happy with the result. You use the finish to actually glue the individual pieces on with a paintbrush, and then when you're finished (adding scraps here and there to fill in the blank spots), you brush a coat over the entire page. After it dries for about 10 minutes, you can apply another coat. I found that adding several coats made the pages sturdiermore like a album cover, like I wanted. I had just enough Christmas card cutouts to cover two pages, one for the front cover, and one for the back cover.

After the pages were dry, I used a three-hole punch to punch holes in the covers. I decided I would use wide fabric holiday ribbon to tie the covers together. That way every year I could untie the bows and add new letters to my album. I used 2 1/2 -inch-wide wire satin ribbon (dark red). I liked the wire ribbon. It was easier to adjust the bows and looked really nice. It was also leftover from my holiday gift making this year, so I didn't have to buy any extra.

When the covers were ready, I arranged our Christmas letters from oldest to most recent, and punched holes in all of them. I then placed them between the covers and inserted the ribbon through the holes and tied big red bows to hold them together. I chose not to string ribbon through all three holesjust the top and the bottom.

I was really happy with how my keepsake Christmas album turned out. It was easy, took only about two hours to make, and I didn't have to buy anything extra to make it. After you buy the decoupage finish (about $5 a bottle), the uses for it are almost limitless. You can apply it to almost any surface, giving you the opportunity to create timeless keepsakes in a variety of ways.

Originally published at Suite 101. Rachel Paxton is a freelance writer and mom of four. For scrapbooking, card making, gift-giving ideas, and more family memory-making activities, visit http://www.crafty-moms.com

Want Amazing Kid Birthday Cakes Without Baking

2009-02-17T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Mike Dougherty

Do you just want to pick up a birthday cake for your child at your favorite bakery and be done with it?

How would you like to learn a quick and easy way to make any cake you get at your local bakery fit your child's birthday theme perfectly?

If you're like a lot of busy moms out there, it's getting harder and harder for you to find the time in your busy schedule to do a lot of things you'd like to do around your home, and that includes making kid birthday cakes from scratch.

Or, you might be one of many moms that just don't like to bake, and that's OK too. Hey, we all have different interests.

In a survey conducted as part of an article I wrote about decorating cakes for children's birthday parties, a whopping 41 percent of those who responded said they would rather just pick up a cake at the bakery and be done with it.

With that in mind, what you need is a fast and easy way to turn that standard, off the shelf cake into a fun, yummy looking attention grabber that fits your child's birthday party theme.

So if you could find a decoration you can easily add to your "store bought cake" that would really make your cake look great for your child, would you? Of course you would... It's YOUR CHILD's birthday!

Ever heard of Cake Toppers?

Cake toppers are available in two handy forms. Non-edible and edible.

Non-edible cake toppers are colorful, theme related decorations that are cute, sometimes animated and most can be used as fun toys or collectibles by you child after the cake is long gone.

Non-edible toppers are available for just about any theme and all you have to do is set your topper down anywhere you want to on your kid birthday cakes. It's just that easy and cake toppers will turn your standard cake into a fun 3D presentation your child will love.

Edible cake toppers are tasty treats made out of sugar and are used to enhance the look of your cake, even if you're using a non edible topper as well. Edible toppers are also available for just about any theme and your child and their party guests will all want an edible topper on their slice of cake.

Very interesting - So Where Can You Find Cake Toppers?

You're going to love this... You can order the cake toppers of your choice and have them delivered right to your home. And you don't even have to get out of your house, drive around in your car or go to a store. Talk about saving your precious time.

Cake toppers are available conveniently at online party stores that carry birthday cake supplies. Just follow the link at the end of this article and you'll learn more about where you can find wonderful cake toppers online.

Now you can pick up kid birthday cakes at your favorite bakery, put your cake toppers in place and there you have it... An instant original, attention getting cake your child will love.

So if you're like a lot of busy moms out there, you can "have your cake and eat it too" by turning ordinary off the shelf kid birthday cakes into great cakes quickly and easily.

Have fun

Mike Dougherty "Grandpa Mike" has lots of experience putting together successful birthday parties for his children and grandchildren. To learn more from Grandpa Mike about cake toppers, visit http://fun-kid-birthday-cakes.com/cake-toppers.html

Taking The Guess Work Out Of Valentines Day For Men

2009-02-15T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Barbara Wright Abernathy

Millions of men anxiously dread the approach of Valentine's Day, reluctant to shop because they haven't a clue about what will really please their woman. Many women believe that it takes the romance away if you tell him exactly what you want. Then she becomes disappointed and resentful when he fails to read her mind and turns up with a last minute less-than-perfect gift offering.

"Men are results-oriented," explains Barbara Wright Abernathy, founder of the Venus On Top Society, the social network for take-charge women and supportive men. "They love having a specific mission to fulfill and they feel happy and successful when they accomplish their mission." Abernathy says a woman should think like a queen sending her knight on a quest. What's more romantic than that?

As more women become better educated and out-earn their husbands, some couples are making a conscious decision for the woman to be the leader in the household and the man her helpmate. Few women and men are aware that the female led relationship is a viable alternative for those whose temperaments don't fit traditional marriage roles. The Venus on Top Society is there to discuss and explore this lifestyle option.

Women who want to have a happy Valentine's Day can take a cue from the way Society members celebrate Venus On Top Week every year, February 7 13, the week before Valentine's Day. The Venus on Top Society offers a free Venus On Top Week Celebration Kit, a customizable Gift Checklist Certificate and Instruction Sheet, which can be downloaded at http://www.VenusOnTop.com

The Celebration Kit includes the official Venus On Top Society Gift Checklist Certificate to print out on parchment or colored paper. It has a list of suggested activities, such as a shopping trip or a foot massage, along with blanks where the woman writes in her own most desired gifts or tasks. The accompanying Instruction Sheet gives helpful tips for each partner on how to use the Checklist to get the most fun out of Venus On Top Week.

Does filling out the Gift Checklist take away the element of surprise that most women desire? Not at all. The Instruction Sheet suggests that the woman check off three to seven choices. She won't know which one he picks, so she will still be surprised. And he can surprise her even more by doing more than one item.

By presenting his sweetheart with the Gift Checklist Certificate, a man can avoid the headache of not knowing what she wants. A smart woman sets the stage for a wonderful Valentine's Day by making sure he knows just what will please her, then showering her knight with appreciation for fulfilling his mission.

Barbara Wright Abernathy
America's authority on female led relationships, author of "Venus On Top: Women Who Are Born to Lead and the Men Who Love Them." Barbara is founder and CEG (Chief Executive Goddess) of the Venus On Top Society, the social network for take-charge women and supportive men who enjoy female led relationships. Get your free Venus On Top Week Celebration Kit at http://www.VenusOnTop.com

Valentines Day Gifts What Married Women Wish Men Knew

2009-02-13T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Stephanie Gallagher

If Valentines Day were a contact sport, the flower companies would be in big trouble. That's because men would start planning for Valentines Day some time in early January, and they'd almost certainly venture beyond the usual flowers and candy when choosing Valentines Day gifts.

The secret is you don't have to spend a ton of money on Valentines Day gifts to please her. You just have to show you put some time and thought into choosing something special.

Here's what married women wish the men in their lives knew about choosing Valentines Day gifts:

You can never go wrong with jewelry. And while some women will be satisfied with mall store jewelry, just about all women will be impressed by a gift from Tiffany. It could be an inexpensive silver keychain or a pair of diamond earrings. It doesn't matter. If it comes in that signature blue box, she's almost guaranteed to love it.
Or better yet, give her the whole store. Buy her shares of Tiffany stock, and she can legitimately say she owns the place.
What you think is sappy, she might think is really sweet. Think custom poems, custom fortune cookies or custom M&Ms with your own special message on them. It may seem silly to you, but she'll think it's thoughtful and creative.
Personal Creations (personalcreations.com) and 1-800-Flowers.com both offer giant custom fortune cookies.
If you're giving candy, make it chocolate, and make it the good stuff. New York-based Jacques Torres not only makes good-quality chocolate; it's popular among the uber-trendy set, too.
If you want to show her how much you value your memories together, give her a memory book (similar to a baby book) of the year you first met. Nostalgia Publishing does custom-printed books that detail all the current events -- news, sports, movies, popular songs and more --that happened during the year you met.
You can even customize the book with your names, the date you met, a special message and a poem. ($45 at whenwefirstmet.com).

Stephanie Gallagher, a.k.a, 'The Shopping Mom,' has written 4 books. For more Valentines Day gift ideas, including where to buy framed shares of Tiffany stock for less than $150, see her web site, Super Creative Valentines Day Gifts for New (and Not so New) Moms

10 Tips For Stressfree Holidays

2009-02-11T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Maria Grace

If you are looking forward to the Holidays but dread the stress that comes with them, here a list of 10 tips for stress-free holidays. Go over them daily and apply at least one a day. You will not only have wonderful holidays, but you will also avoid the post-holiday blues that most often happen as a reaction to holiday-induced stress.

1. Go over last year's holidays and write down 3 things, incidents, or issues around holidays that stressed you outthat's your lesson not to repeat them or avoid them this year.

2. Write down 3 things you want to enjoy these holidays that involve your family, your relatives, and yourself. No more than 3, please. Keeping it to 3 items, keeps your expectations realistic. Some examples: I want to go skiing with my husband and children and not cook for 28 people. I want to spend Christmas' Eve at church with my family and not at my cousin's house. I want to spend only one day on Christmas shopping, instead of four weekends in a row.

3. Write these wishes on a piece of paper and put in on a visible spot. It will be your reminder of what you truly need from these holidays.

4. Under each one of your 3 wishes, write in detail what you must do to make them true. For example: "I want to spend only one day on Christmas shopping." List what you absolutely need to buy in stores. List what you can buy online. Calculate the time you need. Consider purchasing gift certificates if buying gifts stresses you out.

5. Engage family members in helping you out. Assign specific chores and promise them a reward.

6. Keep your expectations realistic and stay focused on what's important. Read often items 1, 2, and 3 of this list, to remind yourself of your promises.

7. Say 'no' to guilt-driven behaviors. They are the ultimate cause of stress during holidays. For example, if you can't be around X relative opening gifts under the Christmas tree, be honest to yourself and spend as little time as possible around that person.

8. Watch "Family Man" and "It's A Wonderful Life" in bed with your family instead of running around, if you are all tired.

9. Spend quiet time and pray.

10. Remember, this too, shall pass. So, make sure to create only good, stress-free memories.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Maria Grace, Ph.D., is an expert at teaching people how to learn lessons from popular movies to find the job, home, relationship, and healthy body and mind they want. She is a Fulbright scholar, licensed psychotherapist, sought-after public speaker and coach, and the author of "Reel Fulfillment: A 12-Step Plan for Transforming Your Life through Movies" (McGraw-Hill, 2005). "Reel Fulfillment" was praised by Publisher's Weekly as one of the top "self help books out of the self-help box" for 2005-2006.

For more information visit http://www.mariagrace.com and http://www.reelfulfillment.com

7 Popular Character Costumes For Boys This Halloween

2009-02-09T18:00:00.002-08:00

Writen by Nicola Kennedy

When it comes to boys, there are some standard costumes that you will see year after year at Halloween time. With many of them, they wear the costume year round in creative play. Some of them are not the best color-wise for use at dusk, so make sure you add reflective tape at the wrists, at the ankles and around the waist when possible.

Batman This popular super-hero makes an appearance every year. No matter how old this franchise is, young boys still find the character appealing. Comic books and movies starring Batman are still being created, and several cartoon variations are in syndication.

Superman Another old super-hero that I see at least a half dozen of each Halloween. With the new movie in theaters this past Summer, I'm sure a whole new generation of youngsters were introduced to the "Man Of Steel".

Army Man With the war in Iraq still sending troops overseas, many young boys are seeing news clips with men in fatigues. The past couple of years I have seen a big jump in boys dressing as soldiers at Halloween time.

Sponge Bob Squarepants This cartoon character from Nick has made a big impact on boys of various ages. He is silly and not too smart, but he makes a great costume on Halloween.

Mickey Mouse With the reintroduction of the new "Mickey Mouse Clubhouse" on the Disney Channel, Mickey is sure to make a big comeback.

Diego This will be an easy costume, though only popular in warmer climates. Diego is Dora the Explorer's cousin and has branched out into his very own show. With outdoor boots, shorts and a cool red rescue pack, I believe this will be a costume I see much more this year.

Power Ranger Although the show is geared more toward much older children, Power Rangers are popular with kids of all ages. Every year, I am absolutely amazed at how many Blue, Red and Green Rangers still knock on my door.

My best advice when costuming your child at Halloween is let them choose what they want. Don't make big plans and create a costume, only to turn around and see they want to buy something "cool" from the store. They are not going to have fun in a costume you force them to wear, which will ultimately ruin your night, too.

Nicola always enjoys Halloween parties with her family. Visit her Halloween site for tips and information about Kids Halloween Costume Ideas at http://Childrens-Halloween-Costumes.Best-Halloween.com

Food Gift Baskets The Perfect Office Gift

2009-02-09T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Christopher Luck

What is a quick and easy, yet thoughtful gift you can give out during the holiday season? I know I work with a lot of people and to give each of them gifts can be expensive. In addition, I just don't know what everyone is into. The answer, for both keeping cost under control and taking into account taste is to give a food gift basket. A food gift basket can still be customized if you want to do that, but it will also keep your cost under control and allow you to stay sort of generic for those co workers you don't know as well.

When it comes to buying gifts or a little something for your co workers during the holidays, a food gift basket can be a life saver of sorts. To really make them cost effective, consider making the food gift baskets yourself even. Either buy or make an assortment of cookies, candies, and even instant cocoas or coffees. Once those are gathered, go to your local craft store and buy either baskets or canisters that you can easily decorate simply with ribbon or other holiday cheer. Then, just put the foods together in the baskets, decorate them and you are ready to hand out food gift baskets. Your other option is to head into a local specialty shop and check prices for pre-made food gift baskets. It's up to you and your budget which will work best.

If you do feel like you want to customize the food gift baskets you are giving out, you can certainly do that too. If you know the types of snacks of foods, or even the lifestyles of the people who will be getting the food gift baskets, then you can arrange it to meet those characteristics. For instance, coffee lovers can receive a gift basket full of coffees, mugs, and flavored creamers. If you know a health food nut, then think about filling a basket with granola and organic snacks. No matter what other things people may like, you can always get creative and put something together for each particular person. No matter who the person is or what he or she likes, you can always put together a food gift basket that will mean something to them.

Giving gifts around the office can get expensive and complex if you aren't careful. You, however, may feel like you really enjoy your co-workers so that you want to give them something for the holiday season. A food gift basket can certainly be a great choice for those office gifts. You can customize them easily if you like and you can also save a lot of money. You can build them yourself to save extra money or even find a service that will make the baskets for you.

If you would like the latest information on gift basket ideas , or find more of my personal articles like the one you just read, visit my basket site!

Christmas Gifts For Dog Lovers Amp Their Dogs

2009-02-06T18:00:00.003-08:00

Writen by Adriana Copaceanu

If you have dog lovers in your family, it's time to think of some unique gifts you can give them this Christmas. They will remember this gift for a long time if you not only give them a gift form themselves, but include something for their dog or puppy.

To get your ideas flowing, here are some gifts you can get for the dog lover: of course, if you can take some pictures of their dog in advance, many of the following ideas will be even more special.

a T-shirt/sweatshirt that says "My Dog Loves Me" - they'll be proud to wear it.

a picture of their dog framed in a paw picture frame - there is no better way to let them know you love them: every time they walk past this picture, they'll be reminded of your kind gesture, and that you took the time to give them something special.

a collectible figurine featuring their dog breed - this will become part of the room décor.

a dog lover's calendar - excellent gift that keeps on giving: every month they'll have a new beautiful dog to look at and enjoy.

a nice, fuzzy, personalized throw to keep them and their dog warm on chilly evenings.

a cooking book with dog recipes

dog lover screen saver

Now that you picked a nice gift for the dog lover, it's time to find some gifts for the dog. Here are just a few ideas to get your started:

a plush toy: be it a ball, a bone, or some other shape, dogs really enjoy these fluffy toys. Some come with a noise maker, but be careful that this toy won't become annoying for the owner

doggy clothing: you may get something pretty, or, if you like practical, get something warm for the winter, so when they take a talk the dog stays warm.

doggy treats are very popular these days, and you can find them in pet stores everywhere. But, if you have the time, cook some treats yourself, and make a new friend

treat machine, similar to the candy machines, where you press a handle and get a piece of candy. This will entertain the dog for hours and get him a treat every time he presses the handle. What fun!

pampering items, like doggie shampoo, a nice brush, and even a nice bandana.

So, as you see, there are lots of ways to spoil your dog lover friends and family and their pet.

Adriana Copaceanu provides people with creative gift ideas that don't blow the bank. Find many Unique Gift Ideas at her site. And if you love dogs, visit her Dog Care Resource website.

An Easy Gift For Many Occasions

2009-02-06T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Jennifer Shircel

It can be very hard to find that one perfect gift for someone. How many times have you pondered over what to buy for a 36th birthday or an 18th anniversary?

Chances are, that you've been thinking way too hard!

Go to any local retail store and start browsing. What you're looking for is some type of a cup, bowl or canister. Something that is deep enough and round enough to have a plant potted inside. Now start being creativehave you thought of anything yet?

This is such a neat way to make a simple gift into a very creative and meaningful one. For example, for a birthday, you could find a mug that says "happy birthday grandma" on it and plant grandma's favorite flower inside. Other ideas would be to find a cute canister of some sort or to find a small, rubber, child sized boot. Look for any original object that isn't a pot that could hold a flower.

Then, head to your local florist (or certain retail stores) and choose a plant or flowers that will fit inside your new "pot". Now plant the flowers and add a bow and voila!! This thoughtful gift will be enjoyed by the recipient and everyone else at the party!

For more great gift giving ideas and money saving tips, visit us at www.MomOnABudget.com

Jennifer is the owner of http://www.MomOnABudget.com. MomOnABudget is an excellent resource for money saving tips, work at home ideas, how to deorate on a budget and so much more.

Three Steps To Reduce Holiday Stress For Your Kitty

2009-02-04T18:00:00.003-08:00

Writen by Nancy E. Wigal

The annual holidays can be a very stressful time for your cat. This is the time of the year when that strange tree goes up, bright trinkets are hung (but all your cat hears is "No, no, bad kitty!" when she tries to explore them), delicious food is prepared (cats need not apply to eat it!), and lots of strange people come tramping into the house.

Some cats are in their glory, being in the middle of the tree decoration tradition, while others react to differences in the household by cowering in fear. Plus, if the holidays stress you out (raise your hand if they don't; the rest of us would like to know your secret), it'll be communicated to kitty, and she may react in kind. And sometimes that fear and stress manifests itself in your cat urinating outside her litter box.

Here are three steps you can do to reduce holiday stress for your cat.

First, keep the household changes to a minimum. Think about where you might put the Christmas tree. If you put the tree in a place that normally belongs to kitty, she could be mighty upset with you. Her reaction could range from hiding for days to urinating underneath the tree, if not trying to pull it down. Look for a location that pleases both the human and animal population in your house. If that's not possible, and knowing how cats can be, you'll have to settle for pleasing one or the other. My bet is it's whoever pays the bills.

My cat Scout thinks the Christmas tree is a new litter box location. She'll urinate on the tree cover. That's a treat to clean! I have to keep a plastic liner under the tree to facilitate the clean up. I make double certain to keep all the litter boxes clean, but she feels a need to express herself creatively at this time of the year. It's her way to contributing to the tree decorating tradition.

Next, if you own a scaredy kitty, confine her to a safe room when hosting holiday events in your home. If possible, confine your kitty in a place that guests won't stumble in. Put her food, water, and a clean litter box in the room. Stop in from time to time to reassure her that it's alright. If there aren't adequate hiding spots in her room, think about putting a box or large paper bag in with her, and encourage her to burrow in it.

Finally, purchase some natural flower essence compounds to put in her food or water all during the holiday season. There are several good remedies that are recommended for situational stress. Add a few drops in kitty's food or water twice a day, and you'll see results within 24 hours. Flowering essences are also safe for human consumption, so if you're contemplating a fall into insanity, take a few drops yourself!

You can also purchase synthetic hormone substances that come pre-packaged in a bottle that plugs into any electrical outlet in your home. This remedy lasts approximately a month.

Good luck, and happy holidays to you and your family humans and animals!

About The Author

Nancy E. Wigal

www.cat-urine-odor-advisor.com

nancy@cat-urine-odor-advisor.com

I'm a cat lover who has had cats since childhood. Quite a few of these wonderful creatures are available for adoption because they don't use the litter box, and the previous owner has grown frustrated trying to solve the inappropriate elimination problem.

I have one of those cats, and I've successfully discovered the reasons why she wouldn't use her box. I created the Cat Urine Odor Advisor to help cat owners understand the materials, solutions, and resources that work together to eliminate cat urine odor from their homes.

Memorial Day Flowers

2009-02-04T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Tenley McDonald

Monday, May 30th is Memorial Day. Your local florist can provide fresh or silk flowers for honoring the memory of your loved ones. There are many options available when taking flowers to a gravesite. Many people choose a cone arrangement, which can be placed into the ground.

Here are some things to keep in mind when taking loose fresh flowers to a gravesite. If you will be placing them in a cone, you should take a couple of supplies with you. A pair of scissors and a jug of water. When you arrive at the gravesite, place the cone in the ground. If you have floral preservative add this to the cone first. Fill the cone with water 3/4 full. Remove the leaves that fall below the water line from the stems. Finally clip off an inch or so from the bottom of the stems and place the flowers into the cone. You can then arrange the flowers to fill in the cone.

Silk floral designs can also be created. Ask your local florist for silk floral suggestions and design options for memorial pieces. Bouquets, Wreaths and Custom Memorial Design forms are all popular choices in silk flowers. You can even customize the design to reflect military service (red, white & blue flowers, flag design, etc.) to honor your loved one's service.

Memorial Day has also become a popular time for Family Reunions and Get Togethers. Consider having your local florist create centerpieces for your weekend celebration.

We suggest ordering your memorial flowers a few days ahead of time to ensure the best selection. Remember to ensure your floral order is filled to value, order direct from a local florist. No middleman, No extra fees!

Tenley McDonald- Former Florist- Now Co-Owner of http://www.flowerpowernetwork.com (Online Directory of Real Local Florists) Ms. McDonald has over 14 years experience in ~Consumer Relations/Marketing ~Customer Service Management ~Floral Design.

Christmas Coloring Pages A Way To Help Kids Learn

2009-02-03T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Kevin Ryan

Christmas coloring pages can help kids learn about the subject matter depicted on the page while they develop their hand and eye coordination. By coloring, children can work on developing their fine motor skills that are crucial, especially to preschoolers.

When children enter school, some of them have more trouble than others with simple tasks like writing and cutting with scissors. Children who have developed their fine motor skills tend to perform much better throughout their academic lives.

Holiday coloring sheets offer a young person the opportunity to gain a positive and independent attitude they'll use later in life; it gives them an outlet for expressing the way they perceive the world that surrounds them. When they see the blank figures come to life as they complete their coloring, it'll stimulate their minds and teach them about colors and shapes.

When a child sits down for a coloring session they should be given free rein to express their own personal concepts, allowing their personality and attitudes to shine through. It is fine to help the child learn how to used coloring tools, but when you step aside and let them apply their own special touch to a coloring page, they'll discover a sense of who they are and it will jump start their appetite for knowledge.

Show a genuine interest in their "masterpieces" and set aside some time to discuss their work. Christmas coloring pages can instill a confidence in a child that they'll carry with them as they enter school and begin their journey into adulthood.

Article provided by http://www.letters-from-santa.net

A place where you can get free letters from Santa, coloring & activity pages, lyrics to your favorite Christmas music, and even purchase a piece of the northpole!

Buying Artificial Christmas Trees

2009-02-01T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Rachel Johnson

Artificial Christmas trees have become quite popular in recent years because they are being made to look more and more realistic. Artificial trees have been around for a long time, but they were often expensive and just not very attractive. Now, artificial Christmas trees can be very realistic looking but they are also affordable and for the person who just doesn't have the time or desire to put up a real tree they are perfect. Artificial trees give a room the look and feel of a Christmas tree without the mess associated with a real tree so it really is a good deal for a lot of people.

Artificial Christmas trees have come along way from the cheesy trees that were sold just fifteen years ago. Now, the trees come in a variety of types and they have been patterned after real trees so that they aren't perfect, but they look like real trees. You can buy very full artificial Christmas trees, but you can also buy the tall skinny ones, too. You have as much variety with artificial Christmas trees as you do with real ones, which is nice because you can pick the type of artificial tree that appeals to you the most. Artificial Christmas trees have come such a long way that a lot of people don't know that they aren't real until they actually touch them, which is awesome!

Artificial Christmas trees appeal to a lot of people because they aren't so messy. With an artificial tree there isn't any chance of the needles falling all over the floor to torment your vacuum. There also isn't any need to water so you don't have to worry about spilling water all over your floor under the Christmas tree. There is no maintenance involved with an artificial Christmas tree, you simply put it up in your living room or wherever you want it and enjoy it!

Many people with allergies are also drawn to artificial Christmas trees because there is no scent or any pollen distributed into the air from the artificial trees. So, if you've been suffering from Christmas tree allergies for years you can enjoy a tree again, and you don't have to compromise it's beauty, which is great! Now, even people with the worst allergies can have a beautiful tree to help celebrate the holiday season!

Artificial Christmas trees are also ideal for people who are busy and just don't have the time to find a real Christmas tree and tend to it. Artificial trees are nice when you are busy because you simply take it out of its box, snap it together, adjust the branches a little bit, and you're done! You can decorate when you have the time, but the Christmas tree is done being messed with and now you can enjoy it! You can even get artificial Christmas tress that are prelit so that you do not have to mess with strands of Christmas lights, either! Artificial trees are truly the way to go if you find that you are constantly in a time crunch around the holidays.

Artificial Christmas trees can be purchased for just about every home, so if you are considering it go out and look and prepare to be impressed. The quality and beauty of these artificial trees rival that of the real ones they're just easier!

Rachel Johnson, a freelance writer, is part of a Christmas family! Christmas is a highly anticipated time of year in her home and every year new decorations are purchased and made, crafting is in full swing, and cookies are a staple! Learn more about Rachel at http://www.rachelanna.net She is a regular contributor to http://www.Christmas-Decorating-Ideas.com

Advantages Of Online Greeting Cards Over Paper Cards Part I

2009-01-30T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Ispas Marin

After some recent reports it seems that 90% of all people buy many greeting cards. Only the American people buy 7 billion greeting cards every year. in the UK the rate is about 2 billions in one year. So, if the cards purchased only by this two count ryes were aligned end-to-end they would stretch around the world 49 times.

But greeting cards are a good way to bring people joy and happiness. Trough a greeting card you can make somebody feel well, wish them al it's best in the world. So in this article we won't try make you think that greeting cards are not a good thing, just to show you that you can send your good thoughts to people that are important to you in a more environmentally way.

The real problem is that the billions of greeting cards that people buy the every year use a lot of paper. There are also some manufacturers that use recycled paper. There are also some environmentally damaging companies that use toxic printer inks. But we remind you again that there are manufacturers that use some less toxic alternatives but also they sue energy and they pollute the environment in some way.

The majority of greeting cards are saved an kept in our beloved closets or drawers. But sooner or later hey will go on garbage can. And so, again, energy is used to transport or convert the greeting cards to brand new paper.

But in the end we must be fair. How may factories that make any kind of products don't have this issues. Every thing that it's made used and disposed uses energy. So let's try to think a little. Can't we find some more environmental helpful ways to do this things? Well, you see in the greeting card case there are many solutions.

So i will try in the second part of this article to show you a few healthy ways for using greeting cards. This Could help a lot our beloved nature that we all should take care after. So read the second part of this article if you want to know more about ways to keep our environment healthy.

http://www.greetingmilitary.com is a website with free digital greeting cards for military personnel, both active and retired and for the general public that love military. And, 99% of these cards are military in nature. You only need to register to be a member and the registration is also free.

Want Christmas Day To Last Forever Then You Need To Do This

2009-01-29T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Kacy Carr

An ideal gift that you can give or receive on Christmas day has to be a token that holds affectionate meanings, and that being is a piece of ornate Jewelry. Jewelry can denote many things as in i.e. will you be my friend wife/husband or thank you for just being who you are.

Occasions are to numerous to mention for the giving of Jewelry.

Slippers become a habitual buy for dad, chocolates for mum are fattening, flowers die clothes fade, plus the entire above mentioned have a sell by date. So after they have gone that Christmas is forgotten. By giving the right gift then memories are forever.

People intend to treasure their jewelry all because it was given by someone special and that person being you will stay forever in there hearts

Put a little sparkle into this Christmas by lighting up the eyes of a loved one by presenting them with jewels embedded or hanging from a piece of warm gold or cool silver.

If tradition is upheld then there are no surprises for the family all because they know what to expect like chocolates slippers etc.

Have you ever thought that they love surprises too? Well it is now time to change all that by giving them the most memorable Christmas ever by breaking tradition. This will prove to be exciting for you also.

Fashion Jewelry designs today for men and women are phenomenal, expect to be spoilt for choice.

Choosing and deciding can be difficult but how about a locket for mum where she can place a photo of your pretty mug. I would imagine dad would love more time on his hands, and should little sister be given a musical box full of trendy trinkets then maybe she will leave yours alone. Brothers/son or husbands are not hard to please if gifted with a 9ct gold signet ring signifying how much he means to you.

Many treasure jewels with heartfelt memories where we have loved or lost someone close, hold onto those feelings with an item of jewelry denoting infinity together forever.

Handed down as an heirloom Jewelry will always have a story behind it to be told for generations to come. Let that special person in your life be remembered forever and ever and ever and ever.

December the 25th a day for celebrations and spreading happiness. Why not spread a little more by putting a smile on a loved ones face with the best present that they could receive, which is MEMORIES of this special day and the special person that made them feel special too.

Have you a Passion for fashion Jewelry then I have found just the site for you with sparkling pieces. Still under construction but do not let that deter you from from browsing and making this Christmas special http://www.blingblingjewelrystore.com

Christmas Tree Decorating 4 Steps To The Perfect Christmas Tree

2009-01-28T18:00:00.001-08:00

Writen by Lee-Ann Raddatz

You have your Christmas tree in place, be it real or artificial, and now you need to decorate it. Follow the four steps below and achieve a beautifully decorated Christmas tree this year.

Step One: Lights.
Place the lights on the Christmas tree first. Wind and secure the strands of lights to the branches in the centre of the tree coming out no further than mid way along the branches. The exception to this rule is when the lights are novelty lights such as lanterns or candles, which need to be displayed at the ends of the branches for best effect. Be generous with your lights as they give the tree an opulent effect and give it impact when viewed at night. I often use 2 to 3 strands of lights on a 6-foot Christmas tree.

Step two: Garlands.
Next come the garlands. Drape them over the branches in a horizontal, looping fashion towards the centre of the tree. Placing garlands midway along the branches can make the tree appear fuller, while leaving space for hanging ornaments.

Step Three: Ornaments.
Place the ornaments on the branches, both on the ends and towards midway to fill any gaps. Graduate the size of ornaments from small at the top to larger at the base. Working with one style of ornament at a time (eg gold balls), distribute them evenly over the tree. Follow with the next style of ornament such as bells and distribute them evenly. By working with one style at a time the ornaments are evenly mixed over the entire tree. Continue until the tree looks adequately "dressed". Stand back and view the tree from different viewpoints, identifying gaps and filling with additional ornaments. For an elegant tree keep the decorations simple. Limit the number of styles of ornament to two or three; or work with a particular color scheme to suit your décor.

Step Four: Final touches.
A tree decorated to step three will look well decorated. However sometimes a final touch can make a difference and provide that extra "pizzazz". Finish the tree with final touches by attaching bows, candles (artificial for safety reasons) or flowers to the very ends of branches. What makes them a final touch? They are significantly different from the other ornaments to stand out and as such you do not need many but ensure they are distributed evenly over the tree. Another touch could be the draping of tinsel from each branch (individual strands not bunches) to imitate the effect of icicles. This can be tedious but worth the effort. Of course we cannot forget the Christmas tree topper in what ever shape or form star, angel, etc.

All that is now required is to place the gifts beneath the branches, breakout the eggnog, sit back and enjoy the festive season. Merry Christmas everyone. May this year's Christmas tree be the best one ever.

Lee-Ann Raddatz comes from a family that has always celebrated Christmas in a big way. She now continues the tradition with her young family. Decorating the Christmas tree has been elevated to an artform in the family and is a source of greatly enjoyed, family rivalry. Visit her site http://simply-christmas-trees.com/ and http://mychristmas-crafts.com/ for more Christmas ideas.

Tips To Choose Sexy Adult And Couple Halloween Costumes

2009-01-27T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Galia Ivanova

I searched the net a lot and gathered tons of information about how to choose the best Halloween costumes. Most of it was pretty confusing, so I combined the good pieces of info with my own ideas and I got this amazing list of tips on how to choose the most unique Halloween costumes.
The following tips will help you for sure - no matter if you are choosing a costume for you, your partner, or for both of you (in this case you'll need a couple Halloween costumes).
Tips for adults and couples
1. You are invited to a Halloween party - consider the guest list (children, adults, teens) and if it is a themed party (latest events, historical) before choosing your costume.
2. Now when you know the guests and the type of party, it is time for you to decide whether you want to be unique or to wear an old favorite costume.
Brainstorm a list of ideas. If you go as a couple, ask your partner do it together.
Here is a small list of ideas I brainstormed myself:
Pirate couple very popular (as usual) and especially for this Halloween my favorite
Vampire couple more traditional and in the spirit of Halloween; if originally designed you will be the stars at the party
Batman and Catwoman already a classic couple, but could also do great separately
Princess Leah and Hans Solo a classic couple for all times fans of "Star Wars"
Queen Amidala and Anakin Skywalker the newer version of the above couple and also great costume idea for "Star Wars" fans
Flapper Girl and Gangster if you are fans of 1920's old movies; then girls grab a straight, shapeless shift dress and a roaring twenties costume of gangster for the boys, and your couple is complete
Playboy bunny and Hugh Hefner I needed a sexy couple costume to finish my short list, and what is sexier than that couple, especially the female part
3. After your brainstorm, it is time to decide if you are going to purchase it online or at you local Halloween store, or just rent it, or make it yourself.
I do not recommend you the last one (do it yourself) because if you go as a couple phew, you'll get a lot of work to do and will take you a lot, I mean a lot, more time than just purchase a couple of unique ready made costumes for you and your partner.
You can still buy new Halloween costumes at very reasonable prices such as discount Halloween costumes or costumes at clearance in some big online stores. You will be amazed by the huge variety of great adult and couple costumes at special prices.
4. Make up, masks, wigs and other Halloween accessories (jewelry, shoes, gloves) use them as far as your costume allows you or obliges you. Do everything possible and even the impossible to stand out in the crowd of costumes with your unique and great adult or couple Halloween costumes.
If you choose a scary costume then use a proper make up to make scar, wart, blood, cuts on your face or body or any other variety of deformities to add the realistic touch you costume needs.
For the more adult and couple Halloween costumes ideas, please visit our newly added site feature at http://www.clothesbest.com/costumes
Get more tips on how to choose the most unique Halloween costumes and check the latest hot offers about sexy couple Halloween costumes at blog.clothesbest.com.

Chance Or Choice

2009-01-26T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Devon D. Harris

It is that time of year when once again New Year's Resolutions abound. We kick off the year with a myriad of changes we want to bring about in our lives. Sadly, with each passing year we set the same resolutions with eager anticipation and watch in bewilderment as the habits we are trying to break become more entrenched and the results we desire to achieve slip further and further away. Trapped in a vicious cycle many of us have resigned ourselves to the que sera sera mentality; setting resolutions and hoping that things will simply work out. If insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results, then that is how I would describe most people when it comes to their New Year's resolution.
New Year's Resolutions don't work because they leave too much up to chance. Like a bumble bee bouncing from flower to flower, most people wander through life knowing that they want to harvest the nectar but allow themselves to be continually lured away by the attractiveness of one flower or another; so that by the end of the day they end up right back where they started. Success comes from making deliberate choices coupled with a specific plan to accomplish the goal.
One popular New Year's Resolution is weight loss. This is the time of year when health clubs enjoy their highest enrollment of new members. If all the people who bought new memberships attended the gym regularly, there simply would not be enough room to accommodate everyone. Most people don't attend the sport club regularly and the vast majority quit altogether after a few months, "secured" with the thought that simply having a gym membership will allow them to work on their resolutions of losing the extra pounds. When the results elude them they end up seeing themselves as powerless to achieve them. This is typical of people who live their lives by chance.
In December, the original members of the Jamaica Bobsled Team were awarded the Trail Blazer Award by the Jamaica Cultural Alliance in Los Angeles. Three of us, Dudley, Chris and I made the trip. The fourth member, Michael, was unable to attend. As I listened to the accolades being showered upon us and heard words such as trailblazers, audacious, determined, dreamers and so on being used to describe us, I began to wonder to myself, what was it that really accounted for our successful bid at the Calgary Olympic Games? It was difficult for me to identify any one thing, but if I had to settle for just one, I would have to say choice. We chose to make it happen.
How does this translate to life in general? We didn't just set a goal to get to the Olympics, join the International Bobsleigh Federation and then do what most people do after they join a health club. This is what we did; and if I might add, all those who live their lives by choice do as well.
We set a goal and created a plan.
The goal was to qualify for and be competitive in the Calgary Olympics. Let me hastily point out here that our goal was not clear enough. What exactly does it mean to be competitive? Having an unclear goal, though, is still better that not having one at all. It was obvious we had no bobsled skills and we needed them in a hurry. So we started off in Jamaica working on our push starts. Learning and perfecting the techniques as best as we could. Next we headed to Calgary, Canada to get ice time (unfortunately we had a pretty warm winter in Jamaica that year).
While the drivers were learning the nuances of safely negotiating a bobsled track from top to bottom, we continued practicing our push starts on a real push track. We then headed over to Innsbruck, Austria to compete in a few local races and an FIBT sponsored World Cup race. We spent the month of January in Lake Placid, New York, fine tuning what we learned in the three prior months before heading off to the Olympics in February. When you have a plan you are far more likely to succeed.
In 1953 Yale conducted a study of its graduates. For twenty years the subjects were interviewed and followed. The results showed that the top 3% earned more money than the other 97% combined. The only difference was that the top 3% had written goals AND a plan of action to achieve them. Harvard did a similar study of its business school graduates in 1979. They found that other than "to have fun and enjoy themselves," in other words, live life by chance, 84% of the class had no goals at all. Thirteen percent had goals but had not created a plan, while the remaining 3% had written goals and a plan of action. The results showed that the 13% earned more than the 84% without goals and the 3% earned more than ten times the 87% combined.
Get Committed
Commit yourself everyday to doing the things that will lead you to your goals. I've heard it said that the successful person practices six or so productive habits daily while those that lag behind repeat six or so errors in judgment every day. Commit to a positive course of action everyday regardless of how tired, frustrated or challenged you might feel. We practiced our push starts for three hours every afternoon during the week and six hours on a Saturday morning in the boiling sun. We braved sub-zero degree weather, risking frost bite, but it didn't matter; we were committed.
Improve a little at a time
When someone sets a New Year's Resolution to loose weight, they often start off the year by throwing out all the junk food and starting an intensive exercise program. As is often the case, in short order they are back to where they started. The change was just too dramatic. Don't get me wrong. It is important to totally commit yourself mentally and emotionally to the goal, but you must take baby steps.
We didn't have team selections, fly up to Calgary the next day and start sprinting off the top of the track. Instead, we practiced the start in Jamaica, eventually went to Calgary and started at the halfway point on the track, before going to the top. Even after we had progressed to the top we didn't go blasting off. We first sat in the sled and had someone nudge us off. After a few runs we started walking and then jogging at the start. It was weeks before we ever started running full out from the starting blocks. I think one of the reasons we crashed in the four-man race was because that was the fastest we had ever been at the start up to that point. We were improving everyday.
Long-term success, including the realization of your New Year's Resolutions, requires a dedication to continuous improvement. The Japanese call it Kaizen. Start with one thing that will make a small difference in your life and faithfully practice it. Tomorrow, next week, maybe even next month, add another. Be consistent with this and you will be well on your way to becoming the person you want to be. Do you think you can improve at one area of your life by 1% every day of the year? If your answer is yes, and you did, by the end of the year you would have had an increase of 3,741% due to compounding. Albert Einstein said that compound interest is the most powerful force in the universe. Don't just make resolutions; create a plan today to compound the baby steps to your goals.
As Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "Everything in nature...go by law and not luck." Commit to living your life by choice and not chance.
Keep on Pushing!
Copyright (C) 2005 Devon Harris
All rights reserved worldwide
www.devonharrislive.com
The contents of this E-zine may be copied, reproduced, or freely distributed for all nonprofit purposes without the consent of the author as long as the author's name, copyright notice, and contact information are included.

5 Tips To Getting Extra Money For Christmas Shopping

2009-01-26T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Nicole Anderson

Christmas shopping is getting more and more expensive each year. With over 70% of Americans reported to be living paycheck to paycheck, where does the money come from for Christmas shopping? Here are 5 tips to getting some extra money for holiday shopping:
1 Sell items on Ebay
Everyone is buying right now. Why not have them buy what you have for sale? All different types of items sell on ebay the clothes your kids never even wore that still have the tags on them, DVD's, collectible items sitting around just collecting, and any other "hot" items you may have lying around.
2 Garage Sale
Do a little 'Winter Cleaning" and make room for those Christmas decorations and presents. A Saturday morning garage sale can make you $50-$500, or more. One person's junk is another's treasure!
3 Collect your Unclaimed Money
There is an estimated $25 billion dollars of unclaimed money in the U.S. On the Oprah Winfrey TV Show it was announced 8 out of 9 Americans have unclaimed money.This money comes from many places. For example it could be an old checking or savings account your forgot about, an inheritance, savings bonds, uncashed checks or money orders, the list goes on and on. This money is yours and just sitting there waiting for you to claim it. A simple search in a quality database that includes all states and federal unclaimed money could mean a check in your mailbox!
A simple search in a quality database that includes all states and federal unclaimed money could mean a check in your mailbox! www.cashunclaimed.com is the largest unclaimed money site and is a great place to conduct your unclaimed money search.
4 Holiday Job or Overtime
Companies are hiring for the Christmas shopping rush. Usually they are simple retail positions that don't require specialized training or experience. A couple nights or days a week could be $1000 by Christmas!
If you are paid hourly at your job, and have enough work and flexibility with your schedule, you can put in some extra hours.
Workers who have restaurant jobs can pick up extra shifts.
Special Note: Many people claim 0 exemptions on their W4. If you have children, own a home, etc. increase your exemptions to the correct number. Your employer can assist you in filling out a new W4. This can mean an extra $50-$400 per paycheck!
5 Reduce Expenses
You can reduce simple monthly expenses to keep more of the money you already have. Here are a couple money saving ideas:
*Eat in instead of dinning out A family of 4 that eats out twice a week spends about $100 per week.
*Pay minimum payments this month on credit cards Don't make this a habit, but for December it will give you a little extra rather than racking up more credit card debt
*Leave your ATM card at home, carry a little cash for what you need
*Make coffee at home and skip your morning latte (you'll live, really you will)
Now that you have the extra money Merry Christmas Shopping!
Nicole Anderson offers more information about unclaimed money at Cash Unclaimed. Would you like to receive your lost funds check without searching 100+ individual databases? A simple unclaimed property search could mean a check in your mailbox. Click on http://www.cashunclaimed.com for a free money search, that includes all state and federal databases, and locate your missing money today!

Cashless Gifts

2009-01-25T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Adriana Copaceanu

Sometimes gifts that are truly from your heart have no cash value. But the value to the recipient can be more than any amount of money could provide. These gifts are truly from your heart to theirs.
Look at the person's life and what they need. Maybe grandpa can't climb the ladder to prune his trees or bending down to those shrubs is more difficult than it used to be. Someone just broke their legs and lives in an apartment with a dog. Walking that dog is a major concern for them.
If you just look, you will find many things to do which are cashless gifts from you.
-Volunteer to work for a week at their favorite charity. You may put up signs, file in their office, call for donations. All work will be appreciated by your recipient.
-Frequently parents would love to go out for an evening or spend the weekend away. They need a babysitter they can rely on. You come to their rescue and give them peace of mind to enjoy their evening or weekend away.
-Weeding the garden can be formidable by yourself or when you are physically able to handle it. Your gift of doing that can put a smile on their face and their neighbors.
-Volunteer to take their dog for a walk every day for a week or a month. If the person is injured, volunteer to walk the dog until they are back on their feet. Then go along and help walk the dog for another week.
-Offer to wash and wax granddad's car. Don't forget to hand scrub the wheels and polish the chrome.
-Climbing the ladder to prune the fruit trees is hard work but you might get a fruit pie in the spring.
-Everyone loves a good back rub or foot massage. Take along lotion in their favorite scent.
-The most luxurious gift. Give a manicure and pedicure. For someone you live with, service breakfast in bed for a week or every Sunday for a month.
-Help clean out the garage and take things to local thrift store or to the dump.
Adriana Copaceanu provides people with creative gift ideas that don't blow the bank. Gift Baskets for Baby, Birthday and Beyond, are just some gift ideas you'll find at her site: http://www.abcgiftsandbaskets.com. Want regular reminders on gift-giving? Sign up for her free monthly newsletter at http://www.abcgiftsandbaskets.com/gift-news-signup.htm

Five Tips For Holiday Office Party Behavior

2009-01-25T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Liz Ryan

Holiday office parties stick in our minds under two categories: either a Deadly Dull Evening or Someone Really Embarrassed Himself. The hard part is navigating the middle ground between these two extremes. Here are some tips for enjoying yourself at your employer's holiday gathering without earning the rep "goofball."
EAT FIRST. You should eat before you arrive. If the company serves a sit-down dinner, it's more likely than not a rubber-chicken sort of menu anyway, so eat something healthy to fill up a bit, and stave off intoxication, before you get there.
DRESS FOR AN OFFICE PARTY, NOT THE CLUB. Many people, and young people more than many, have trouble choosing the appropriate clothes for an office holiday party. If it's an evening affair, you want to look nice - but looking nice and looking like you're off to the club are not one and the same. You need to keep it in check at a holiday office party - that means not as much exposed flesh as you'd bare at a dance club, for instance. You want to look dressed-up (if it's a dressy party) but not ready to get down.
DON'T HANG WITH YOUR HOMIES. If you really want to have fun, stick with your buds from Accounting or the group you know best, and just talk and drink. That's fine. But if you want to take this opportunity to make a good impression on others, including higher-ups, then make a point of meeting some of them. Prepare a little speech: "Hi, I'm Jackson from Real Estate - we haven't met before." Get to know some new people - this is your chance!
BE PREPARED FOR INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION. If you venture to chat with the CFO, be sure you know what's up (at a general level) with the company's finances and strategic initiatives, so you don't embarrass yourself. If, for instance, the CFO tosses out the name of your company's latest acquisition (which was widely reported in the media, you should know what's talking about.
LEAVE EARLY. Don't be the last person to leave the joint - take off a bit earlier, when you're still sober, your hair still looks tidy, and you're still speaking coherently. Have fun, but leave a good impression.
See? You'll be in bed by midnight. Or, if you're still feeling the urge to party, you can hightail it over to your favorite club and put those party clothes to good use.
Liz Ryan is a former Fortune 500 HR executive, a workplace expert and the CEO of WorldWIT, the world's largest online community for professional women. Liz writes and speaks about the new-millennium workplace. She lives and works in Boulder, Colorado.

Food For Thought Why Foodies Should Look Forward To Holidays

2009-01-24T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Sean Carter

It's a truth worldwide - no celebration is ever complete without food. And it's not strange therefore that most festivals - religious, social, political or whatever its genre might be has the concept of a principal food attached to it. A further testimonial to this is the fact that almost every social group across geographical locations has some festival that corresponds to its principle harvest. A major reason why Canada should have a separate Thanksgiving Day, apart from the traditional historical stories of origin of the holiday, is the overriding speculation that the country had its harvest at a close but separate period of time. Whatever the reasons (food lovers, I guess, wouldn't need one) the fact remains that feasting, from time immemorial has remained one of the principal attractions of any celebration. Here is a list of holiday foods for food lovers to look forward to - July 4th - barbeque.
The 4th of July celebrations are almost incomplete without the customary Barbeque. In different recipies and cooking styles barbeques set our taste buds rolling on this day. Vegetarians and vegans aren't left out either. Most popular food joints have come up with special vegan and vegetarian barbeques to make their day too. Thanksgiving - Turkey.
Gobble! Gobble! Guess what? It's the Thanksgiving turkey calling you out to have a turkey-fic time feasting with friends, family or your sweetheart. Thanksgiving instantly calls to mind the big fat golden-brown turkey sitting neat on the Thanksgiving dinner table and stirring up the olfactory senses in its irresistible flavor. Yes, that's just it. No Thanksgiving menu was ever complete without this stuffed bird featuring on it. Thanksgiving is Thanksgiving only with the good fat Thanksgiving turkey on its menu. So, the Thanksgiving turkey has gradually become one inextricably significant symbol of this holiday. Christmas - Cake.
Perhaps the most popular holiday food worldwide is the Christmas Cake. Almost every family in major parts of the world celebrates this day with a cake. Over years the Christmas cake has assumed paramount importance in the festivities of this event, so much so that it is now an important symbol of the festival itself. Sweetest Day - Candy.
One of the classic recipes for Sweetest Day is the candy. Though the market is flooded with candy in all kinds of flavors and taste, but the fun and appeal of the home made candy is something else. All you need is milk, sugar, cocoa, stick oleo, vanilla and peanut butter, mix it all and boil for three to five minutes, then let it cool down and presto! You've got your own candy made at home. Wrap it in a flashy candy-wrapping paper and distribute to all of your candy loving friends and relatives. Rosh Hashanah - Apple dipped in honey.
Rosh Hashanah is observed as a holiday which should be celebrated with the entire family having elaborate feasts including the traditional foods. It is the time to enjoy some of the soul food prepared with the love and best wishes. A special dish prepared with honey is made for the blessings for apples and honey exclusively on Rosh Hashanah. More modern versions of this traditional food incorporate special flavored honey or creamed honey. Diwali ( India ) - Sweets.
One of the long standing Diwali foods is the traditional sweet called Gujia, a delicious sweetmeat made from flour, khoya, a kind of hard, dried cream, sugar and raisins for toppings.
A similar delicacy, called Kheer is one of the most popular recipes during Diwali, prepared from milk, lots of sugar and rice, it's quite like whipped cream, but much richer and thick. This really yummy sweetmeat can be served garnished with cashew nuts, raisins and cardamoms.
One of the staple dishes on Diwali is the Malpua. This mouthwatering sweet is particularly popular among the people of Eastern India. Made from flour, milk, curd and sugar its preparation is very similar to the cooking of pancake. When served with pista or cream, Malpua, can give your taste buds a joyride!
The most well known sweet of Diwali is undeniably the Laddu. Popular among young and old alike, Laddu made from gram flour, ghee and sugar is the most common sweet as well. Chopped almond and raisins toppings add to its gastronomic appeal. Eid ul-Adha Beef.
The Muslims worldwide are as much zealous about the Eid-ul-Adha foods as they are about its rituals and customs. It's very much an integral part of the Eid-ul-Adha celebrations. Every Muslim family takes great care to prepare the exclusive dishes on Eid-ul-Adha. Sometimes even the whole family decides on what to include and what not. The idea is to make the menu over-the-top and include foods which are not regularly eaten on other ordinary days.
Starting with the main course to the deliciously delectable desserts, Eid-ul-Adha menu is sure to set your taste-buds craving for more! Most Eid-ul-Adha items are focused on meat. This meat at the centre of the Eid-ul-Adha menu is primarily the sacrificial meat of the Eid-ul-Adha ritual. By tradition, the Muslims give a part of the sacrificial meat to the poor on Eid-ul-Adha and share the rest with their friends and kins. Beef, of course, is the meat of choice! You can go for a number of toothsome preparations with beef like the beef balls, beef kababs, beef rolls, beef biriyani, beef stew and many more. Shahi mutton Biriyanis, rice dishes, Afghani korma, meatballs followed by the sweet gulab jamuns are often an Eid-ul-Adha favorite among the Muslims.
Sean Carter writes on holidays, events and celebrations around the world. He also writes on family, relationships,womens issues birthdays, inspiration, religion, love and friendship. He is a writer with special interest in ecard industry. He writes for 123greetings.com .

New Years Resolution Why Not Resolve To Take Back Your Life

2009-01-24T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Melissa J. A. Carey

It's time once again for the dreaded New Year's Resolutions. Most of us make them; few of us keep them for more than a few months. New Year's resolutions range anywhere from loosing weight to being more organized to finishing your education and the list goes on. But, have you ever thought about resolving to get your life back? "What does this mean?" you ask.
Getting your life back means taking control of your lifeMaking deliberate choices about how you spend your time, so that you can have a balanced lifestyle. If you often feel stressed or hurried, this may be a good sign that you need some help with managing your lifestyle. A balanced lifestyle means having the time to choose doing the things you enjoy, rather than the things that you have to do! You may want your family and friends time to come before the errands and the cooking and the business project and the driving, but you just don't know how to balance it all. If so, here are some tips that are easy to stick to and will help you get your life back.
Learn to say No! One of your problems may be the inability to say "No" to projects or things asked of you. Before you say "Yes" to any added task, say that you will need some time to think about it. This will allow you to make a list of pros and cons and see if you really have the time for the task. If the list of cons outweighs the pros, give your "nay" assertively. You will free up your invaluable time and the person asking will be grateful that you gave the task consideration.
Learn to delegate! Delegation of things to those living in your household is always an option. After all, they live there too! If things like errands or cleaning take up your valuable time, there are plenty of services out there that can help. For a small fee you can get the convenience of getting time back by delegating the grocery shopping and the post office runs. Hire a Personal Assistant! Twin Cities Errands is one of those errands services that can help you with the tasks that take your time away. They service the Minneapolis St. Paul Area. Their website is www.twincitieserrands.com or they can be reached at 612-207-3135. Errands services can also refer you to handypersons and cleaners!
Cut out what is not important! Make a list of your schedule and put your tasks into two columns: essential tasks and non-essential tasks. Make the resolution to take away all non-essential tasks so that you can spend that time on other things.
Make time for you! You say, "I have no time for me". Well, do whatever possible to change that. Spend one hour a week doing some sort of stress relief activity like reading, having a quite time of reflection or doing your hobby, even if it means waking up an hour early. It is worth it for your peace-of-mind and stress reduction is healthy. You will notice that adding this enjoyment to your life will change your mood and outlook.
Get organized and clean! So many of us spend so much time cleaning because we let it pile up before our eyes. Instead, do damage control. Take 30 minutes each day to clean as much as you can, or organize as much as you can. Set a timer to help you out. You will notice that being consistent in this will free up your time and make you feel better about your surroundings.
Take these tips and figure out how to take back your life. Fight for a balanced lifestyle! Take the time to enjoy and do what matters most to you! It's a New Year's Resolution that you CAN keep.
About The Author
Melissa J.A. Carey is owner of Twin Cities Errands, a service that gives people back their time. She also has corporate training experience on stress reduction. She is married and dedicates her time to her husband, family and friends as well as helps others in lifestyle management. For more information on Melissa J.A. Carey or Twin Cities Errands, go to www.twincitieserrands.com or call 612-207-3135.
twincitieserrands@yahoo.com

Animatronic Halloween Props Cardboard Carpentry

2009-01-23T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Douglas Trouette

One of the most inexpensive ways to create stonewalls in your home/haunt is by using good-'ol cardboard boxes. Boxes laid flat and painted to the desired effect are relatively easy and cheap methods of creating stonewall effects.
The availability of the material is stunning. In fact, most people and businesses are more than willing to give up large, bulky cardboard boxes taking up precious space. It's incredibly lightweight and the amount of cardboard to re-do an average bedroom can be hefted by one person.
Another plus is that if your cache of cardboard is destroyed.SO WHAT? More is always available, and except for painting time and material, free seems incredibly cost effective.
Cardboard is not only for just good for covering walls, it can be used structurally to create walls, columns, and facades and look good while doing so.
And the all so important off-season storage dilemma is covered here as well. Since cardboard is easily folded, it stacks well vertically or horizontally.
Acquiring Cardboard
So right now you're probably thinking about you local grocer and how he helped you out with some boxes on your last move. Well unless carrots start growing six feet tall forget it!
We need square footage with as little piecing together as possible. Washers, dryers, water heaters, and cabinets are excellent boxes for wall work. Refrigerator and freezer boxes are the crème-de-la-crème of cardboard scavenging.
The best place to find ALL these kinds of boxes is in new residential construction. It's hard not to tell when the plumbers have "topped out" all the fixtures in the building as a huge stack of boxes appears in the waste heap. That's right Waste. I refer to these occurrences as "Box Days"
You may want to ask permission from the sites superintendent to avoid unneeded arrests, but I can almost guarantee that nobody's going to object to you removing bulky waste from the housing tract.
Kitchen and bathroom cabinets that have been purchased from major production outlets ship boxed. They tend not to be cut like someone was chewing their way out, like some washer, dryer and water heater boxes are, as the heavy appliances are maneuvered out of their boxes and into place. Keeping an eye out on a tract or two of new houses is key to discovering box days.
Box days also occur when people move into their new home as well. You would be surprised at how many people clean through their stuff AFTER the move to the new house. Usually these boxes are either driven or carried around the corner to a trash heap and left there.
You can also score bonus finds in move-in rubbish such as motors, trim, paint, gears and old household stuff to turn into Halloween goodies and nobody really cares if they are removed.
Actually they're not even supposed to be there in the first place.
By all means explore other venues where large boxed items are opened frequently, such as freight warehouses and import companies, but in this authors opinion, new and developing housing is the source worth watching.
The GOOD, the BAD, and the UGLY
Corrugated board usually consists of outer flat sheets (veneers) of puncture resistant paper, sandwiching a central "filling" of corrugated short fiber paper (fluting), which resists crushing under compression and gives cushioning protection to the box's contents. The cardboard has high end-to-end strength along the corrugated flutes, so the box is normally designed with the corrugation running vertically for stacking strength.
The veneers and corrugated medium are glued together along the outsides of the peaks and valleys of each flute, normally using starch adhesives. The starch adhesives are usually derived from corn, wheat or potato.
We are concerned with the double face cardboard because of its availability. Occasionally building materials such as sheetrock mud, lacquer, and cement will splash onto the sheets of cardboard and dry while in the trash. Most substances will come off with a simple brush of the hand or with a stiff broom. You can remove more stubborn areas with a square nosed shovel, inverted so the underside of the scoop is up. This will prevent the shovel from digging into the corrugation.
Cardboard that has been exposed to water, rain, or other moisture will separate and delaminate the veneers from the corrugation.
Preparations
So first thing you want to do to get started is to cut the flaps free at the top and the bottom of the box so the flaps remain intact. Find the seam where the machine glued the box together and cut along the crease originally made when the box was assembled. Don't bother trying to save the flap here as it usually tears the veneer from the corrugation.
Lay the box flat on the ground so all of the flaps are visible. Notice the notches die cut into the sheet where the flaps once folded? Run a piece of 2" masking tape, starting from the outside edge of the box, all along the notch, plus about 2-3" beyond and into the field. Repeat for all the notches then walk or slide your foot along the tape to secure it well then turn the sheet over. We are going to tape these same notches again only a little bit different.
This time start your strips of tape about 2-3" inside the field, similar to the other sides ending point, but when you reach the outside edge, run the tape about 4-6" longer than the boxes edge. Secure the strip with your foot then carefully fold this extra tape over and onto the tape from the first side.
This will strengthen and fill the gap created by the notch. The extra tape that is folded over the edge to the other side prevents it from tearing into flaps again.
Delaminated cardboard should be trimmed back to areas where the glue still adheres the layers together. Using a sharp razor knife and a long, strait cutting edge makes this a simple task.
Trim any holes up by cutting a square or rectangle area around the damage. Then cut a scrap of cardboard that fits inside this area loosely(1/8" gap). Taping both sides of cardboard with a 4" overlap beyond any 90 degree angled corners is good to secure it in place.
Most rips and tears in cardboard can be re-joined simply by pushing them together, and taping both sides with 1" overlapping strips of 2" tape until the piece feels sturdy along the tear As always, any rips that tears through the outside edge should be taped with a 4-6" overlapping strip.
Whatever you do, don't spend more time taping together small pieces than you could finding a decent box! Before taping up sheets like jigsaw puzzles, stop and evaluate the overall useful square footage you have to deal with. Is there more than 80% of the box intact? Do I have to fill a lot of punctures and tears?
A box with 20% fill and repair is almost too much work considering the availability of boxes. YOU have to ultimately decide if a box is worth your efforts or not.
Shortages of money for tape can be a factor. I always keep on the lookout for discarded rolls of partially used tape while digging through the construction rubble. A lot of contractors leave behind all different kinds of tape. Ductape (not very paintable but strong as hell!) is always in abundance around tract home sites. The tape the stucco lathers use around here to seal their 3/4" foam board is THE BEST for our intended application. It is pretty much a veneer with adhesive and it paints just like cardboard.
Painting
First off, lets cover some of my frugal basics of paint and painting supplies. Never throw away rollers unless you absolutely have to! Remember that most Halloween paints are black and grays, so washing out the color is near impossible. If enough paint is washed out the roller it becomes soft and fluffy and totally re-useable. It will still be black or gray but rinsing out enough paint to save some money isn't that much work.
Most hardware stores, back in the paint section, have what they call an "oops" area. An oops area is where all the custom coloring is done.......sometimes twice. The quart, gallon, and five gallon containers from the employees first attempts at the customers colors are usually reduced price steals. Where else are you going to find five gallons of black 30 year exterior latex enamel for $15.00? Concrete paints, porch and deck polymers, and the always abundant latex varieties are all victims to colorant errors. This is something I do faithfully every time I enter my Home Depot or Orchard Supply Hardware stores. Always seems to be a gallon black or a shade of gray in there all year long. Beware of the paint Nazi who thinks she can tell you how to paint and with what. PVA primer CAN be pigmented.
First thing you're going to do roll on the mortar color first. For the mortar I use a lighter shade of gray than the stone color.....which is best black. Very dark and forbidding. You're going to want to get an extension pole for your roller or this might get hard. Broom handles work in a pinch and are even the right thread count. I then park all the vehicles on the street to free up room in the drive. You want fairly firm ground so the job of rolling paint evenly goes easy. Concrete is ideal but I've seen some dirt driveways that will work just as well given all the small stones are raked or swept so as not to poke through the cardboard and to insure even paint coverage. What will not work well is the lawn or your neighbors lawn so just use his driveway instead.
When all the cardboard has been laid out on the driveway and in the garage, I roll a heavy single coat on, being sure to roll the paint into the creases created from the folding of corners in it's previous life as a box. The advantage to mass painting is the dry time alone from opening up a can again and again. As of this writing, the Home Depot in my town doesn't stock them anymore since they informed me that they are just going to hire some teenagers to use the forms to make the pre-made concrete stones they sell now.....hmm.
Orchard Supply to the rescue once again. The concrete molds have been in stock there forever. So get a walkway mold and align it with on one side or the other of your painted sheet. It's easiest to use a colored pencil similar in color to the color of your base coat. This makes it not so noticeable and you don't always stay within the lines so much, right kids? I tried using a Sharpie on one sheet and I hated myself for all the dark, heavy black lines left to cover. Using the mold upside down, trace the contour of the stones out onto the cardboard. Now, lightly scribe the two outside flanges where the pattern forms a "v" on one side and an "a" on the other side made by the mold's outside shape. These will be the keys to line up the next areas to be scribed since there's no concrete to line up the mold with again and the mold shape itself makes it hard the judge the distance from the last stone to the next to keep the mortar thickness the same. Once I can see the rocks I can't help but miss the ass in my face....yummy.
They best part about this next phase is you get to sit down and paint the stones. The cardboard isn't all that uncomfortable, so the whole family can pitch in and help. I use one of those small foam bushes with soft little angled bristles. It is set on a curved handle with comfort in mind because painting this way with a standard brush would require you to post your wrists while painting to stay within the lines. By posting I mean setting your wrist down on a surface much like when you write with a pencil. but this is like moving a matchbox car with a tight turn radius around the rock patterns we scribed earlier. Another plus of this curved handle is it allows you to dip the brush directly into the paint can to wet the foam pad. This eliminates the pouring of paint into other smaller containers which wastes paint.
In no time at all you'll have each stones outline down to a rhythm. Most all the stones can be completed in two independent outline strokes and one more stroke to fill. Try to have an adult go first, stenciling ahead of any children. We know how eager they can be sometimes. Once the mortar coat is dry to the touch, you can stack all the sheets into one pile. Try to complete one sheet at a time. Stencil all of it then paint all the stones as well. Trying to complete a dozen at once is way too overwhelming of a task, believe you me. The stack is way soft now and everyone shouldn't mind painting for a little bit. No need to have perfectly painted stones because "The Powers That Be" didn't waste His/Her/Their time making them identical so neither should you.
Grommets
This is one of the greatest tools ever overlooked. see Figure 5. The grommet installation kit. Stores like Harbor Freight sells kits like this for about $4.99 and comes with something like 100 or so grommets.
The grommet gives us a strong anchor point without worrying about any tearing or ripping or having nails or staples pull away from the wall from it's weight. A small round punch is used to make a perfect circle. I use a small scrap of plywood underneath the cutting operation so as not to dull the cutter. A steel base with 1/2 the grommet poking through the hole is placed below the cardboard. The other 1/2 of the grommet is placed on top of this with a steel punch made to curl the soft metal grommet in the base then smacked with a hammer till it seats down. Do not beat the piss out of it since the grommet since it crimps itself onto the cardboard. You would wind up with an even bigger hole that I'm not quite sure they make grommets for.
Another large plus of grommet is that while you are happily making holes for nails and hooks you might not realize that you are also putting in holes made perfect for bungee cords, the grommets intended purpose. Now you can suspend your cardboard walls overhead and make them ceilings. Shifting walls and ceilings are easily made by stretching out a sheet of cardboard so it is suspended mid air. Using a PVC or 2 x 2 lightweight frame to stretch and anchor the bungee's to. Moving the frame can easily be accomplished with air rams or motors. Even easier is to suspend the sheet on a frame and have it anchored so you can manipulate the cardboard itself. Probably somewhat safer as well.
Cardboard is very versatile and very common. Let's give a real haunted look instead of those shiny black plastic bag ceilings all too common in towns everywhere.
Douglas Trouette is owner of SIC Productionz. SIC Productionz provides D.I.Y. Halloween animatronics and other inexpensive holiday animatronics as well as Halloween haunted props.

3 Great New Years Party Ideas

2009-01-22T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Gail Leino

Since New Year's occurs every single year you can safely try out many new ideas for your New Year's Parties and each year tweak them until they work. This New Year's use bright shiny new pennies to accent your party. It's long been a tradition to welcome in the year and hopefully some money by placing new pennies on your windowsill. You can make a great party by expanding on this folk tradition. Decorate tables with a myriad of toy money spread across the surface or attach to string and hang from the ceiling. You can go to the bank and ask for fifty cent rolls of new coins to hand out as party favors, so your guests can properly welcome in the New Year.
Make your next party into a silver screen affair. Invite guests to come dressed up as movies stars from the Silver Screen era of movies. You can set up a fun party game by having people act out random movie scenes pulled from a hat for the others to guess what movie it's from. Hire a photographer to take photos in black and white or someone have do little interviews of the guests for a society column that you can mail out after the party. You could even hire impersonators of famous stars to come to your party and mingle.
Since New Year's mascots are the New Year's baby and Last year's old man, you may find it fun to theme a party around them. Have a New Year's baby naming contest and the best suggestion wins a small prize. Symbolically usher in the New Year by taking down a banner with last year's number on it and putting up the new one. Fun little party favors can be jars of pureed food, which could be dinner for the New Year or the Last Year since neither has any teeth.
Hopefully these New Year's Party ideas will help you get going on your next New Year's Party and give you the perfect party this year. If not there's always next year!
Mrs. Party... Gail Leino is the internet's leading authority on selecting the best possible party supplies, using proper etiquette and manners while also teaching organizational skills and fun facts. New Years Day has Free Party Games, menus, recipes, coloring pages, word find, activities etc. to help complete your event.

The London Shopping Experience

2009-01-22T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Lisa Mills

Out of town shopping malls may well have started the decline of the traditional British high street over the last few years, and it's easy to see why. However whilst London doesn't offer any of these it doesn't need to!
London literally has it all. From market stalls to the world's biggest department stores, from inexpensive bric-a-brac to extortionately priced cutting edge fashion from the world's top designers, everyone is catered for by London's many and varied shopping areas.
As convenient as malls are, they don't even scratch the surface of what London is able to offer the shopper in terms of diversity and wherever you are in the city, it's all just a short tube or bus ride away. With the chance of seeing some of the world's most famous landmarks as well, the London shopping experience cannot be beaten.
Oxford Street
Britain's busiest high street and London's best known shopping area is chock-a-block full of the nation's most popular shops over 300 in fact. Many of the biggest high street names have their flagship stores here and the street also boasts the oldest record shop in the world (HMV at number 363). Also home to the world famous Selfridges department store, Oxford Street is 1 ½ miles of shopping utopia for those that don't mind the experience being a little on the hectic side.
Nearest Tubes: Marble Arch, Bond Street, Oxford Circus, Tottenham Court Road
Knightsbridge
Knightsbridge is the home of classy fashion boutiques and quality department stores - the jewels in the crown being the absolutely fabulous Harvey Nicholls and the world's most famous corner shop, Harrods. Big name fashion designers can be found in Sloane Street and equally chic but smaller outlets at Beauchamp Place.
Nearest Tube: Knightsbridge
Kensington High Street
Kensington offers a bit of everything to those shopping in London. It features all of the well known chain stores, plenty of one-offs, department stores (the main one being Barker's), an array of antique shops (in nearby Kensington Church Street) and numerous restaurants. It's less busy than the West End and certainly a touch classier.
Nearest Tube: High Street Kensington
Regent Street
Regent Street, running the ¾ of a mile between Oxford Circus and Piccadilly Circus, certainly provides the most visually elegant shopping experience in London as all the shops conform to the same ornate architectural style. It features department stores, fashion boutiques, restaurants and well known high street names and is also home to the world's best known toy store, Hamley's.
Nearest Tubes: Oxford Circus, Piccadilly Circus
Bond Street
If you're looking for a London shopping experience with a touch of class and you don't mind paying for it then Bond Street is for you. Full of the biggest designer names including Armani, Calvin Klein, Gucci, Cartier and Tiffany & Co, the street boasts more suppliers to the royal family than anywhere else in London. A world away from the 'every man for themselves' experience of Oxford Street, many stores have their own doormen. The street is also home to the world famous Sotheby's auction house.
Nearest Tube: Bond Street
Tottenham Court Road
If you're shopping in London for electrical items or home furnishings then Tottenham Court Road is well worth a visit. The backstreets of the area offer an array of interesting pubs and specialist shops and nearby Charlotte Street features a wide variety of restaurants.
Nearest Tubes: Tottenham Court Road, Goodge Street, Warren Street
Soho & Chinatown
Soho has cleaned up its act over the years and no longer has the seedy reputation it was once known for. If it's sex shops you're looking for in London, you'll still be well catered for but its reputation nowadays is built just as much on the many cafes, bars and restaurants, all of which make the area an extremely popular attraction 24 hours a day. It's an incredibly diverse area racially and culturally, has a thriving gay community and has also become the media capital over recent years. Soho is busy and untidy but well worth the experience.
Nearest Tubes: Piccadilly Circus, Leicester Square
Carnaby Street
London's fashion Mecca of the swinging 60s has today become almost as famous for souvenir shops cashing in on tourists who are drawn to the street by its iconic name, however it is now starting to regain something of a cutting edge reputation, particularly at the southern end of the street. Newburgh Street (which runs across Carnaby Street) features the shops of a number of top designers such as Jean Paul Gaultier and John Richmond and nearby Kingly Court has 3 floors of concept shops set around an open courtyard offering items not sold anywhere else in London.
Nearest Tube: Oxford Circus
King's Road
The road gained a reputation for cutting edge fashion back in the 1960s and 70s which perhaps it doesn't quite have nowadays, however it still features many independent clothes and shoe shops. There are also a number of contemporary furnishing stores and a huge array of bars and restaurants. The large Peter Jones department store is at the Sloane Square end of the road and opposite is the new Duke Of York shopping precinct. The road has always had something of a glamorous reputation and as well as providing a great London shopping experience, is also a top place to go celeb spotting.
Nearest Tube: Sloane Square
Fulham Road
The Fulham Road runs parallel to the King's Road and offers an altogether more laid back London shopping experience. If it's antiques you're after or specialist interior furnishings then you'll be more than ably catered for here.
Nearest Tube: South Kensington
Portobello Road
Notting Hill has become quite a fashionable area of late but long before the film and even the annual carnival in fact ever since the 18th century the Portobello Road market has drawn large numbers of visitors. Known predominantly for its antiques, bric-a-brac and collectables, there's also shops and stalls selling everything from fruit and veg to trendy clothing. And if all that shopping makes you thirsty, there's no shortage of pubs for you to choose from.
Nearest Tube: Ladbroke Grove
Islington
Another area of London that has become fashionable in recent years, Islington has a bit of everything to cater for both its inhabitants and visitors. Upper Street is the area's 'high street' and features all of the familiar chain stores as well as lots of bars and restaurants. Chapel Market offers all of the usual market fare such as fruit and veg, clothes and homeware whilst Camden Passage has some nice antiques shops. Islington is not the obvious London shopping destination, but well worth a look.
Nearest Tube: Angel
Camden Town
If you're after a more bohemian London shopping experience than that offered by Knightsbridge or Bond Street, then get yourself up to Camden. One of the city's coolest areas has a seemingly endless array of shops and stalls selling such items as clothing (new, second hand and retro), customised Doc Martins and trainers, jewellery, bootleg CDs and DVDs and craft ware. Open daily (and very busy at weekends), it's a multi cultural experience with some great little food outlets dotted all over.
Nearest Tube: Camden Town
Covent Garden
Formerly a fruit and vegetable market, 'The Garden' is now a constant and varied hive of activity. It has a hugely diverse selection of shops, eateries, bars, a market selling art, crafts, antiques and souvenirs, historic buildings, theatres, the Royal Opera House and fantastic free entertainment provided by street entertainers and musicians. If you can't find something to capture your interest at Covent Garden then there really is no hope.
Nearest Tube: Covent Garden
Lisa Mills writes mainly for 24-7 London, however she is happy to consider writing articles for other websites for a price. http://www.24-7london.co.uk is an online guide toLondon Events and Attractions

Holiday Shopping Tips

2009-01-21T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Kelly Kennedy

Its right around the corner, the holidays that is, but consumers are getting an even earlier start this year with their holiday shopping. People act in ways they never acted before or thought they were capable of acting. Its an outrageous time of year for malls and stores but somehow all the gifts people are looking for make it to their final destination. However, there are a few ways to avoid the crowds, traffic, and chaos, its called online shopping done right in the comfort of your own home.
If you decide to shop online, start early, because you never know how long it may take to ship an item and some items may become scarce. Spend wisely. Don't go crazy with the click of the mouse. Its easy to get carried away with online shopping because you don't have to carry anything, and it's a lot easier to find what you are looking for if you know the destination spot of the gift you want. Shop the clearance sections, you never know what you may find and you can get more for your buck.
Search for online coupons and promotions that may increase your chances of getting more and spending less.
The more you spend in one store, usually entitles you to free shipping so if you can find a few gifts in one store, it might be worth it to get them all in one online location so you can get free shipping.
However, if you are only buying one item, and you can buy the item for the same price in the store, and you don't mind the crowds, traffic, and gas money to get there, you can save on shipping costs by going directly to the store.
Tis' the season to be merry, so keep your spirits high and don't let the crowds, traffic, and chaos get you down. Shop online, and do it wisely. If you don't trust submitting personal information online, find the item and call in the order. There are ways to make every customer happy and online is just one way to start. For more information please visit http://www.holidaydebtresources.com.
Kelly Kennedy is the Communications Specialist for MindComet Corporation, a full service marketing agency for Fortune 500 companies and international conglomerates. Kelly specializes in public relations strategies focused on personal finance. Kelly has been author to hundreds of articles focusing on finance. She also acts as a contributing author for a wide variety of websites and newsletters. Kelly holds a Bachelors degree in Marketing from the University of Central Florida.

Holiday Tips Amp Treats That Wont Play Tricks On Your Waistline

2009-01-21T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Dianne Villano

Halloween so starts the Holiday Season. The average American gains 7-12 pounds between Halloween and New Year's . The next series of articles will help you ensure that you won't be among them. First, Halloween. As Halloween rears it's head, so does the plethora of wonderful smelling chocolates and other treats that tempt us as we walk through the aisles of our favorite stores. I will cover some tips, tricks and nutrition information for many of the popular candies to help you make the best choices . The moral is - if you can count it and limit it to a single serving , you can work it into your food plan and enjoy the Holiday festivities without sacrificing your fitness goals.
1. Keep your goals firmly planted in your mind. We all get "caught up" from time to time. While in "the moment", it is quite easy to lose sight of your ultimate vision and why you began your fitness or nutrition program in the first place. I always spend time, prior to the beginning of the Holiday season, reinforcing our client's "Why's". How will your life be better when you are living at your goal weight? What will you be wearing? How will you be feeling? Where will you feel more confident or energetic? How will your weight loss benefit your family? How are you feeling in your current condition? Why the heck do you want to lose this weight anyway? I suggest that people make a "why card" and keep it visible for those times when the going gets tough. You can also pick out a favorite outfit which no longer fits , find a picture of an outfit that you would love to be able to wear, find a picture of yourself or someone else that represents your goal or find a "before" picture that represents something that you never want to go back to. Keep them handy for a constant reminder of why you do want to make the choices that will lead you to your goal .
2. Keep an eye on serving sizes and portions Any food (even not so healthy ones) can be worked into your food plan, it's just a matter of awareness and balance. Many people label foods "good" or bad. In reality, it is all about portions and serving sizes.
3. Make a plan - If you are like most people, you grab a "treat" or two every time you walk past the bowl. This can add up to hundreds of calories before you know it. Plan ahead and count a few treats into your food plan ahead of time. Count them out in advance and place them in a separate bowl or dish. This will keep you from feeling "deprived" and still allow you to stay on track towards your goals.
4. Avoid the "All or nothing" mentality. Let's face it, no one's perfect. Chances are, there will be a time or two when you go overboard. Don't let this lead into an "I already blew it" binge that lasts until January 1st. No one or two days is going to make or break your fat loss efforts. The key is to get right back on track the next day and consider adding some extra cardio in to work off the extra calories.
5. What is in YOUR candy bowl ? This can make a significant difference in how you manage your weight throughout the Holiday. Be aware, however, that "healthier" does not necessarily mean "fewer calories" , that "low fat" does not mean that you can eat twice as much, and that "lo carb" usually means more calories.
6. Choose candy you don't like: You will be less apt to eat out of habit and "take a piece or two" if you are not surrounded by your favorites
7. Choose alternatives to candy: Give out dried fruits, nuts, raisins, cheese and cracker packets, pretzels, popcorn , or fruit roll-ups for a more healthful "treats"
8. Choose low-calorie treats: Things like Licorice, popcorn, gummy bears, mints and marshmallows are all lower calorie alternatives
9. Choose small portions: Buy fun-sized chocolates instead of their full sized counterparts. Don't forget to count out in advance your allotted servings for the day.
10. Choose non-food alternatives: You can still enjoy the holiday festivities and keep the trick or treaters happy. Many stores and holiday shops carry a multitude of Halloween miniature toys, cars, glow-in-the-dark necklaces and other fun little goodies.
11. Be informed and prepared: Many people see the holidays as a time where nutrition labels don't matter because all "treats" are bad. During this time of year it is even more important to look at and compare nutrition labels and to be aware of SERVING SIZES. This will allow you to enjoy the holidays without sabotaging your weight loss efforts. Here is some nutrition information for you to consider. Nutrition information may vary from company to company and may vary from this list, please check your individual food labels.
FOOD SERVING SIZE CAL CARBS FAT Fun Sized StarBurst 1 pkg 40 8 1 Marshmallows ½ c 45 12 0 Fruit rollups 1 roll 50 12 0 Junior Mints 1 sml box 55 12 1 Raisins 2 tsp 60 14 0 Fun Sized 3 Musketeers 1 bar 70 12 2.5 Fun Sized Milky Way 1 bar 90 14 3.5 Hershey's Kisses 4 100 12 6 Fun Sized Butter Finger 1 bar 100 15 4 Fun Sized Kit Kat 1 bar 100 12 5 Pretzels 22 pieces 110 22 2 Dried Apricots ¼ c 130 30 0 Fun Sized baby Ruth 1 bar 130 17 7 Goldfish 55 pieces 150 25 5 Nuts ¼ c 160 6 15 Cheese & Crackers 1 Pkg 220 44 5 M & M's 1 sml bag 220 50 5
Article written by Dianne Villano, President of Custom Bodies in Tampa Bay, Fl. Custom Bodies has been serving the bay area since 1996 with weight loss & fitness programs. Dianne is a personal fitness instructor certified through the National Academy of Sports Medicine and a frequent speaker on health and fitness related topics with articles published in over 20 media outlets. For more articles, free fitness tips or information on programs visit http://www.mypersonalfitnesscoach.com

Finding The Perfect Christmas Gifts

2009-01-20T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Celia Namart

When Christmas comes along everyone is in a rush to find some nice presents to all the family, and sometimes even to the close friends, this is usually a very difficult task, not only do you have to think and come up with something to get to al the people that you know (and their boyfriends and husbands) but you should also expect a significant blow to your bank account, let me say it load and clear, charismas is fun but I usually end up in financial ruins after its over, and then I need to go celebrate the new year
There is a solution for this situation, mostly in the preparation and research field, there are many people who prepare for Christmas way in advance, they look around for gifts in the summer and take advantage of early sales, so when the winter arrives they already have most of their gifts ready and hidden away somewhere. If you want to avoid that crazy last few days and the embracing five hours before the charismas dinner where you always have to look for a warping paper you will do well to learn a few of the thing I am going to say.
Most of us are not as orderly and well panned like those people who shop five months in advance, but we can all remember that we need to shop for a few people, and start early, look for discount shops in your area and try and think about each person you are buying the gift for, if you have some idea of what they like you can try a specialty shop once or twice way before its even November, and get yourself a perfect gift for half the price. For example I got my dad a golf club that was on sale in the end of October, this was his best Christmas gift ever, and it cost me half the price because I found in on sale.
If you are buying for a large group of people you will obviously like to group your shopping, try and think of the cooking enthusiasts, the movie lovers, the book readers, the golfers and the kids, these can all be shopped for in about 5 shops, and you can finish this whole ordeal in a few hours, but wait for the best part. You need to plan your shopping so you wouldn't go broke, so the idea is to buy the charismas gifts from the end of October, meaning you will have three distinct month to pay for the gifts and not one or two months, this will give you the air you need, and will allow you to monitor your shopping and budget better.
One more thing, it is very important that if you shop for kids you should start with them, the main reason is that if you are shopping for the kids and you will get a good gift it does no longer matter what you get the parents, if you managed to make the kids happy, your hit your home run. The other reason for shopping for the kids gifts first is that this may become a large part of your expenses, so its better to have it out of the way first and then run the calculator once again and rethink the budget. Happy holidays!
Christmas is a wonderful holiday, everyone loves this holiday season with its spirit of giving and loving. There are a few things to know about Christmas and the best way to survive it, the gifts the cooking, eating and the long hours with the family are all wonderful but very much out of routine, one important thing is to find Cheap Christmas Gift Ideas long before the holiday. Read about Christian Holidays and Christmas at www.allreligousholidays.com/Christian_Holiday.html

How To Come Up With Personalized Mothers Day Gift Ideas

2009-01-20T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Natalie Aranda

Because mothers give the gift of life, they deserve a day to celebrate motherhood and thanking mothers with chocolate candy presents or other sweet candy gifts for the precious gift they give us. However, Julia Ward Howe conceived the original idea of the Mother's Day in 1870 as a day honoring the inherent pacifism of mothers, for honoring them.
During those early days after the U.S. Civil War, mother's day gifts were not popular, and nobody was aware of the importance of coming up with mother's day gift ideas ahead of the celebration. Although Mother's day falls on different days of the year throughout the countries worldwide, most of them celebrate their moms by giving them mother's day gifts.
Like what happens with other festivities where the heart is involved, chocolaty candy gifts are the most popular presents on this day, followed by any other type of sweet candy present, including but not limited to hearts and stuffed teddy bears as well. Mother's day gift ideas are countless.
In the United States, the first Mother's Day was celebrated on May 10, 1908, in Grafton, West Virginia. The first national Mother's Day was not declared until 1914 by President Woodrow Wilson, giving the date for the celebration to be on the second Sunday in May, although spreading eventually to other countries, which retained the date falling on May 10 even today.
Mother's day gifts travel wherever a mother is, so this is usually one of the busiest times of year for mail, although sweet candy and chocolate candy gifts are not allowed to be sent by mail in many countries. In America, the U.S. Postal Service was held up for 8 days in 1973 due to the volume of letters and cards sent.
In the United Kingdom, Mother's day is known as Mothering Sunday falling on the fourth Sunday of Lent, between March and April. Although Mother's Day gifts are given, unlike in the United States, the British have been celebrating this day for hundreds of years. The celebration origin is uncertain, but is believed to be related to the ancient Celtic fertility rites.
Anticipate the date when planning, and analyze the large array of Mother's day gift ideas to find the present that meets your criteria of finding the present your mother deserves. Mother's day gifts include a world of possibilities ranging from flowers, chocolate candy or sweet candy boxes, perfumes and jewelry, to products that improve her health and well being.
However, a personalized Mother's Day gift, coming from your heart and, when possible, made with your own hands, could double its value.
Natalie Aranda writes about family, love and relationship. Because mothers give the gift of life, they deserve a day to celebrate motherhood and thanking mothers with chocolate candy presents or other sweet candy gifts for the precious gift they give us. Like what happens with other festivities where the heart is involved, chocolaty candy gifts are the most popular presents on this day, followed by any other type of sweet candy present, including but not limited to hearts and stuffed teddy bears as well. Mother's day gift ideas are countless.

Free Hanukkah Party Games And Decoration Ideas

2009-01-19T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Gail Leino

For this year's Hanukkah party you can play the 'Don't Say that Word' game. This is fun game that can be played at just about any home or office party. You will get small stickers and stick one on each guest as he or she arrives to your party. When everyone has arrived at the party you make the announcement that from here on out at the party guests must avoid saying a certain word. It will be need to be a word that's expected to be said at some point during the evening. Then the guests must listen carefully to each other when they are having conversations. If someone mistakenly says the forbidden word and another person notices that person can take the sticker from the person who said the forbidden word and stick it on themselves. At the end of the party you can tally up and see who has the most stickers. Who ever has collected the most stickers wins a prize.
To keep your kids involved in the holiday you can help them create these fun Hanukkah window decals as an activity for the day. You'll need:
clothing paint in blue, yellow, white, silver, gold
cut out picture of a Dreidel
cut out picture of the Star of David
Piece of thin plastic or glass
You might want to put down some newspaper to cover the work area just in case some of the paint gets away from the kids. Take your cut out pictures of the dreidel and the Star of David and slide them under the glass. Then take one of your tubes of clothing paint and outline each of the pictures on the surface of the glass. Carefully fill in the outlines with your different colors of paint, but make sure the entire outline is filled in. Wait a few hours for the paint to dry. When it's fully dry you should be able to peel the dried clothing paint off of the glass and then stick it to one of your windows.
Mrs. Party... Gail Leino is the internet's leading authority on selecting the best possible party supplies (http://partysupplieshut.com), using proper etiquette and manners while also teaching organizational skills and fun facts. The Party Supplies Hut has a huge selection of free party games, coloring pages, word find, word scramble, printable baby and bridal shower activities. Hanukkah Party Games (Hanukkah-fun.com), holiday party planning tips, trivia, history, recipes, printable activities and free coloring pages.

Hand Made Beaded Ornaments

2009-01-19T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Kathy Burns-Millyard

Here's an excellent Christmas gift idea that can be made right at home, and it's a wonderful family craft project for older kids, teenagers, and adults who just love being crafty: Homemade Christmas Ornaments.
When I was a young girl, I used to get a specific Christmas gift every year. It was a beaded doll craft project. The project came in a box with all the materials I needed: A styrofoam doll body, the doll head and arms, and many beads, sequins and pins.
I don't know how many different doll designs there were, but I ended up with many over several years. And I don't know what happened to those kits either... I've looked for them to buy for my own daughter in recent years but I can't find them anymore.
You can use the same concept to create your own Christmas ornamnets though, and these make wonderful gifts to give to family and friends.
Go to the craft store and buy a batch of styrofoam balls. Also buy a whole load of sequins, beads, buttons and straight pins.
Then simply decorate the balls! Put a straight pin through a bead first, then through a sequin. Then push that pin into the styrofoam ball. Put together colors and patterns as you see fit. The designs are pretty much limited just by your imagination.
You could make straight rows for instance, of alternating colors. Red beads with clear sequins on one row, and clear beads with green sequins on another row. Keep putting new rows on the ball until it's fully covered, then push a small eyelet hook into the ball, and thread some ribbon or thread through it for hanging.
One note of warning: Since your homemade ornaments will be filled with sharp pins, be sure they're not easily accessible by small children or pets. They'll love the sparkly, almost jewel like look created from the Christmas lights shining on the beads and sequins, but they could be hurt by the pins if they tear the ornament apart.
© 2006, Kathy Burns-Millyard. Get great gift ideas for women and many other special people in your life at http://www.HomeGiftShopper.com

Front Yard Grave Yard

2009-01-17T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Shane Cooper

Halloween decorating can be a lot of fun for both the creator and the neighborhood. There are a lot of options for those who like to decorate their yard for this be-a-kid day, uh, night. Many different people either go all out or simply hang a paper skeleton on their front window. For those that go all out, the neighbor kids will gravitate to your place, so there will not be a shortage of ghosts, goblins and ghouls stopping by on October 31st.
One extremely fun type of decor is to make your front-yard into a grave yard. One can go completely elaborate with lighting, sound, lots of head-stones and even a mausoleum. However, you can start simple and do lots of grave-stones with very little effort and creativity. Head stones, grave stones and grave markers have been around since the dawn of time and have always been "markers" for the buried. They also can form the creep affect which is paramount on Halloween. If you're semi-creative or very creative you can have lots of fun making head stones.
To start, head over to your favorite lumber yard or home improvement center. Locate the insulation isle and find the pink or blue sheets of foam insulation. Your best bet is to use either the 1 1/2 or 2 inch sheets. Either size will work and color is irrelevant as you'll be painting over them anyway.
Once you have your trusty sheet of foam home and in the garage, you'll need to find some stencils and/or pictures by perusing the web or just about any source where graves are displayed. There are tons of head-stone and grave yard sites that can tickle your idea and imagination bone. If you don't have a reference, your town probably has a cemetery near by. A digital camera and a nicely lit day work just as well. Of course, the other more creative approach, a favorite, is to completely make up the shapes from memory. Everyone has been to a grave yard at one time or another, so there are plenty of references. Each sheet should yield about 6 to 8 head stones which is usually plenty to get started.
Cutting extruded styrofoam can be very easy and while there are several ways to perform the cutting, a large kitchen knife usually reserved for that large watermelon during the summer will work just fine. Knives tend to leave rough edges and that's fine for when you want that very old look which is common in grave yards. Other cutting tools that can be used are special styrofoam electric cutters that you can find on the web as well as there are several sites that offer a "How-To" on making your own cutter with a soldering iron and some heavy copper wire.
Now that you've cut out your head stone shape, you'll want to put some kind of writing, eulogy or some kind of markings. Here a wood burning tool works good, a sharp utility knife or a set of those craft knives with a variety of blades. For lettering you can either use some kind of stencil set and or print something from your favorite word processor. Either way, you can either go authentic or funny. Draw an outline of the wording, drawing or date onto the front of the head-stone and cut out the lettering causing an embossing affect. If you have a wood burner and are familiar with it's use, you can simply melt out the letters. Embossing the wording, lettering or date give it a 3-D affect and an authentic look. Plus, at night, it adds a creepy affect if lighting is involved. For added interest, use a friend or neighbors name to add that extra touch. However, make sure they're a good friend and not someone you really want to see buried. That could lead to a whole other set of problems.
After all of the prep work is done by cutting your shape, adding your wording or markings, you'll need to prepare it for presentation. With any type of sandpaper, clean the entire surface and make sure the cut edges are void of any extra pieces hanging where your knife did the cut. Now that it's clean and ready, you should use a "latex" paint to prime or cover the entire surface. Latex paint creates both a barrier and surface for the final coloring. Use a light or white latex that can be found on the "Oops" shelf at just about any home improvement center.
Let the prime paint dry before going onto the final coat. Once dry, you now have several fine finish choices to wrap up the project. One technique is to spray water on the primed surface and lightly spray a black or gray paint letting it drip down through the cracks and surface of the head-stone. You can also "dry" brush getting the same affect by taking a light gray or darker colored paint and lightly applying it on the corners, in the engraved writing or in cracks. Taking a dry paint brush, lightly swipe in a downward fashion the dark paint until it creates streaks on the lighter surface.
For added affects, you can also add moss found in any hobby shop or where ever dried flowers or model trains are sold. This takes a lot more patience and simply painting should do the trick. For that perfectionist, cracks, additional coloring and the moss affect can really take it to the next level.
Once your first one is done, repeat until you have enough to make your own yard of head-stones. Putting a grave yard in your own front yard for Halloween can be both fun and rewarding if you anticipate lots of trick-er-treaters. Typically, the kids love the added affect and will definitely stop by your house to relieve you of the enormous amount of candy you have at the ready.
Shane Cooper runs Haunting Your Yard and offers advice in HauntedYard Blog on the site. He and his wife have 10 plus years advice on successfully preparing an annual yard haunt.

Decorating Outside Your Home For Halloween A Spooky Theme

2009-01-17T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Nicola Kennedy

For many people the best part of Halloween is being able to decorate the outside of their home. This doesn't have to be limited to just the front yard. Decorating the backyard can create a very spooky atmosphere. You can even design a detour that will take each of your guests on a long walk that circles the backyard before leading them to the entrance. This way they get to enjoy the full benefits of your decorating efforts.
The traditional pumpkins and jack-o-lanterns make great additions when you decorate the outside of your home for Halloween. The light that these decorations give off will help your guest to see their way around and add the perfect lighting to create scary shadows that surround the other decorations. Ghost and goblins are an old favorite that can still make your guest look over their shoulder twice. Don't be afraid to get very creative with these items. Some of the newer designs are now being made inflatable to help give them an even more lifelike appearance.
The use of a fog machine can create an illusion that can make your yard the spookiest of all. This is especially true when you litter the lawn with fake body parts and fake blood splattered all about the area. The fog just intensifies the whole spooky theme. Don't forget about a special door bell ring that alerts you of the incoming guest with screams, howling or some other unique Halloween greeting. You can even have a host that is decked out in one of the scariest costumes around to stand outside your door to personally welcome each and every one of you Halloween guest.
Add special sound effects that will begin whenever your guest walks past a certain area. You can also use props that are programmed on a timer to go off at specific intervals. Spider webs are also a great decorating idea that will help you to create a spooky outdoor theme. Make sure that you don't forget the customary black cat and maybe a witch or two sitting in the trees watching the guest wondering by. It's just not Halloween without a few traditional items.
Nicola always enjoys Halloween parties with her family. Visit her Halloween site for tips and information about Halloween Outdoor Decorations at http://Halloween-Decorations.Best-Halloween.com
This article may be reprinted in full so long as the resource box and the live links are included intact. All rights reserved. Copyright Best-Halloween.com

Birthday Golf Gifts Birthday Gift Ideas For Golf Lovers

2009-01-16T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Rebecca Johnson

If you need a birthday gift for a golf lover, there are plenty out there to choose from. From funny to unique, birthday golf gift items can be found all over the internet. Here are a few great gift ideas for golf lovers:
Golf Zen Garden - A great way for them to relax when they can't hit the links, a golf zen garden can decorate their office or the home. The unique garden even grows real grass so they can enjoy the sights and smells of the golf course even when they can't be there.
Golf Monopoly - For the golf lover that also enjoys a good board game, Monopoly's Golf Edition lets you play for ownership of famous golf courses such as Pebble Beach. Houses and hotels are replaced with caddy shacks and clubhouses and game pieces include such items as golf shoes, a golf cart, and a bucket of balls.
Novelty Golf Balls - Novelty golf balls are available in a wide variety of styles and make a great gift idea for your favorite golfer. Get them golf balls featuring their favorite sports team, smiley faces, or golf balls that resemble world globes. You can even find trick golf balls that will roll all over the place making it impossible for them to make the perfect putt.
Golf Artwork - Artwork featuring their favorite golf course or a golf course they dream of playing at one day is another gift idea for a golfer.
Golf Jewelry - Golf themed watches, bracelets, earrings, pins, money clips, cuff links, tie tacks, and pendants all make great gift ideas for anyone that loves golf and jewelry.

Of course a new golf bag, clubs, or a gift certificate for a round of golf are always great ideas too. The possibilities are endless when it comes to finding the perfect golf gift for your favorite golfer's birthday!
© Copyright Rebecca Johnson, All Rights Reserved

Rebecca Johnson operates Find-A-Great-Gift-Idea.com, a website that provides gift ideas for every occasion. Visit it to find the best golf gifts or to get more birthday gift ideas.

How You To Can Set A Fun And Festive Thanksgiving Table

2009-01-16T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Shauna Hanus

Try mixing and matching. Don't take yourself too seriously this should be fun. Pull out all the different styles of dishes you have. Take a look at how you might be able to mix and match for a fun and creative table. If you have only one or two plates from Grandmas china use them. You will be able to think of her and have a great time sharing stories of when you were young and had mashed potato wars on Thanksgiving.
Try new and different things, you will be delightfully surprised with how much fun you will have and how much fun your guests will have. Serve dessert in wine glasses. Try putting appetizers on silver plates. Have the fine china on hand for dessert. Try it all, and you will have a fun Thanksgiving.
Remember you do not have to always be fancy. Serve with flare; add in plenty of color and character. Try using all primary colors. The brightness of red, blue, and yellow will add to the festive feel of your Thanksgiving celebration. If you have cartoon plates and glasses bring them out, it will give your family something to talk about.
Go for a true Thanksgiving theme. Buy some plates with a Thanksgiving pictorial theme. Purchase Thanksgiving serving dishes with turkeys on them. Pair this with autumn colored table linens and sparkling crystal glasses. Then for the silverware shine up the good silver. Your table will sparkle and shine with all the joys of Thanksgiving.
Always remember this is Thanksgiving have a wonderful holiday with your family and friends.
Shauna Hanus is a gourmet cook who specializes in creating gourmet recipes. She has put together a special Thanksgiving e-Cookbook that gives you 73 recipes to cook your leftover turkey as well as two bonus e-books of a special holiday ice cream cookbook that includes favorites like pumpkin pie ice cream and pecan pie ice cream. She has also put together a holiday planning guide to help you have the most enjoyable Thanksgiving ever. You can find all of these at http://www.turkey-leftovers.com

A Dash Of Cinnamon A Pinch Of The Past A Smidgen Of The Future

2009-01-15T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Kristin Johnson

Close your eyes and remember December, the smell of cinnamon in your mother's or grandmother's kitchen and the warm scent of dough baking in the oven. Imagine opening the oven door and, with assistance, taking out the heated cookie sheet. Devour the cookies, small works of art, with your eyes: Fudge Brownies, Gingerbread, Nut Rolls, Painted Cookies, Sugar Cookies... With each bite, taste your childhood and family history. You can trace your blood and traditions not by DNA, genealogies and family heirlooms, but by recipes given from one generation to the next, like oral histories handed down in clans before recorded fact caught on.
Scholars once sniffed at "women's lore," but the notations of "1 dash nutmeg" and "1 cup chopped nuts," when handwritten on a yellowing page, are as important to memorize as the dates of the American Revolution. They are a tangible reminder of love, care and craft in any society, but particularly in America, where encouragement to eat bags of artificially sweetened store-bought Christmas sweets leave people sugar-craving, guilty, physically and emotionally empty Christmas cookies are the opposite of this trend. They represent home, family, comfort, joy, and tradition.
It's a miraculous event when generations gather around the stove to spend a day together, getting their hands dirty and sharing of themselves. It is miraculous because those memories are irreplaceable. It's miraculous because children get curious and ask, for example, "Why are the Christmas cookies German? What was Christmas like when you were my age? Did Santa Claus visit you?"
Mother, father, grandmother, and grandfather can share with children the family history and everyday moments in the past, such as, "Your grandmother made a mistake and measured one cup of walnuts when the recipe called for half a cup. But the cookies tasted better, so to this day we always use 1 cup of walnuts in the recipe." By reliving these rare glimpses of a life you may have forgotten, you honor and celebrate yourself as well as your family. Christmas cookies themselves transmit and record history and tradition.
In addition, Christmas cookies are a thread to Christmas past, not only our past, but long past. The word cookie came about thanks to Dutch settlers in North America during the 1700s to 1900s. Koek is Dutch for cake, so koekje, later cookie in English, means "little cake." Christmas cookies like German Springerle continue the custom of serving Christmas baked goods started by the Romans, Teutonic/Germanic tribes, and other pre-Christian civilizations. Christian religions sanctified these symbols of worship of the harvest gods by adding a "J" on the top to mark the breads as offerings to Jesus Christ. Ancient European peoples ate gingerbread at Winter Solstice feasts. When you bake gingerbread and Springerle, you're participating in a tradition that endures.
In that spirit, here is a recipe for successful cookie-making:
Start with 1 family, 1 kitchen, and a box of recipes. Add an uninterrupted period of time. Subtract phone calls, televisions, or any other distractions. For best results, add the Prayer Before Baking from CHRISTMAS COOKIES ARE FOR GIVING:
"God bless this mixture with the sweetest and tastiest ingredients: joy, faith, family, friendship, love, and health. Let the scent of this holiday offering rise to Heaven and make the angels sing, for the happiness of mankind is their feast. Let us taste our blessings with each bite as we share the company of our loved ones. Amen."
Sprinkle with laughter. Add amusing family stories with a lavish hand. Fold in 1 cup patience and understanding, blended with 1 gallon youthful enthusiasm and a pinch of baking know-how. Eat your mistakes with joy. Bake lovingly and well. Enjoy warm, delicious, Christmas miracle cookie-baking memories for years to come!
About The Author
Copyright Kristin Johnson.
Kristin Johnson is co-author of the "highly recommended" Midwest Book Review pick, Christmas Cookies Are For Giving: Stories, Recipes and Tips for Making Heartwarming Gifts (ISBN: 0-9723473-9-9). A downloadablemedia kit is available at our Web site, www.christmascookiesareforgiving.com, or e-mail the publisher (info@tyrpublishing.com) to receive a printed media kit and sample copy of the book. More articles available at http://www.bakingchristmascookies.com.
kristin@poemsforyou.com

Strategies For Surviving Holiday Dinners Family Events And Other War Zones

2009-01-15T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Kevin Burk

No matter how well we may have weathered our basic training, nothing can fully prepare us for the front lines of family gatherings. We're in the thick of it, dodging live ammunition, and fighting the urge to return to our old, reliable patterns that helped us to survive while we were growing up. We may have mastered our relationship skills in one-on-one relationships. We may have improved our romantic relationships, our professional relationships and our friendships. And we may have even improved our family relationshipsone family member at a time. But when we're sitting around the holiday dinner table or socializing at a wedding reception with our entire family, it's an entirely different experience.
For one thing, when we're with our entire family, we have to juggle a number of different relationships at the same time. Our attention is divided at best, and for many of us, our awareness deserts us completely after the first major skirmish. We feel like we're surrounded and have to defend ourselves from sneak attacks. We often feel that retreat is not an option. When we are cornered, we often believe that the only way that we can survive is to fight our way out, new relationship skills be damned.
While most people assume that General Sherman was referring to the Civil War when he stated, "War is hell," in fact, he was referring to a particularly memorable Thanksgiving dinner with his family. This also explains why he could send his troops into battle without a second thought, but that the very mention of cranberry sauce would reduce him to tears.
Bearing this in mind, here are some essential tips for surviving your next family gathering.
TIP #1: Go Easy On Yourself!
The first, and most important survival tip is to remember that navigating and surviving family gatherings takes exceptional skill and often quite a bit of practice. We will not be able to transform our entire family dynamic between the salad course and the pumpkin pie. In fact, we may not be able to change our family dynamic at alland it's important that we accept that we don't need to. It's not our responsibility to help our family members resolve their issues. We're only responsible for resolving our responses to their issues. Our objective is to maintain our own safety and validation accounts, focus our awareness, and survive the family event reasonably unscathed.
However, maintaining our awareness while we're relating to our families takes practice! We must go easy on ourselves. We may react when we would rather respond. We may be drawn into old arguments. Whatever happens, we need to accept that it is perfect. We are doing our best, and that's all we can ever ask of ourselves. And remember that our awareness that we're acting out an old pattern is, in itself, a change in that pattern! As we develop our awareness, we will spend less time caught in our old patterns. Over time, our awareness will help us to make lasting and permanent changes in those patterns.
Tip #2: Go Easy On Your Family
This piece of advice is equally as important as going easy on ourselves, but it's often a bit more challenging to follow. Essentially, we must be willing to forgive our relatives for everything. We must be able to accept that they only ever did the best they could at any given time. We need to begin to recognize and relate to our families as people instead of as family members. We need to begin to know them for who they are, and not simply for who they are to us.
When we embrace the truth that even our family members are individualized aspects of All That Is, our relationships with our families will shift dramatically. Our family members are some of the most powerful teachers we will ever encounter in our lives. They also tend to be the most accurate and powerful mirrors for us, which, of course, is why we often find it so difficult to love and accept our family members unconditionally. In order to love our family members, we would also need to be able to love and accept ourselves.
Even so, we can love our family members unconditionally and still only choose to sit down to eat with them once a year.
Tip #3: Use The Bathroom As A Sanctuary When Needed
In our other relationships, we can usually recognize when we feel unsafe and move to a safe space so we can disengage our egos. Once we restore the balance in our safety account, we can return to the discussion and explore it without feeling threatenedand without threatening our partner in return. When we feel unsafe in our family relationships, however, many of us feel that we're obligated to stay and fight. This is simply not the case.
When we are aware that we feel triggered by a family member, we can simply choose to excuse ourselves and visit the bathroom. The bathroom is the one place that we can be assured of our privacy, and we can stay there as long as we need to. We can use the bathroom as a sanctuary where we can regain our composure and gather our strength so that we feel safe enough to return to the battle. If any of our family members are indelicate enough to comment on how much time we seem to be spending in the bathroom, we can always plead an upset stomach or a weak bladder.
Tip #4: Lose The Battle To Win The War
We have to be very clear about our objectives in terms of our family relationships. If our ultimate goal is to improve our family relationships, we have to be willing to stay focused on the big picture. The most difficult lesson for most of us to accept is that in order to win the war, we have to be willing to lose the battle. Our long-term objective is to feel more safe and more validated in our family relationships. To reach this goal, we must help our family members to feel safe and validated. In order to do this, we must be absolutely clear that we are capable of meeting our own safety and validation needs.
We often experience our families as competitive environments. Our old blueprints tell us that there's a limited amount of safety and validation available, and that we must compete with the other members of our family to meet our needs. We insult and snipe at each other because we can only feel safe and validated if the balance in our accounts is greater than the balance in everyone else's accounts. The more we care about earning other people's approval and validation, the more vulnerable we are. When one of our family members makes a comment designed to make us feel less valid, we do not need to defend ourselves. We can recognize that this person is asking to be validated, and we can validate them. Sometimes, this means letting them think that we are less successful, accomplished, and generally wonderful than we truly are.
We must be willing to lose every single family argument we encounter. Letting our family members win the argument allows them to feel safe and validated. As long as we remember that we create our own safety and validation, and we do not need to compete with our family members, we can lose the argument because it will help us to win the war. We must let our family members believe that they are right about whatever the issue is, no matter how blatantly wrong they actually are.
We know the truth. That will have to be enough for us.
Tip #5: Always, Ever, Never
If we want to relate to our family members as they are now and not as we remember them being in the past, we must eliminate three words from our vocabulary: always, ever and never. In the lexicon of family "discussions," always, ever and never are relationship air-raid sirens. They signal that an attack has been launched and it's time to duck and cover. Specifically, we must avoid some of our favorite statements in our family relationships such as, "You always behave this way," "When have you ever supported me?" and "You never give me any credit." If we find ourselves using any of these words in a similar context, it's a red flag that we're focused on the past and not on the present. Likewise, when our family members use these words about us, they're relating to us as we were, not as we are.
As soon as we become aware that we are using these words, we must stop. It's likely that our use of these words has made our family member feel unsafe and invalid. We can apologize for having used one of these words, and acknowledge that we have been unfair. Something about the current discussion has triggered an unpleasant association for us. If appropriate, we can rephrase the statement, keeping it specific to the present.
If we're on the receiving end of always, ever, never statements, we can choose to respond, rather than to react. In the middle of a family get-together, the wisest choice is often to deflect the statement, perhaps even acknowledge that the statement may have some validity when applied to the past, and then change the subject. If the discussion has uncovered an old wound, the wound will still be there for us to heal at a more appropriate time and in a more appropriate environment.
Kevin B. Burk is the author of The Relationship Handbook: How to Understand and Improve Every Relationship in Your Life. Visit http://www.EveryRelationship.com for a FREE Report on creating Amazing Relationships.

50 Ways To Acknowledge Your Employees Before And After Labor Day

2009-01-14T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Andy O'Bryan

For most people, Labor Day symbolizes the end of summer, back to school, and another long weekend. Deep down however, when we stop for a moment and reflect as we often do on bank holidays, we all know that Labor Day is, in reality, meant to signify a time to recognize the achievement, struggle and determination of the working man and woman.

Here are 50 ways to acknowledge your employees in honor of Labor Day. See how many you are doing already, and which ones you could start doing better:

1. Ask them about themselves
2. Find ways to stay in an affirmative frame of mind, by saying yes as often as possible
3. If an employee makes a mistake, keep your emotions in check and mentor them to the make the right decision the next time
4. Be honest, ethical and forthright at all times. Stop yourself from stretching the truth about any issue that may arise
5. Listen to their needs and wants
6. Let them help you with your marketing plan
7. Listen to their stories about their families
8. Inquire if something is wrong if you feel an employee is acting different than usual
9. Remember the names of those employees in other departments you don't know
10. Find out the birthdays of your employees and remember to send each one a card when that day comes around
11. Present several options when they seek your advice, but also allow them to come up with their own solutions
12. Surprise them with an impromptu incentive, reward or thank you just for doing their job in the unique way that they do it
13. Stay with them a few moments after you've resolved an issue, just to make sure there aren't any lingering questions they were hesitant to ask
14. Have lunch brought in
15. Let them take the reins on a customer issue, giving them the empowerment they deserve
16. Stop by their work area just to say Hi
17. Let them vent
18. Discuss their higher aspirations
19. Let down your guard
20. Come out from behind your desk when they come to see you
21. Tell them they're doing a great job (you can't do this too often)
22. Learn something from them
23. Don't think with your mouth open
24. Make yourself accessible, answer your phone and return your emails
25. If you make a mistake, say you're sorry
26. Keep your promises
27. When you talk to them look in their eyes
28. Pass out their pay stubs and checks, and as you give it to them, thank them for the work they do
29. Acknowledge an everyday task they do, and tell them specifically how well they do it
30. Give them your undivided attention.
31. Ask for their opinion.
32. Encourage their creativity when faced with a challenge
33. Find out what they're best at, and help them become masterful at it
34. Be genuinely glad to see them
35. Bend
36. Allow them to find their own way, but give help when requested
37. Give them immediate feedback.
38. Include them in conversations with your peers, don't make them feel left out
39. Respect them.
40. Be patient when they're having a bad day
41. Send them to a meeting in your place, with their permission
42. Believe what they say
43. Laugh at their jokes
44. Encourage them to think outside the box
45. Let them look at the big picture with you
46. Share company goals with them, even if you think they won't understand it all
47. Encourage all types of feedback
48. Make sure your voicemail message is as friendly as possible
49. Introduce them to your boss's boss
50. Tell them if they ever have a question or concern they can call you at home, and give them your number

Andy O'Bryan is author of Incentive Toolkit 2005, the new ebook that gives employers creative and easy ways to motivate ttarget="_new" he great performance and reward the job well done, available at http://www.incentivetoolkit.com. To book an employee motivation session, consultation or keynote send an email to ajobryan@aol.com for a menu of topics.

St Patricks Day Around The World

2009-01-14T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Richie Anderson

Just because you're too busy to travel all the way to Ireland to celebrate St. Patrick's Day doesn't mean that you can't have a good time celebrating Irish traditions. Chicago, New York City, Sydney, and even Tokyo have their own ways to celebrate the St. Patrick's Day holiday. What began as the feast of Ireland's patron saint has now grown into one of the biggest holidays celebrated anywhere in the world.
Up until 2002, St. Patrick's Day in Ireland was celebrated as more of a religious holiday, the way it used to be in the old days. Following the hoof and mouth disease scare that canceled parades in 2001, Dublin decided they should embrace the gimmicky shamrocks and green beer to help boost tourism. The 5-day Dublin St. Patrick's Day festival is now the largest St. Patrick's Day celebration in the country and has an attendance of over 700,000 people for parade day alone.
In the United States, green-clad partiers line the streets for parades in over a dozen cities. Boston, New York and Chicago host the most popular of these events, but you can even find a parade or two in New Orleans where the influence of Mardi Gras has led to an evolution of Saint Patrick's Day parades around the big easy. Even after the devastation caused by Hurricane Katrina, locals and tourists alike will be able to catch their share of St. Patrick's Day beads tossed from elaborate parade floats.
Across the globe in Tokyo, Japanese citizens have been joining the Irish in celebration since 1992. The Tokyo parade is organized by the Irish Network Japan (INJ) with the support of the Embassy of Ireland. The Japanese love a good party and they are particularly fond of all things Irish - including Irish setters and Guinness beer for about $8.00 a pint! However, popular St. Patrick's Day parade highlights are the "free beer girls" who represent the local Irish taverns by handing out vouchers which are good for complimentary green beer.
Since the entire month of March is festival season down under, Sydney's calendar is full of events, many of them representing Irish culture. There are Irish heritage at breakfasts, lunches, dinners, balls, race days, golf days, and concerts. Of course, there'll be plenty rounds of drinks in Australia's more than 150 Irish pubs. However it's not all about drinks for Australia. A traditional Saint Patrick's Day Mass is held at St Mary's Cathedral in Sydney.
What once began as a traditional Irish holiday day for spiritual renewal and offering prayers for missionaries worldwide, has now come to be associated with everything Irish: anything green and gold, shamrocks and luck. No matter where you are or what country you are in, chances are you will see a little bit of the "wearing of the green" on March 17th.
Richie Anderson writes for North Coast Events, a Party Decor studio located in Cleveland, Ohio. He also operates NCE Party Supplies, an online party store which specializes in St. Patrick's Day Decorations.

Christmas Light Storage Unpack For The Season

2009-01-13T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Anne Clarke

Christmas lights are the most difficult to pick through after a year's worth of storage. Save your self the hassle by taking time to wrap the Christmas lights in an efficient manner now, before boxing everything back up! Keep in mind that Christmas lights, especially the less durable indoor ones, are really only meant for 90 days of usage. Try to replace your Christmas lights at least every third season. The most inexpensive way to do this is to buy a set or two of Christmas lights at each post-season sale
There are a few techniques for successful Christmas light storage. One idea is to purchase boxes specifically manufactured for Christmas light storage. These generally look like file boxes that come with many flat surfaced pieces to wrap each string around. Perfect for avoiding tangled messes, and you can organize the way you put the strings in each slot, whether by color or size or indoor/outdoor usage.
But then again, if you want to be creative and economical, you can use items already in your household for Christmas light storage. If you have plastic bags, cardboard boxes, or empty wrapping paper tubes, then go ahead and make use of them to carefully store your Christmas lights.
Here are some suggestions that have proved most useful for Christmas light storage:
Wrap each string of lights individually, and fasten in several places with bread strings. You can store each string in its own plastic bag, and keep them all together in a cardboard box. Label the box "Christmas lights" and if you end up filling more than one box, write "1 of 2" or however many there are. This is a huge help, especially if you have a lot of outdoor Christmas lights!
Another idea is to use empty wrapping paper tubes. Cut a small slit in each end of the tube, you then thread one end of a set of lights through a slit. Wrap the lights along the tube until you reach the end, and thread that end through the other slit. This is a very safe and convenient way to keep the string from tangling.
You can use this same concept with a square of cardboard. This may be a shape easier for you to store, also. Just make sure both ends of the string are secure in the two slits, so your Christmas lights don't end up unraveling and getting tangled anyway!
Anne Clarke writes numerous articles for websites on gardening, parenting, recreation, education and décor. Her background includes teaching and gardening. For more of her articles about Christmas decor, please visit Christmas Lights.

Turkey Time Thanksgiving Trivia

2009-01-12T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Terry Kaufman

Thanksgiving is quickly approaching and it is time once again to start preparing for the fall season. Besides dreaming of succulent turkey and the trimmings, this means readying holiday dinnerware, organizing cookware, polishing silver, and searching for new and exciting recipes and great holiday trivia! Liven up your Thanksgiving holiday with Turkey Trivia #1 - Turkey Facts, and Turkey Trivia #2 - Cranberry Facts.
Turkey Trivia #1 - Turkey Facts
Did you know...
The first American Thanksgiving was celebrated in 1621 between the Pilgrims and the Native Americans who taught the Pilgrims how to survive off the environment.
There are many thoughts how the turkey got its name. One such theory was that Christopher Columbus thought the bird looked like a peacock and since the East Indian word for peacock was "tuka," this bird's name transitioned from "tuka" to "turkey." Makes sense. And on the other hand, when a turkey is scared, instead of saying "gobble, gobble," it makes a "turk, turk, turk" sound. No brainer here. Take your choice.
Wild turkeys occasionally spend the night up in a tree.
A female turkey is called a hen while the male is called a tom.
A hen does not say gobble, gobble. Instead, they say click, click. That must be some sound fest when both sexes are simultaneously striving for attention.
A mature turkey has approximately 3,500 feathers.
Wild turkeys can run 25 miles per hour and fly up to 55 miles per hour. However, commercially raised turkeys cannot run at all, or fly.
The heaviest turkey ever weighed toppled the scales at 86 pounds.
A turkey can have a heart attack if it becomes overly startled; turkeys living near an area where the sound barrier was broken dropped dead from the shock.
Turkeys have a fantastic sense of hearing but have no external ears. Hmm! Are the ear holes hiding somewhere under those 3,500 feathers? Only the turkey knows for sure but he is not telling.

Turkey Trivia #2 - Cranberry Facts
Did you know...
The Pilgrims called today's cranberry a "craneberry" because its blossoms looked like the head and bill of a Sandhill crane.
Cranberries were carried aboard American whaler and mariner sea crossings in an attempt to prevent scurvy.
Many people believe cranberries live on water alone, but fascinatingly enough, they are grown on vines in bogs originally created by glacial deposits. A fence is installed around the entire growing area of a bog, in an attempt to prevent the cranberries from drifting away. They are covered with a layer of sand which acts like a blanket. Cranberries can survive only in these stringent conditions.
If undamaged, a cranberry vine can survive more than 150 years.
If you drop a load of cranberries on a declining slope, the firmest and freshest berries can bounce as high as 4 inches while going downhill. Soft and bruised berries will not bounce, therefore separating themselves from the quality fruit.
Fruit nibblers beware! Raw cranberries are sour and bitter. Be sure to stir in some sort of sweetener; mixing in sugar or honey should help considerably.
As well as bouncing, cranberries can float using the same internal air pockets that help propel ripe cranberries off the ground.

Terry Kaufman is Chief Editorial Writer for Niftykitchen.com, Niftyhomebar.com, and Niftygarden.com.
©2006 Terry Kaufman

Planning A Gift Closet

2009-01-12T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Sara Noel

Creating a gift closet is a wonderful way to plan ahead for gift giving occasions. It's also handy for those last-minute emergency events that spring up throughout the year, may otherwise catch you by surprise, and send you on a mad dash to the store. Developing a system that will work for you is simple and will prove to be not only a budget saver, but a timesaver as well.
Location, Location, Location
For starters, you'll need to find an area to store your gifts. If you don't have a spare closet or enough space in your closet, all is not lost. You can simply reserve an area in another part of the house such as the basement, attic, spare shelf, or underneath your bed. You can store gifts in a tote, boxes, baskets, or even in bags. It's ideal to have a closet, but the key is just finding a safe and handy spot that works for you. The concept is to provide enough space to hide your stash and not so hidden that you forget it's there.
Creating a Master List
Take some time to consider all the people you normally buy presents for throughout the year. You can then list any possible potential gifts you may need to give. You can start a list in a notebook. Write down names, ages, birthdays, anniversaries, various holidays, and sizes. Some examples of atypical gifts to plan for are kids' birthday parties, thank you's, hostess gifts, congratulatory, cheer up gifts, and teacher gifts. Be sure to include any personal information about the gift recipients, such as their likes and dislikes, hobbies, or decor styles.
When adding to your notes, it's a good idea to begin paying attention and keeping your ears open to the people you'll be buying gifts for. They sometimes mention things they've seen that they like or drop subtle hints. Whenever you recognize a hint, simply jot it down. You can also do a little investigating and notice items they already own or even casually ask questions that will assist you in your planning.
This master list is an important part of planning your gift closet. The key is to purchase thoughtful gifts for the people on your list. You're striving for something they'll like, but are unlikely to purchase. If all else fails, you can check out these handy websites for ideas: http://www.presentpicker.com and http://www.gifts.com
Scoping Out the Goods
You can start shopping for your gift closet anytime. I like to start shopping right after Christmas for the upcoming year. Holiday clearance sales have a wonderful selection of inexpensive gift items. It's the best time to stock up on giftwrap, tape, cards, bows, and gift tags and bags too.
Christmas isn't the only time you can get bargains. You can check after each major holiday, change of season, and random sales throughout the year. Discount department stores, grocery stores, and dollar stores are a good place to hunt out gift treasures too. There are also a plethora of bargains to be found at garage sales, estate sales, and thrift stores. Yes. Secondhand gifts are acceptable in many cases.
Regift and Recycle
We all have received gifts that we don't really like, want, or need. You know those less than perfect gifts you've received and are unsure what to do with. These items don't need to take up space in your home and remain disliked or unused. You're not stuck with these items cluttering up your home. It was given to you as a gift. That permits you to do with it as you wish. You can add them to your gift closet. You can pass them onto others that will appreciate them. It takes a little creativity, consideration, caution, and planning to regift or recycle with finesse.
Planning Ahead
You've selected your gift closet area. Be sure to maintain notes on who gave you which gift to avoid an embarrassing situation later. You can keep notes on upcoming gift-giving occasions and potential recipients that might appreciate your unwanted gifts. Lookover each gift and make sure there aren't any pricetags, rips in packaging, personalized notes or writing, or anything that reflects that the gift is outdated or obviously used.
Thoughtful Consideration
The idea of regifting isn't merely to unload your unwanted items. Take time and consider who might appreciate your unwanted item. The main thing to consider is the recipient. The whole concept of a gift is the thought you put into selecting it and the thought behind it. You're attempting to convey your feelings with your gift. Refer to your master list and don't add useless junk to your gift closet.
Creativity
Many of your unwanted gifts can be grouped together with other gifts. Maybe on it's own a regift is too small of an item, but when coupled with another gift, it's a wonderful add-on. You can create a gift basket and add a regift to it. You can also embellish your regift to make it more pretty. Items like empty jars, tins, and baskets can store homebaked goods. You can add a personalized photograph to a regifted frame. Think of other ways the items can be used, re-used, and enjoyed by the recipient.
Exercise Caution
Don't regift in the same family or social circles. That's just asking for trouble. The last thing you want is Aunt Mary seeing that puffy sweater she gave to you on your cousin at the next family gathering.
You shouldn't try to pass these items off as being new, if they aren't new. You know the recipients well enough to know which people you can inform that the item is secondhand and which members you can't. Keep in mind that if you thought it was a horrible and tacky gift, you shouldn't regift it unless you know it's an item someone would like. When in doubt, you can either resell it or donate the completely useless and tacky gifts.
You also don't want to regift any items that the gifter will notice you no longer have in your posession. If your friend comes over often, she may ask you where you're hiding that fabulous gift she gave you.
Suggested new or secondhand items for your gift closet
-candles
-crafts, pens, markers, and crayons
-seasonal merchandise like mugs, plates for cookies, mittens, scarves, hats, ear muffs, seeds, ornaments, placemats, towels, potpourri, and wreaths
-stationery, journal, and books
-frames
-office and school supplies
-clearance baby items
-cd's, dvd's, and sheet music
-games and toys
-bath and beauty items
-baskets
-magnets
-kitchen gadgets, appliances, and baking supplies
-nightlights
-wallet, keychains
-water bottle
Purchasing these items, when they're on sale or secondhand for your gift closet, saves a considerable amount of money. It doesn't leave you with those hefty bills come holiday and gift giving time. It helps your holidays be less stressful, so you can focus on the joy of special occasions. You'll also become known as a thoughtful gift giver that chooses the perfect gifts that creatively express your thoughts and feelings. Plus, you're a savvy shopper too.
Get started on planning your gift closet. It sure beats rushing to the store, grabbing any old thing, and wrapping gifts in the car on the way to the occasion. Think of your gift closet as convenience shopping. For any readers still not convinced a gift closet is a concept for them to utilize, please read the following website: http://www.badgiftboycott.com At the very least, you'll avoid being a bad gift-giver.
Sara Noel is a freelance writer and the Editor/Publisher of http://www.FrugalVillage.com and http://www.HomesteadGarden.com.
Visit both these sites for information on getting back to basics through frugality, gardening, lost arts, simplicity, homesteading, and natural family living.

How To Give A Homemade Christmas Gift

2009-01-10T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Low Jeremy

Who says Christmas gifts need to be expensive? In fact, who ever said that Christmas gifts should be bought?
If you have the time to spare and the creative juice to squeeze, you can actually make your own gifts at the comforts of your home. And you don't need much, just a few materials, some great ideas and design concepts and of course, a commitment of time.
Below are some homemade Christmas ideas that can help you get inspired. Read on and you might find something that can turn on that idea light bulb in your head.
1. Think of your interests Before proceeding to make a homemade Christmas gift, first consider what your interests are and what you are good at doing. For instance, you cannot expect to do a trimming for a Christmas tree when you absolutely have no knowledge of crafts. You can't also be expected to whip up a macaroni salad when you have not cooked anything in your life.
Know what you can do and then do it. If you are great with crocheting, then consider giving crocheted items as Christmas gifts. If you are good with painting, then consider giving paintings and cards as holiday presents. That way, doing home-made gifts will not only be easy but will also be enjoyable for you.
2. Think of their favorites When you have already established what you can do as homemade gift, now is the time to think of the things that they will like or will be able to use. For instance, if you are doing crochet items as gifts, consider what they will most appreciate , e.g. sweater, scarf, bonnet, make-up purse, etc.
Also, consider their favorite color. The same goes with cooking or baking for them, consider their favorite foods. It is not only enough that you make the gift yourself; they must also like them. That is your bottom line. Otherwise, all your efforts will be wasted.
3. Wrap it up Just because you made the gift yourself, it does not mean that you will not wrap it up or you will not take the time to wrap it properly. You also have to make an effort in the presentation. Try to jazz up your wraps with ribbons and glitter cloths.
You can even wrap it yourself with more or less the same materials that you used for the gift, that is if it's a craft project. You can also have it wrapped in stores that specialize in wrapping service. Also, don't forget to make a super personal dedication that they will surely remember.
Low Jeremy maintains christmas-gift.articlesforreprint.com. This content is provided by Low Jeremy. It may be used only in its entirety with all links included.

Dad And The Menorah

2009-01-10T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Terry Kaufman

Holidays are for renewal. Family reunions on the Fourth of July. Family and friends gathered together for Thanksgiving. Picnics on Memorial Day. And then there are those days on the religious calendar which draw us together in faith and spirituality - Christmas, Easter, and Hanukkah. As important as faith and spirituality are, to me the most critical concern is family and the nostalgia that is generated. The celebration of your special holiday can be relaxed or as extravagant as the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade. What you and your family get out of a holiday really depends upon what you put into it in fellowship, love, and trust.
For me, Hanukkah was the holiday that that gave validity to the concept of family. I was an only child with virtually no cousins to interact with in holiday celebrations. Two of my cousins lived in Tel Aviv, Israel, and my other two cousins were in Chicago, Illinois while I lived in the Los Angeles area. We truly were separated by oceans and continents. Partially because of the distance problem with my cousins but mostly of love, I turned to my parents and bachelor uncle for affirmation of family.
We did not adorn the house with fancy, store-bought decorations. We found it so much more satisfying to cut and paste, hanging childish (and childlike) decorations across our living room and the adjoining dining area. Even though we had a lovely Israeli-made Menorah (an eight-chambered candelabra lit each night by the Shamos, or helper candle, to commemorate the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem. Even thought there was only enough oil to last but one night, a miracle happened: the oil lasted a full eight days and eight nights.), each year my father and I built a Menorah from scratch, literally. Some scrap wood here, some wrapping paper and aluminum foil there, lots of white glue and lo and behold! A Menorah appeared each year. Our homemade Menorah was of dubious aesthetics, but to me it was beautiful because Dad and I had made it together.
During Hanukkah our kitchen became Latke Central. A latke is a positively scrumptious fried pancake made of shredded potatoes, eggs, flour, and a lot of elbow grease. Mom and Dad and my Uncle Paul had their production line set up to a tee. Mom was IN CHARGE. She always had a happy smile on her face in spite of the incredible mess we were about to leave on the kitchen table, counters, and floor. It was an organized free-for-all with every adult (and kid) watching out for everyone else. Hot peanut oil in the frying pan can put a dent in your frivolities. Ouch.
Mom would get out her cast-iron frying pan, which came out of hibernation only once a year for the ritual of producing latkes. Uncle Paul set up shop on the counter between the kitchen sink and the table. Watch out for falling potatoes! Uncle Paul had the dubious honor of grating 10 lbs. of potatoes by hand into a huge yellow bowl. I had the privilege of washing and peeling the potatoes before passing them on to my uncle. As skilled as he was in this job, I cannot begin to count the times over the years he almost grated his knuckles into the mix. When all the potatoes were grated, we had to pour off what seemed like gallons of discolored potato juice into the sink. Yuck! While we were doing all this prep work Dad was dancing around the kitchen, loudly singing his own made-up lyrics to the Russian Sailors' Dance from the Red Poppy Suite by Gliere. This particular musical selection was by no means a "standard" Hanukkah song but now, 50 years later, whenever I hear the opening bars of this beloved, to me, musical masterpiece, I automatically flash upon Dad's silly song, down to the last syllable. To me, that was Hanukkah.
Once Mom pronounced her frying pan ready to go, Dad stepped over to the stove, approaching it as an artist might approach an empty canvas. For the next 30-40 minutes he turned out one perfect latke after another, many of which never made it as far as the dining room as greedy hands reached out hungrily. We simply could not wait a second later. This, also, was Hanukkah.
The instant the latke platter reached the dining room table, again it was every person for himself. Overflowing bowls of applesauce and of sour cream quickly disappeared as we anointed out latkes with the oh-so-delicious garnishes.
After dinner, after the sun had set, we blessed and lit the Menorah candles, moving further each night from the right side to the left. This, too, was special. Each year, our daughter, now 29 years old with a family of her own, slips into place next to me, placing her hands over mine, chanting the ancient Hebrew words.
This is what family is all about. Thank you, Dad.
Terry Kaufman is Chief Editorial Writer for Niftykitchen.com and Niftyhomebar.com For more on Hanukkah, see Niftykitchen.com/site/339522/page/880465
©2006 Terry Kaufman

May Day Baskets In The New Millennium

2009-01-09T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Carol Boles

The custom of celebrating the first day of May began hundreds of years ago by country dwellers. People gathered to share a great feast and bless the birth and joy of spring. Celebrations included dancing around the May Pole, most likely a grain wheel, and picking spring flowers.
Over the years this tradition developed into May Day. In the United States, the May Basket emerged as neighbors presented baskets of flowers to one another.
In the new millennium, May Day baskets have taken on a new look. No longer just a casual assortment of spring flowers, but a sophisticated collection of useful items which reflect the personal tastes and interests of the receiver.
A few suggestions for creative May Day baskets:
For the Wine Connoisseur:
- Cork screw
- Bottles of wine
- Wine glasses
- Guide to buying wine
- Assortment of cheeses
- Assortment of crackers
For the Teacher:
- Colorful pencils
- Sticky notes with apples on them
- Red Apples
- A bag of chocolates, a teacher's best friend
- Cinnamon-apple tea bags
- Mugs with apples on them
- Teachers stamps and stamp pad
For the Artist:
- Artist's palette
- Sketch pad
- Assortment of brushes
- Charcoal pencils
- Bottles of turpentine and linseed oil
- Gum erasers
Creating a May Day basket around a theme is as easy as dropping by the grocery, department or craft store. Embellish your baskets with colorful tissues, ribbons and cellophanes. The fun part is mixing and matching colors and themes.
Carol Fraser Boles has a master's degree in Special Reading and an Educational Specialist degree in Curriculum and Instruction. She has more than ten years experience teaching K-12 reading in public schools. She now manages her own business and is a member of the Lieurance Group, a freelance writer's cooperative. Find out more about her writing services at http://www.lieurancegroup.blogspot.com, or http://teacherspetplace.blogspot.com Email her at Cwrites-56@hotmail.com

Valentines Day Cards A Great Way To Say I Love You

2009-01-09T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Nicola Kennedy

There are many ways to show that you love someone. One of those ways is to give the gift of a special Valentine's Day card. This is a great way to get your message across in a sweet, loving way without having to find the words on your own. And, because there are so many to choose from, you are likely to find just what you want and what you'll love too.
Your Spouse Or Significant Other
Your first goal is to honor your significant other with a special card. It is okay to go with something humorous or something touching. What you choose is up to you and your preferences but you can easily find a card that shows how much you love someone, how it is you two against the world or simply ways that you wish to show your love. Choose whichever fits well with your desires. Make sure you leave a special message at the bottom or a simple, "I Love You" will mean the world to them.
Your Parents
You will likely not find it hard to find a card that you can give your mother or your father for this day. Here, honor the things that mom and dad have done for you throughout the years or continue to do for you now. A card can praise the things that your father has done too. A card that shows that you love them, respect them, and appreciate them will be cherished by them. If you can't say these words to them easily, finding just the right card to express is will be that much more meaningful to them.
Your Siblings
Sure, they drive you made most of the time, but your sisters and brothers should receive a card too. You can really get away with a comical card here. Tease them about something from childhood or a cute joke is just the right touch for these cards. Make sure to provide a sentiment of your love and respect for them, or perhaps how much you value them.
Everyone Else
You'll find a wide range of other Valentine's Day cards available too. You'll find them for virtually every member of your family and can purchase them for these individuals if you would like to. Make sure that the card says something that is special and meaningful for that relationship. This is a great way for you to feel good about your family and friends in an inexpensive way to remember them on this day.
Friends and other people in your life can really find it sweet that you have thought of them on this day. Providing just the right type of card is crucial here. Make sure to get the relationship down onto the card well and then a simple note is all that is needed.
Providing a Valentine's Day card to those that you love and those that have meaning in your life will strengthen your relationship with them. They will appreciate you and your feelings for them. And, they will be thrilled that you thought of them on this day.
Nicola Kennedy has become an expert in giving valentines day cards that are appreciated. Visit her site http://www.Best-Valentines.info for more great Valentines gift ideas to make Valentines 2006 a special one.
Copyright Best-Valentines.info All rights reserved. This article may be reprinted in full so long as the resource box and the live links are included intact.

Get Into The Holiday Spirit Finding True Joy

2009-01-08T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Karen Dahlman

December is a month that is synonymous with the holidays, gatherings, gifting, good cheer and wishing peace on earth. It is also a time of frenzy as you attempt to continue with your day-to-day life while also preparing for the added events that this time of the year brings. With all of the hustle and bustle found during this month, coupled with long waits in lines, it may be hard to experience (let along spread) joy as you are trying to be the super human with super patience, getting everything done!
Yet, it is possible to run around this month and still find joy within your spirit as you prepare for the holidays, and it is possible to carry this joy over from the holidaymaking throughout the rest of the year. Feeling joy can be a common experience once you learn the basic blueprint for creating it, enhancing it and living it.
Finding joy is a compelling force. It drives people to find the "good side" of life. If you think about it, people want to feel good on all levels. It is a typical desire to seek happiness and joy and move away from any pain, fear, frustration and hurt they may be experiencing physically, emotionally or spiritually. Lives are spent in a constant search for joy. So often, the end result is sought while the path to get there is overlooked. So much is missed when the experience is overlooked, and too many opportunities for joy are also missed!
How can you experience every joy along your daily path?
Perfect timing! This month is the ideal time to reflect upon experiencing joy in your world since this time of the year can bring great joy as you practice the art of giving and sharing. As the old English Proverb reminds you, "A joy this is shared is a joy made double." As a matter of fact, this month asks you to shift your focus onto others as you share with them through the mere act of gifting, not merely receiving! This is a thoughtful gesture that not only brings joyfulness to the recipient, but also to the giver.
Think along these lines of what you can "gift" within your power to spread more joy and express more joy along your daily path. Here are six simple experiences you can mentally choose amidst the hurry and scurry of this month to contribute to the experience of joy, now, and year round, for those around you and for yourself.
1.) Define your joy know what excites you and brings you happiness. Understand its impetus. What brings you joy will be different from what brings joy to your best friend. By knowing your source of joy, you begin to establish an intimate and ongoing relationship with it. You can easily and readily pursue those sources when you know what they are. Take responsibility to experience this joy and share in it with others.
2.) Cherish the moment - finding joy in your world will always be discovered in the present, the gift of the current moment. Try to live in the "now" of your path instead of focusing on the end result. Too much is missed when you live for tomorrow, next month, next year, when the kids grow up, when you retire, etc. The moment is cherished once you are involved with your life right now and not awaiting the "perfect" time or moment. Know that there is never a perfect time other than now!
3.) Focus on importance make and take time for what you find important. Know that what you focus on and where you spend your time will be those things and experiences that will prosper. Focus on what makes you and your loved ones happy, and you will find more happiness within your life. Avoid focusing on those things that define you, such as labels or perceived limitations, or you will find yourself limited and confined.
4.) See small miracles notice actions around you. The small and simple things in life, such as a smile or a helping hand from a stranger can be just what you needed when you spirits were down. Or the "chance" meeting of another at a party could lead you to networking opportunities. Be open, receptive and look for the miracles. Remember, what you notice and where you focus will cause more of the same to grow within your world. Remember, joy begins as a small seed.
5.) Shift your thinking change your mind to "give" joy rather than "seek" joy. When you can give joy to others, you become joy. Be what it is you seek. Joy is always found in the act of "happy" expression.
6.) Appreciate with sincerity express gratitude to others within your life. Sincerely let others know your appreciation for them. All people love to be appreciated. When you express your sincere appreciation to someone, you are accepting them in the moment for how they are. Appreciation means acceptance. Others will want to be around you when they know that you will accept them with sincerity.
As you experience this month of holidaymaking and gifting, known for stirring joyfulness, try focusing on the path of doing as opposed to the grand event of receiving at the end of it. Consider experiencing joy as an outcome of being and doing as opposed to an income of obtaining and receiving. The lessons you learn today while making these simple mental choices can serve as your blueprint towards finding joy in your world during the remaining 364 days of the year.
Copyright (c) 2005 Karen A. Dahlman. All rights reserved.
----------------------------------------------------------------
Karen A. Dahlman, art therapist, licensed counselor and entrepreneurial business owner aspires to teach others to lead a creative life. She is founder and CEO of Creative Visions Consulting, Inc., a consulting & design firm for fortune 500 telecommunications companies. Her latest business endeavor is Gifts of the Goddess All-Natural Body & Skin Care, which is close to her heart as it developed from her work as a therapist, inspiring women to evoke their inner goddess through self-empowerment and self-care of their bodies. For more information about Gifts of the Goddess All-Natural Body & Skin Care, visit: http://www.giftsofthegoddess.com ----------------------------------------------------------------
Have a well-being question you would like to have answered? You can write Karen at wellbeing@giftsofthegoddess.com for answers.

Easy Costumes Kids Can Make

2009-01-08T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Wendy Legendre

The kindergarten class I was teaching was scheduled to perform a dramatic recitation. We needed several flower and bumblebee costumes. Since I have found that kids love making their own costumes, I wanted the class to be able to participate as much as possible in the process. Therefore, I came up with an easy costume idea and had the grade 7 class come in and assist, one student per kindergarten child. In about 1 hour all of the costumes were complete and the kindergarten class looked adorable. It was a great experience for everyone.
How did we make the costumes? Easy!
The bumblebees were made with ...
Yellow Garbage Bags (one per child)
Black Electrical Tape
Hair Bands
Pipe Cleaners
Small Foam Balls (available at craft and dollar stores)
The yellow garbage bags were laid flat on a desk and while the kindergarten children held them down, the grade 7 children put four stripes of electrical tape across, front and back. Each stripe had 3 widths of the tape. Finally, arm and neck holes were cut out of the garbage bags. Note: If you make a mistake, clear packing tape or scotch tape works wonders.
The antennae were made by twisting 2 pipe cleaners to each hair band and then, pushing a foam ball onto the other end of each pipe cleaner (the wire inside the pipe cleaners makes this easy). Note: Before adding the pipe cleaners, we wrapped them around a pencil to give them that curly look and add strength.
The flowers were even easier to make than the bees. The garbage bags only needed arm and neck holes cut out.
The flowers were made with ...
Green Garbage Bags (one per child)
Coloured Paper
Scotch Tape
To make the head of the flower, we first cut a 2-inch wide strip of paper for each child and wrapped it around each one's head from the top of their head to their chin, being sure to create a comfortable fit. We then taped it and removed it. Next we cut out several colours of petals about 5-6 inches high by 3-4 inches wide and let each child pick the colour they wanted for their flower. We did the cutting by eye, so the measurements are approximate. Next, we attached the chosen petals all along the inside edge of the bands we had just made and finally, folded the petals outward. Note: The number of petals varied with the preferences of each child.
For most of the children the flower head piece stayed on perfectly. For the ones who had trouble with it slipping off, we added a second strip of 2-inch wide paper to the first one from approximately ear to ear, around the back of the head on the day of the performance.
The final result was amazing. The kids were absolutely thrilled with their accomplishments and the performance was a great success.
Important: Please remember that plastic bags are not a toy and should be used with caution, under adult supervision.
The author has hosted hundreds of kid's and youth programs and events, ladies' events, community events, showers, birthday parties, slumber parties, and camps over the last 25 years. She also directs local theater productions and teaches drama at a small private school. If you are planning a costume party, shower, scavenger hunt or any other gathering or event visit http://www.diva-girl-parties-and-stuff.com for party games and ideas.

A Day Spent At Bay Beach Amusement Park Is Simply A Day Of Delight

2009-01-07T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Andrew Regan

If you're after some good old-fashioned family fun, Bay Beach Amusement Park in Green Bay, Wisconsin is the perfect place for you and your family to visit. Located near the mouth of the Fox River in Wisconsin, Bay Beach Amusement Park has been providing children and adults alike with pure fun since it first opened its gates in the late 1800's.
The amusement park, having acquired its name from the famous 'Bay Beach' which runs along the east end of the park, has had a rich history from its creation through to its ongoing development. When a young entrepreneur by the name of Mitchell Nejedlo bought a strip of land in 1892, he merely had plans to build a private beach resort. But before long, he had also gone on to construct a dance hall, a bar, a bathhouse, and even bought a steamboat to transport people. Moreover, he began renting swimsuits for ten cents apiece to accommodate the throngs of people who wanted to splash around in the bay. It wasn't long before the expansion of Bay Beach Amusement Park was well under way, and it would prove to become a remarkable success. The park has even hosted a number of famous concerts, political rallies, and dances, such as the establishment's tercentennial celebrations where Franklin D. Roosevelt give a speech to thousands.
Today, Bay Beach Amusement Park has a number of rides and attractions for its visitors to enjoy; and while the original roller coaster which was built in 1901, and then replaced in 1929, before finally being dismantled in 1936, never made an expected comeback, there is now talk of a new coaster finally being built on park grounds. Families and groups frequently flock to the park's many picnic sites to have summer cookouts and to delve into a bit of fun and relaxation, and groups can even rent venues - such as the famed Bay Beach Pavilion - for private parties and events.
Not too far from the Bay Beach Amusement Park is the Bay Beach Wildlife Sanctuary - a 700-acre refuge where people can feed ducks, geese and small animals. Kastle Karts and Fort Fun are also nearby, enabling families to combine the attractions of Bay Beach Amusement Park with the batting cages, mini-golf fields, paint-balling fields, and bumper boats that the other sites have to offer.
One will quickly catch on to the fact that aside from great, old fashioned fun, Bay Beach Amusement Park provides amazingly old-fashioned prices. In fact, the park is well-known for its ability to amuse and entertain without costing a great deal to families - ensuring that rides, games, and even the cotton candy, popcorn, and hotdogs, can be purchased throughout the day for ongoing enjoyment.
If you'll be visiting the amusement park from out of town, there are loads of hotel options available in the Green Bay area, such as the Hilton Garden Inn. Why not frequent the park over the span of a few days to make certain that you and the kids have the opportunity to experience all the rides and attractions at a leisurely pace.
So if you're looking for a great way to spend some quality time with your family, Bay Beach Amusement Park is undoubtedly the place to go. You'll not only have great affordable family fun, but you'll leave with some priceless memories.
Andrew Regan is an online journalist who enjoys socialising at his local Edinburgh rugby club.

Halloween Party Have A Happy Halloween Lockin Monster Mash

2009-01-06T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Gail Leino

While most of us remember dressing in homemade costumes, going from house to house, yelling trick or treat, the trend is having Halloween block parties, or inviting classmates or Sunday School class Halloween lock-in parties. The thing about lock-in parties at local churches, is that there are so many people there to help, and so many things to that self entertaining older children need little help to occupy themselves, and younger children are so easy to entertain and please that the party is bound to be a success.
Of course, in a group situation, like a Halloween lock-in party, if there is a wide range of ages, the party should be divided, if possible, and if not boundaries should be clearly defined, and any contests such as costume, pumpkin decorating and competitive games, should be divided into age groups and the games should be age appropriate. In spite of that, your Halloween lock-in party will be a success with a little planning, and a lot of help, and your kids will be safe and sound all the while.
A responsible adult, dressed as a Halloween party gypsy, can turn a standard gazing ball into a crystal ball, and tell fortunes, or read tarot cards, in a screened off corner of the room. Teenagers, especially, love this kind of thing. Each teen could be required to earn a chocolate coin, to pay for his or her reading, and the loot can be recycled for other games.
Halloween party menus need not be complex. Treats such as tombstone brownies (cut like a tombstone, sprinkled with powdered sugar, and then written R.I.P.) Dips with plastic "bloody" fingers, and the stray eyeball or two, are fun. Graveyard Dirt Desserts (instant puddings topped with crushed Oreo cookies, mounded up to look like graves, covered in dirt) with the odd stray bone or two, or a tiny skeleton hand reaching up through the center, work well. Rather than punch, for a lock-in, you might want to consider large coolers with push button dispensers filled with punch or soft drinks, even water, and throw away cups.
There are many game ideas, party favors, activities, and menu ideas online, in party supply stores, and department store Halloween sections, but if you plan carefully, have music, plenty of spooky snacks and drinks, a little Monster Mash music, and age appropriate music and movies, your Halloween Lock-in Party, is sure to be a night to remember!
Mrs. Party... Gail Leino is the internet's leading authority on selecting the best possible party supplies (http://partysupplieshut.com), using proper etiquette and manners while also teaching organizational skills and fun facts. The Party Supplies Hut has a huge selection of free party games, coloring pages, word find, word scramble, printable baby and bridal shower activities. Halloween Party Games (Halloween-Party-Fun.com), party planning tips, decorations, costume ideas, recipes, printable activities and free coloring pages.

Fathers Day Jokes That Will Bring A Smile To Dads Face

2009-01-06T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Nicola Kennedy

What better way to give dad a great day than to make him smile. With some funny Father's Day jokes, you can do just that. This sampling of Father's Day jokes from all over the internet will surely tickle your father's funny bone this Father's Day.
One evening, while sitting around the dinner table, a little girl looked up and asked her father, "Daddy, you're the boss, right?" Her father was very pleased by this and replied, "Yes." Then, the little girl continued, "That's because mommy put you in charge, right?"
Q. Do dads always snore?
A. No, only when they are asleep!
Top Ten Things You Will Never Hear A Dad Say
- Well, what do you know? I'm lost. We'll have to stop and get some directions.
- Well, honey, you are thirteen now. I bet you're ready for un-chaperoned car dates!
- I like all of your friends' "Up Yours" attitudes.
- Here are the keys to my new car. Oh, take my credit card, too. Have fun!
- Football? You want to play football? What about figure skating, son?
- Mom and I are going away for the weekend. Would you like to throw a party?
- No, I don't actually know what is wrong with your car.
- Son, let's go to the mall and get you an earring.
- You don't need a job! I have plenty of money for you to spend.
- Father's Day? Don't worry about that. It's no big deal!
Daddy, daddy, can I have another glass of water?
But I've already given you ten!
I know, but the bedroom is still on fire!
Junior had just received his brand new driver's license. To celebrate the special day, the whole family went out to the driveway and climbed into the car for his first official drive. Dad went immediately to the back seat, right behind the newly licensed driver.
"I'll bet you are back there to get a change of scenery, right? After all these months of sitting up here, teaching me how to drive?" Junior said to his dad.
"Nope!" said dad. "I'm going to sit back here and kick the back of your seat as you drive, just like you've been doing to me for sixteen years!"
Happy Father's Day to all you dads!
Nicola takes great care in celebrating Father's Day, both as mom to her husband's children, and as a loving daughter. She can help you find great Father's Day gifts with tips and news, information and views at http://www.ILoveMyPop.com
This article may be reprinted in full so long as the resource box and the live links are included intact. All rights reserved. Copyright http://www.ILoveMyPop.com

Mothers Day Ideas For The Family

2009-01-05T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by O Quinn

Mother's Day, celebrated since the late19th century, is a day for the whole family to thank mommy for being there. Let all the mothers among your family and friends know how special they are. Get everyone involved, young and old and make it a day to remember.
Since Mother's Day is always on a Sunday it's a great time to get the family together after church for a family celebration dinner. A special meal to celebrate all the mother's in your family.
If this sounds good to you then think about some of the specifics.
Who will be cooking the meal? Well since it's Mother's Day it would be nice if the men in the family rallied around to perform this great service. If not don't get the mother's in the kitchen. Secure your spot in a restaurant early. Many people have the same idea on Mother's Day so don't be left without a place to eat!
Personally I think you can put together a meal at home to rival any in most restaurants today but you be the judge. If you want to go this route there are many great cookbooks out there for putting together a celebratory meal. Not only is the planning all spelled out for you the recipes and shopping is too.
1.Let the kids help with the meal.
2. Plan so the kitchen is completely cleaned up at the end of the day. don't leave anything for mother.
3. If you need to don't be ashamed to use paper plates, cups etc. You know there are some lovely ones at the party store. You might even pick mommy up a hat!
What about gifts? Statistics show this is one of the biggest days for flowers. We usually send a huge bunch to my mother-in-law but what about those mother's that live nearby? Why not be a little bit more creative with them?
1. Make something. A bath and body product or sew something nice if you are especially handy that way.
2. Collect memorable items in a collage. I remember and article in a magazine I read where the author had collected old memorabilia from his parent's past, put it together, and had it photographed professionally. It was very nice.
3. Cook up a week's worth of dinners for a new mom or even and older mom. Have them ready for her freezer. There are very easy recipes out there for this. Search around.
4. Get mom a planner. They are all the rage now and there are specific ones for moms. There actually are so many that you may have a hard time making a choice.
The key is this is a day to show mothers they are special and what better way than to spend time with them? Take the time to pull together a special day and a meaningful gift for those extra special mothers. It will mean more than all the gifts you could buy.
For homemaking ideas and more ideas visit O Quinn at http://www.homemakingorganized.com

Christmas Gift Ideas The Treasures Under The Tree

2009-01-05T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Mark Dietzel

Hear ye! Hear ye! The 'ber' months will be here before you know it!
When people start to hear about months ending in B-E-R, they all feel the clock sounding tic toc as it fast approaches the holiday season.
Christmas is the season to be jolly. Falalalalalalala! For the kids, it's the merry month where they get so overly excited about gifts and other stuff that Santa brings. And for most, it's the time of the year when all the streets are busy and filled up with traffic while people swoon over shopping malls to find the perfect Christmas gift ideas for their families and friends.
Christmas gift ideas need not to be repetitive or monotonous. One might say "Oh, I know what I'll be getting this Christmas. If its from Aunt Jane, it'll be a north pole replica paperweight." Or "Mrs. Dunst will give me another box of her fruit cake. That has been her gift giving trademark for as long as I can remember." Hey, there are lots of Christmas gift ideas you can up with! Be creative, resourceful and imaginative! Don't you want people to remember you for the nicest and most unique Christmas gift ideas you send them every year?
Here are some new and exciting Christmas gift ideas to help you out:
1. Chef Santa on the run!
Cooking is not only a mommy's craft. This Christmas gift idea is a fun learning activity for the whole family. While all the ingredients are available in the grocery down town, it is also a perfect time to teach your kids or friends some cooking and baking lessons. Try experimenting on your home-made fruitcake, gingerbread house, and Christmas cookies. This is not only a classic Christmas gift idea, but a sure fun way to develop your craft for cooking.
2. Relive the sound of Christmas carols
Everyone has a favorite Christmas song. But wouldn't it a nice Christmas gift idea to make a compilation of old and new Christmas songs sung by various artists? A perfect Christmas gift idea that sounds music to the ears!
3. Candies, anyone!
No matter how candy canes are soooo last year, they are still a hit to all kids! Instead of the traditional white and red striped candy canes. Why not try on some chocolate candy cane? A strawberry candy cane? Or an orange candy cane? Have as many variety of candy cane as you can and try to come up with repackaged gift bags to make it more enticing. Kids, or even teens, will surely love this Christmas gift idea.
4. Christmas craft and decorations
Surprise your pal with this personalized Christmas gift idea. If he is a die-hard music lover cut out some musical notes or his favorite icons that he can hang around the tree. I'm sure he'd love to have something that no one else has. This cool Christmas gift idea is so unique and adds a bit of your personal touch.
5. Frame it up!
Want to bring your special someone in tears? No, I mean tears of joy. This cool Christmas gift idea will surely melt a snow. I mean, your sweetie's heart. Try to create and design a picture frame and draw yourselves as Mr. and Mrs. Santa. Or if you aren't artistic enough to draw, cut out some pictures and replace their faces with yours and your honey's and be sure to pick your best and sweetest shot. This will make him/her think how much effort did you exert to come up with a sweet Christmas gift idea like this.
These are just some of the hundreds of Christmas gift ideas, you can come up with every year. Whether you bought it in a shopping mall or you've made it yourself, be sure to pick the right Christmas gift idea for the right person. After all, it's the thought that count!
Mark Dietzel operates Santas-Wonder-Land.com a website dedicated to Christmas gift ideas

Christmas Shopping 7 Great Internet Christmas Gift Sites That Save Time Amp Money

2009-01-04T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Bernadette Dimitrov

How would you like to eliminate Christmas shopping stress and save yourself some money? Great because Christmas shopping via the internet makes it easy, fast and eliminates crowds, parking challenges and tired children becoming demanding. Plus as an added bonus often you pick up items at a discount saving you money too! The internet makes it easy for you to get organized well in advance as well as at the last minute especially with digital download gifts which are delivered instantly upon payment confirmation which usually only takes a few seconds. All you have to do is email them your gift or burn it to a cd and gift wrap it it's that simple. Here are 7 of the best Christmas gift sites offering great gift solutions on the internet:
1. www.ChristmasGiftsWithHeart.com - If you are looking for personalized gifts then this is the site for you eg. personalized hand-painted family portrait platters, personalized family photo quilts for your bed, personalized photo pillows and much more!
2. www.ChristmasGifts.com - Here is a site that offers gifts that can be shipped. They offer just about everything you can think of and haven't thought of too!
3. www.lastminute.com - This site has some really different and unusual gifts a personalized puzzle of your neighborhood, save an acre of rainforest, buy a piece of the moon (an acre to be precise), great savings and fun ideas can be found at this site.
4. www.Make-stuff.com - This is the place to go if you want to make everything yourself yet are looking for quick and easy ideas to make gifts at home for the ones you love. Includes no-bake cookie recipe, Christmas wreaths and ornaments personalize them and they make great gifts!
5. www.Amazon.com - Well here is a favorite that we cannot go past. Amazon is a great place to shop on line and caters for everyone and every taste!
6. www.Exploratoriumstore.com - Unusual gift ideas for the person who has everything. Great fun gift ideas for young and old too eg a gadget to make bubbles as long as a bus, a tranquil Zen garden desk relaxer, a flower pressing kit to keep mementos of your garden (great for a garden lover).
7. www.HipGiftGuide.com - This site has gifts for Christmas and for every other occasion too. You'll have so many great options for the one's you love.
As you can see there are gifts for everyone on the internet. It's so easy to browse the web and order on-line. Most sites offer secure payment options such as Paypal. So let your fingers do the walking this coming holiday and enjoy more time with your family and friends. It really is the answer for today's busy life-style. Shop on line and save time, money and crowds!
Visit http://www.HoHoHoChristmas.com for tips and tools for reviving the fun, magic and spirit of Christmas every day of the year. You can also subscribe to our f*r*e*e 10 day e-course with audio on how to enrich your Christmas experience today Plus sign up for our sensational f*r*e*e Newsletter with great tips, tools and resources you'll love throughout the year! By The HoHoHo Expert, Bernadette Dimitrov, author of The HoHoHo Factor! & Bluey, Santa's New Recruit (ebooks and audio books).

Easy Christmas Crafts For Children

2009-01-04T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Nicole Dean

Remember how much you had creating Christmas art projects? Nothing brings out the kid in you better than sharing some together time with your own children and there's no better time to do it than during the holiday season! Start the season with some cute and fun to make Christmas crafts that your kids will love.
Candy cane Reindeer
What you'll need:
Candy Canes
Glue
Brown Pipe Cleaners
Small googly eyes
Small Red Pom Poms
Thin festive ribbon
Small jingle Bell
Instructions:
Take your brown pipe cleaner and twist it into a V shape under the curve of the candy cane, or 'neck' of your reindeer under construction Bend the pipe cleaner again to shape into antlers. Take your googly eyes and glue them onto the candy cane. Glue a red pom pom on the candy cane for a 'reindeer' nose. Tie the thin ribbon around your reindeer's neck and string the jingle bell on for the final touch! You might want to glue the ribbon to the candy cane to secure. Make a bunch of these cute candy cane reindeer, and hang them on your holiday tree!
Pasta Holiday Wreath
What you'll need:
Small Paper Plates
Variety of different pasta shapes
Glue
Holiday color tempra paint
Festive ribbon for bow
Instructions:
Cut the center out of your paper plate. Choose some really interesting pasta noodles, and glue them all around the outer ring of the plate. Try real hard to cover the entire plate! After the glue has dried, take your tempra paint and color the pasta. Have an adult tie the ribbon into a bow and then glue it to your wreath. Display them all around your home during the holiday!
For more holiday crafts and activities for your children, visit http://www.showkidsthefun.com/holidaythemes.html.

How To Make Healthy Holiday Gifts For Under A Dollar

2009-01-03T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Russ Miles

I would have titled this "For Under a Quarter" but I knew that no sane editor or e-zine publisher would have even have bothered to open the article.
How often have we received holiday gifts that someone, who cared about us, made themselves? I look forward at this time of year, to homemade candies, and cookies, but not pound cakes. In many families, making presents has become a tradition that, once started, the gift maker had better not beg out of. What if you could make something yourself that was healthier, had many uses, and was to become the talk of the gift exchange celebration, even if it didn't taste as good?
I used to give and receive bottles of "Hooch." No, I was never a bootlegger, nor were my friends or living relatives. The downside of giving liquor is that it is expensive. I never gave anybody a cheap bottle of wine, although some of my roadside philanthropy may have ended up doing that anyway. I did enjoy receiving a "Good Bottle." Now, I am able to give a better bottle or jar of good homemade "Spirits." One gift that will kill more germs and viruses than any good booze ever did, and for well less than a dollar, I can now offer something of value to those about whom I care.
Okay, enough suspense. I use CS (Colloidal Silver) as a supplement in my continuing battle to overcome MS (Multiple Sclerosis). As far as is currently know Colloidal Silver kills ALL germs, single cell fungi, bacteria, and viruses. If we buy CS at health food stores, or even via Internet providers, we spend at least $25.00 dollars for an 8 oz. Bottle. Not a heavy metal, CS is safe for mammalian tissues. I consume about a half gallon of CS each day contending with my MS, yet most people need only a few drops or a teaspoon daily to ward of infections and remain healthy. Of course, today's medical practitioners no longer advocate ingestion as a means of treating a variety of known diseases, although caring medical doctors in times past definitely did.
The FDA has made it unlawful to claim that Colloidal Silver will cure any disease. Drug companies can't make any money or patent the element Silver, and thus laws have been passed which prevent manufacturers from making such claims either. Nor, do I! On my website http://www.MilesBooks.com I have posted numerous articles, much information, and stories of people, who are much more knowledgeable than I will ever be, about the numerous medical benefits of Colloidal Silver. Some, as in the Multiple Sclerosis section, attest to being cured. Others, as in the More Health Issues section, show how CS has been and is being successfully used in the treatment of more than 650 diseases.
I have included here a partial list of the more than the 650 diseases that colloidal silver has been reputed to be successful against: acne, AIDS, allergies, appendicitis, arthritis, athlete's foot, bladder inflammation, blood parasites, blood poisoning, boils, burns, cancer, candida, cholera, colitis, conjunctivitis, cystitis, dermatitis, diabetes, dysentery, eczema, fibrositis, gastritis, gonorrhea, hay fever, herpes, HIV, impetigo, indigestion, keratitis, leprosy, leukemia, lupus, lymphangitis, Lymes disease, malaria, meningitis, multiple sclerosis, neurasthenia, parasitic infections, viral, fungal and bacterial pneumonia, pleurisy, prostate, pruritus ani, psoriasis, purulent opthalmia, rhinitis, rheumatism, ringworm, scarlet fever, septic conditions of the eyes, ears, mouth, and throat, seborrhea, septicemia, shingles, skin cancer, staphylococcus and streptococcus infections, stomach flu, syphilis, thyroid, tuberculosis, tonsillitis, toxemia, trachoma, all forms of virus, warts, whooping cough, yeast infection, and stomach ulcers.
So, when I make up a 32 oz bottle of "Silver Water," as my holiday present, I can know that the recipient is sure to appreciate it.
My little, automatic Colloidal Silver generator cost me about $200.00. My distilled water costs me under $1.00 per gallon. I use 1 qt Gatorade bottles and various sized Mason jars for my gift containers. A 46 oz pickle jar works perfect for me, allowing me to make a quart of Colloidal Silver at a time, while allowing me plenty of CS to jump-start my next batch. All together, my perfect holiday gifts cost me less than a quarter each.
Even if the recipient of my holiday present doesn't feel comfortable ingesting the liquid, the person will likely use the present as a household disinfectant or antibiological weapon in their stay-healthy arsenal.
As the season is upon us, if you want to make your "Silver Water" healthy holiday gifts for under a dollar this year, you will need to act quickly. Links to the Colloidal Silver generator manufacturer that I use are on my website. So is their toll free telephone number. You might consider asking for rush delivery to insure time to make up healthy holiday gifts for under a dollar yet this year?
Or, maybe, you don't want to make the "Silver Water" yourself? Do have a son or daughter, niece or nephew, perhaps a grandchild who would love to make Colloidal Silver for you, and for the whole family from now on? What a beautiful and beneficial blessing present a CS generator would make.
Now focused on improved health, Russ Miles is author of the novel, For Sale By Owners: FSBO. A "Seasoned Real Estate NAR® Broker," disabled by Multiple Sclerosis, Russ writes books & articles on varied subjects. FOR SALE BY OWNERS:FSBO ISBN 0-595-28703-4,in trade paperback, is available by phone or Internet:1-800-Authors to order direct! Adobe e-book & hard cover editions also available at Amazon.com at Barnes and Noble and other fine booksellers.
Comments: MilesRuss@Gmail.com. Please visit Russ Miles's website www.MilesBooks.com for improved health ideas, other informative features, and information of interest.

What Gals Really Want For Christmas

2009-01-03T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Matthew Keegan

Okay, guys: listen up! I am here to tell you what women want for Christmas. You probably already know it, but you don't understand it. What am I saying? Well, those little ads that have been mysteriously popping up on your dresser, on your workbench, or plastered to the windshield of your truck did not get there by accident. Somebody who wants you to pay close attention to what she really wants put it there. You don't think the wind blew it there do you? Oh, please! Let's go down the list and find out what your lady really wants for Christmas. I abbreviated everything for clarity and to be concise. That means the 27 items she really wants are condensed to just five. Get it?
1. Jewelry You had to ask? What woman doesn't want something shiny to wear on her fingers, around her neck, her wrist, her anklet, her belly buttonOkay, I'm not talking custom jewelry either. I'm talking about something that will retain its shine in all weather conditions and can be counted in the number of karats it possesses. You can count on it setting you back at least through the following June, probably as late as Thanksgiving
2. Chocolate Milk chocolate just doesn't cut it, fellas. Better for you to pick it up by the brand: Peregina, Godiva, and Richart are a few that come to mind. Yeah, get her the little stocking stuffer Santa chocolates too. She'll think that you are being real sweet!
3. To the Islands! Okay, time to splurge. Go all out and book that early February vacation to Paradise. You know you will need it by time that the 17th measurable snowstorm plasters your driveway. Oh, by the way, no matter how much she thinks that the kids should come along, make arrangements with your parents to come and spend the week at your house. If the kiddies come down with the flu at least they will be in a familiar environment with adults who will spoil them rotten!
4. Spa Membership This one gets tricky. If you give her a spa membership, she will say that you think she is getting fat/old/wrinkly, etc. You're walking in dangerous territory, men! Better yet, make sure that it is a place where her friends already hang out. Tell her you want her to have regular quality time with her girlfriends. She won't buy your pitch, but she'll join especially when you present her with the other gift that she wants: chocolate.
5. Stuff For Her Minivan. You know how hard it is for you to summon up courage to drive the family van, right? Especially after driving your Dakota all week. Who wants to be caught driving that thing? She does! This is where you really have to die to self: give her spark plugs and spark plug wires for Christmas and leave it at that. Just kidding. Better to find the name brand auto parts she really wants: floor mats, seat covers, pet pads, etc. All the frilly little things that make her vehicle, well, her own.
Are you still not sure what she wants? Then just look. That advertisement on your workbench is open to the page for the item she wants... the one with the big, red circle around it. So, just get it and leave it at that. If you do, you'll be singing, "peace on earth and goodwill toward men" in no time. Merry Christmas!
Matt Keegan is a madcap auto enthusiast and contributing writer for PitStop Auto Parts, a seller of discount auto accessories including Catco converter and Taylor wires for your motor vehicle.

Thanksgiving How Do You Spell Thanks

2009-01-02T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Edi Sowers

We're approaching that wonderful once-a-year "Turkey Day"!
For me, Turkey Day memories revolve around going to the football game between The University of Texas Longhorns (yea!) and the Texas A &M Aggies (boo!).
Because that game was traditionally on Thanksgiving Day, my family wouldn't have the turkey and dressing meal but would opt for roast beef sandwiches and potato chips eaten out of the trunk of the car in our version of a tail-gater. I love those memories! And I still love watching my Longhorns beat up on those Aggies! (Hook'em Horns!)
However, I now realize that there is something more important about this holiday than turkey and football. It is, after all, called THANKSgiving! Let's look at "thanks" a little more closely this year.
I believe that living with a thankful heart is the first step towards living a truly joyful life. It isn't always easy to be thankful. Sometimes real life presents challenges, hard times, trials, and circumstances for which an average person would never consider being thankful! However, since you are NOT average, I believe you will appreciate this view of "thanks."
T "THINK"
Renew your mind. Be intentional about what direction you allow your thoughts to take. Don't drift into sin. Think like God. Ask God to transform your thinking. Plug good things into your thinking: scripture, inspirational reading, devotional books and stories about people who have triumphed in all manner of circumstances.
H "HORIZON"
Take the long term view. Remember there is always a bigger picture than what you're experiencing right now. Ask God to help you have that long term perspective to see things from His vantage point. I love the description of life being like a parade. We are on the street watching the parade go by and can only see what is immediately in front of us. God, however, is up high and can see the entire parade in one instant beginning, middle and end so He has the big picture, the 50,000 foot view!
A "APPRECIATE"
Appreciate what you have. Train your mind to focus on the positives in your life the things you have that are treasures to you. Too many times we allow ourselves to focus on what everyone else has that we don't have. We can easily have a pity party, looking only at the things that are missing from our lives. That serves no purpose other than to drain our energy and our joy and turn us into crotchety, grumpy, negative people. How much better to CHOOSE to focus on the things we do have that are positive, those undeserved gifts and blessings.
N "NOW"
Be where you are NOW in life. Enjoy it NOW. Be what God wants you to be today. By continually looking for "what's next", we overlook opportunities for today. If you don't live "now here" you'll be "nowhere".
K "KNOW"
Know what is important. If you imagine yourself on your death bed, what is that you would most wish for? I guarantee it would be your spouse, your kids, your grandkids, your loved ones. By knowing what is most important each and every day, all those other things that want to vie for your attention will be shoved aside.
S "SHARE"
We expect our kids to "be nice and share". How about us? By sharing what God gives us (both tangible and intangible), our grip loosens and we are set free.
Think. Horizon. Appreciate. Now. Know. Share. THANKS!
This applies all year 'round, not just at Thanksgiving. Let's use this Thanksgiving as an opportunity to turn over a "new leaf" of being thankful all year long.
Visit LifeHouse Coaching to sign up for "Blueprints for a Dream Life" and receive Edi Sowers' f*r*e*e* weekly articles, coaching tips, and special offers. Edi works with women business owners who work at home and face the arduous challenge of balancing their personal and professional priorities in order to build their dream life.

9 Affordable Luxury Gifts

2009-01-02T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Sharon Owens

It's possible to treat everyone on your list to a luxury gift without spending a fortune. You just have to know where to find great deals on luxury gifts and how to fit luxury gifts into your budget. If you can't afford to give an entire designer ensemble, opt for a less expensive accessory. Instead of a mink coat, try mink fur-trimmed gloves. A trip to a day spa, instead of an all-out spa vacation. You get the idea.
How do you define a luxury gift? Webster defines a luxury as
(1) something adding to pleasure or comfort but not absolutely necessary
(2) an indulgence in something that provides pleasure, satisfaction, or ease.
So you see, it isn't always about the price. A luxury gift can be anything that a person doesn't find absolutely necessary and probably wouldn't buy for himself/herself but would love to receive. It's a special treat.
Here are several affordable luxury gifts that are sure to please:
Jewelry and Watches
A piece of fine jewelry or a designer watch are always welcome gifts but may not be in your budget; especially if you have a long gift list. There's still a way to get the glitz for much less than retail. Swarovski crystal is a great alternative to diamonds. Or, you could always visit online discount sites if you prefer the real thing. I recently found a Raymond Weil ladies watch for 35% off retail. I've also seen substantial discounts on premium designer jewelry and watches on auction sites.
Soothe Mind and Body
Is someone on your gift list stressed out? Treat him or her to a spa service such as a massage, manicure, pedicure or facial by giving a gift certificate. These services cost much less than a full spa day and the recipient will still feel pampered.
Bath and Fragrant Products
This happens to be my absolute favorite when it comes to indulgences. High end soaps, shower gels and bubble bath are richer and more luxuriant than the lower end versions. They also last longer and smell better. I love Bath and Body Works products (especially the new Tutti Dolci Apple Torta line).
Cashmere
There's just something about cashmere that says luxury. Maybe it's the feeling of having this ultra-soft wool next to your skin. If your budget won't allow for a sweater or robe, try less expensive items like scarves, gloves and hats.
Silk
You can find affordable gifts in this luxurious fabric at online discount sites as well. The prices at these sites are so reasonable, that you could spring for silk pajamas without breaking the bank. You could always opt for silk scarves, pashminas or ties.
Fine Foods
Gourmet gifts are great for the person who has everything because they're consumable. Gourmet foods are generally made of the finest and rarest ingredients and run the gamut from caviar, and lobster to Belgian chocolates. Although some of your recipients wouldn't dream of paying for these gourmet delicacies, they'll be glad you did (or at least they'll think you did). You can impress for less by visiting igourmet.com.
High-End Cookware and Utensils
If someone on your gift list would rather prepare their own gourmet meals, why not arm them with state-of-the-art cookware or utensils. It's not difficult to find top brands such as All-Clad, Cuisinart, KitchenAid and Le Creuset at savings of up to 70%.
Luxury Bedding
Someone who thinks that all sheets are created equal hasn't slept on sheets with a thread count above 400. If you want to give someone a luxurious night's sleep, try sheets with a thread count of 600 or higher. I've found a 1,000 thread-count queen sheet set for $179.00 online 62% off the retail price.
Maid Service
Wouldn't you feel pampered if someone else handled the house cleaning for you? Give your friend or family member a gift certificate from Merry Maids or Maid Brigade and relieve the recipient of the burden of house cleaning. Service can be scheduled through the companies' local offices. House cleaning gift certificates are available in amounts of $100 and higher.
Sharon Owens is the editor of Luxewise.com where visitors find tips and resources to become more savvy shoppers of luxury goods.

Plant A Flower Day

2009-01-01T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by CD Mohatta

12th March is called Plant A Flower Day. Why this day is celebrated on 12th march, could not be found out by me. How we began the tradition is again unknown. At least I could not find any information on that. But whoever did has done a great service to mankind.
Why do I say so? Let me elaborate. Pick up a flower if you have one nearby, or imagine of a flower. Have you seen anything more beautiful in nature? Yes, butterflies come as close competitors in colors. But butterflies are insects, whereas flowers belong to the plant world. Look around any landscape. What do we expect to find? Trees, waterfalls, streams, rivers, mountains, fruits, rocks, stones, grass and such other natural objects that make a typical landscape. You can add snow and sand to this list for some regions. Now can any of these claim of beauty similar to that of flowers? Can anything compare with the softness, the shape and the fragrance of flowers? Nothing.
On a lighter note, can you imagine of anything other than a flower to gift to your sweetheart? Can you imagine presenting him/her a bowl of water on Valentines Day? Or make a bouquet of dry grass. Any rocks? No. Flowers score over everything. The heavenly fragrance of some flowers can intoxicate anyone. The softness can be matched only by an infants skin. Flowers are the diamonds of the plant world and can even beat diamonds in almost all qualities. Compare the cost of a flower and a diamond. You will surely choose the former.
I can keep on talking about flowers and their multiple uses. It seems that nature created flowers to please us. Plant a flowering bush or tree on every 12th March and enjoy watching it grow.
CD Mohatta is an article and content writer specializing in love, life, nature, business etc. text writing. One can download some flower screensavers and flower wallpapers and celebrate nature on his/her desktop. The author also writes for ecards and egreetings in http://www.ecarduniverse.com

Holiday Gift Baskets

2009-01-01T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Peter Emerson

Holiday gift baskets are a great gift giving option. Gift baskets are versatile and fun to make. You can purchase pre made baskets with anything from chocolate, to wine, fruit and toys. You can create a basket that is appropriate for a child, an adult, a co-worker, etc. Basically, holiday gift baskets are a fun way to handle your holiday shopping. Mini gift baskets also make great holiday party favors. If you opt to make your own, browse craft stores, craft fairs and thrift stores for fun containers. For example, an old metal pail makes a fun container for a holiday gift basket for the gardener on your list. Fill it with garden tools, gardening gloves and seeds for a meaningful gift. Other containers can include baskets, wooden containers, old hat boxes, etc. You can be as creative or as standard as you want.
Once you find containers for your holiday gift baskets, you'll want to find items that will be appropriate. Items to consider include wine, chocolate, lotions and toys. But, don't limit yourself to those items. You can create a gift basket filled with tools, auto parts, fishing supplies and even computer supplies. The best holiday gift basket is one that is meaningful to the receiver.
There are a lot of companies who offer holiday gift baskets. You can find them in any department store. You can also order them from flower shops or from online companies. Card stores also have gift baskets, and you can even shop at craft fairs to find baskets.
Just remember that sometimes the simplest gift is the most meaningful. A gift basket doesn't have to be elaborate. If you find a holiday gift basket filled with items that perfectly capture the recipient's personality, you definitely gave a special gift.
Holiday Gifts provides detailed information on Holiday Gifts, Holiday Gift Baskets, Holiday Gift Ideas, Corporate Holiday Gifts and more. Holiday Gifts is affiliated with Birthday Gift Baskets.

9 Fantastic Formulas For A Stress Free Holiday

2008-12-31T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Julie Hunt

The holidays are officially here. And so the season for giving begins. Warm loving intentions, thoughtful giving and stocking stuffing take over.
It's a wonderful time of year, but with all the activities, excitement and family obligations taking place at the same time, it's easy to feel overwhelmed, stressed and even a tad bit gloomy. Here are 9 simple steps to relax, let go and really enjoy a truly happy holiday!
1. Reflect on what an inspiration you are to others. The time you spend, the love you give and the enthusiasm with which you do it all with is what matters most to people close to you. The beautifully wrapped presents and bows are far less important than your loving friendship. You are appreciated and cherished in the lives of so many people. Love yourself with the same appreciation.
2. Be honest with yourself and don't stuff your feelings. As you start to feel range of emotions this holiday whether it is joy or fear frustration or liberationDon't push them away like last season's Prada bag. Give them a special place. It will be far easier to enjoy the holiday if you are honest with yourself and experience all the good, bad and normal parts of life. Be as accepting and generous with yourself as you are with the people in your life you care about the most.
3. Show empathy and compassion. Our internal perception is reality. Whenever you show kind hearted compassion, you'll get it back in return.
4. Be grateful for all the wonderful differences, preferences and opinions that you will encounter this holiday. Try to view life from a different perspective. Talk about differences that may come up in a loving way and make a special effort to sit on the same side of the table (literally and figuratively). See if you can find it in your heart to love and appreciate Uncle Joe's crazy quirk that normally sends you through the roof. The joy and peacefulness of understanding another's perspective while still honoring your own is a feeling to be savored!
5. Get plenty of sleep and squeeze in a few extra minutes to rest and relax. Sleep may seem like an indulgence this time of year, but it is absolutely essential to good health and a positive holiday outlook. Rest, slow-down and catch plenty of zzz's. Be decadent and treat yourself to 3 -5 minutes a day without any books, junk mail or return calls. Take time to breathe, relax, reflect and introspect. If you're feeling really sassy lie on your back and spread out in the middle of the living floor. Is 3 minutes of your day just for one month too much to ask?
6. Try letting go and see what marvels happen! Let go of one small thing that's really been getting to you. Ask yourself what is the worst that can happen? Just for kicks, reflect back on a particularly stressful holiday situation last year. How bad was it really? Did worry consume you for nothing? I'm guessing that the turnout wasn't as bad as all the images swimming in your head. And, there may have even been a hidden blessing after all. In the scheme of things, our daily worries are trivial. Try to let them go and go with the flow!
7. Find opportunities throughout the day to bond and make a human connection. Make a conscious and loving effort to be attentive and live in the present moment. A sure fire quick way to work yourself up is to let your mind run a million miles an hour of things you could, should or would be doing. These random relentless thoughts will just make you anxious and nervous. Take the time to look into peoples' eyes; listen carefully to what they have to say and pass them a compliment about something you know is important to them. That goes for strangers too! You will enjoy your time together that much more and so will they.
8. Change up the scenery. Rather than going through your same daily routine, shake it up a bit! Close your eyes at night before you drift off and sleepily anticipate a self indulgent wild and crazy day. Roll out of bed on the opposite side. Light a scented candle in the bathroom and watch the flame flicker in the morning light. Crank up your favorite piece of inspiring music before you do anything else in the morning. Walk backward through the house. Try tea instead of coffee. Call an old friend you haven't talked to in ages. Talk to strangers! Take the scenic route home. Wave to the stressed out folks who cut you off on the freeway. What else can you think of that could change up your scenery and shake some smiles out of you?
9. Treat yourself as you would treat others. Write yourself a love note. Buy yourself fresh stems of flowers. Soak your feet. Valet park the car. Have your groceries delivered. Send your undies to the cleaners. Snuggle with a blankie. Take a long walk. Sleep in. Watch the sunset. Sing yourself a love song. Do all the things for yourself you wish others would do for you!
Enjoy the most fabulous holiday season of all times!
julie@shesite.com 714-834-1137
Julie Hunt is a female icon and founder of SHE, the foremost inspiration and personal development resource for women who want to live brilliant, happy, successful lives. Marketing consultant, sales expert, copywriting guru, improvisational actress, yoga instructor, author and just plain cool chick she's an inspiration to hundreds of women.
She is on a mission to scream, skip, advise and acquaint with women around the globe who want live a vivacious life busting at the seams!

Santas Workshop Diary Of An Elf Day 19

2008-12-31T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Ashlee Williams

Hello Everyone,
We will be working very hard these next few days so we can attend Santa's Halloween Party on Saturday night. If we don't meet our quota, Santa says we will have to stay away from the party and work in the toyshop. Some of the elves are complaining about it, but I'm sure they want to "bob for apples", eat the Halloween goodies and enjoy Santa's haunted house.
My Halloween costume is all ready ~ a scary black witch on a yellow broom stick. I couldn't find a witch's hat, so Mrs. Claus made one for me. I found a witch's mask in Santa's surplus supplies. It really looks great. I can't wait for Saturday night!! Mrs. Claus always has a spooky party. ~ graveyard cake, graveyard signs everywhere, door curtains made of strings of beads, scary sounding music, skeletons dancing, and monsters prowling throughout the house. I can't wait to go. And of course we'll get some candy along with some fruit (yuck!). Mrs. Claus doesn't believe in too many sweets for anybody. And of course, bobbing for apples is always fun.
Due to my ankle injury I am still painting the little girls tea sets. I cannot stand on my ankle for long periods of time and this task is a sitting down project. Be glad when it's better and I can do other projects.
The reindeer exercised outdoors in their corral and behaved very well. No Problems today.
Well, guys and gals that's all the news from the North Pole for today.
Ashlee Williams writes a report from the North Pole, through the eyes of an elf who works for Santa Claus. Why not visit us at santasworkshop.blog.com. You'll be amazed at all the troubles that Santa encounters while he's making all the toys for Christmas Eve.

Sleigh Bells

2008-12-30T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Kevin Stith

The first thought that comes to mind when you hear the words "sleigh bells" may be that of Santa's reindeer plowing through the snow with their bells ringing a magical tune. The joy of Christmas or the holidays may slowly creep in.
As children, we have always been amused by the sound of tiny bells ringing. Even babies are intrigued by the sound. For those in the Arctic region, the sound often means the return of a family member from a hunting trip or the delivery of goods expected for weeks or months.
Sleigh bells have adorned horses and other farm animals since the ancient times. Whether they were meant to add to the festive mood of victory parades or to keep the farmer aware of his animal?s whereabouts, sleigh bells have long served their purposes.
Nowadays, sleigh bells are crafted more for their decorous usage. And, they can be ordered over the Internet. Customers can choose from a variety of designs and may even order them customized. The bells usually come in brass, chrome, or tin and are strapped on hand-tooled leather.
Beautifully crafted sleigh bells can give parade horses a more endearing look. But you can also buy loose bells or individual sleigh bells for your pets; cats, dogs, ponies. Not only will you double their cuteness factor, you will always know where they are. Or, wrap those sleigh bells as perfect birthday or anniversary gifts. They can also adorn your home or that of a friend's. In ancient times, bells were believed to attract good tidings and ward off evil and harm. You may not be that superstitious, but those quaint bells are unmistakably good conversation pieces for your guests.
Share those warm thoughts that come from hearing sleigh bells with your friends and family; every once in awhile, we need to be reminded of good memories.
Bells provides detailed information on Bells, Sleigh Bells, Tubular Bells, Church Bells and more. Bells is affiliated with Sterling Silver Charms.

Mom In A Pocket Overcoming Fear With A Hanky

2008-12-29T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Darry Roseman

I started 1st grade at St. Nicholas Catholic grade school in Struthers, Ohio. It was difficult because every other kid in the 'hood' was either already attending or starting school in the Poland local public school system. I didn't understand, but Mom told me that we were Catholic, and that I was going to get a good Catholic-school education.
The kids in Struthers were all strange to me. I had no friend there. Not one. Even the school bus ride was difficult. When you have no one to sit with . . . and you try and find a seat and sink into the background of cacophony that only this type of ride can offer . . . you feel so raw and helpless!
I don't remember how I actually discovered Mom's 'smell' on the hanky she always handed me last thing before I left the house. Maybe I actually pulled it out of my pants to blow my nose. Maybe I dobbed a tear - or pulled it out to free up three cents for milk money. But there it was. That fragrance!
Who knows for sure whether it was Calgon, starch or a mixture of softner and soap she used in the laundry. But, yep! That hanky, and a quick touch to my face during the day . . . brought her right next to me. Sometimes I just clutched it inside my pocket. No need to even bring it out.
It was important to have Mom with me all day. The nuns were brutal . . . and only added to the torture of 1st Grade at St. Nick's elementary. If you didn't drink your ice cold milk down to the last drop - and do it fast (you would think a milk break might actually be a pleasant thing to have in the mornings!), Sister Mary tapped her foot and held the whole class up until you guzzled yours. She didn't care about your little stomach ache.
Just to know that my hanky was ever at the ready - in case I needed a whiff of her scent to ground me back to somebody who cared about me - it meant everything. To hell with those nuns!
'Course, I never mentioned my 'prop' to Mom, nor anyone else. Not for years and years. As an adult, I finally recalled these details for my Mother, on one of our never-long-enough visits. I didn't have a kerchief to offer her, as her eyes misted. She grabbed for a boxed tissue or two . . . and she handed me one. The edge of my index finger had already gotten the job done for me. Instinctively though, I brought the Kleenex she handed me to my face . . . and took a quick light breath.
No soap scent. Just . . . a Mother's touch.
Darry Roseman
Happy Mothers' Day, 2006
Darry Roseman is a trial lawyer in Columbus, Ohio, handling every type of Plaintiff's injury work from a solo practice at D. Richard Roseman Law Offices. An abiding life-long love of guitar and drums, golf, landscaping, the written word and travel to sun-kissed beaches - rounds out the mid-Western suburban life of this husband and father to two sons and a daughter, stepfather to two and grandfather to three! Visit Darry on the worldwide web at http://www.DRichardRoseman.com

How About Something New In The Stocking Dont Be Stuck Wondering What To Buy This Year

2008-12-28T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Corinna Moffitt

Christmas comes but once a year, yet it can often be surrounded by anxiety and stress. WHY? Well the answer to that question is of no great surprise. It's usually something to do with c"What Am I Going To Buy"?
Most of us have a short list of people we must buy for, people we should by for, and people we may if we get time, buy for. Plus ALL THEIR CHILDREN.
In a perfect world, time, finances or imagination wouldn't limit us. Every shop on every corner would have a huge supply of gifts and presents that we had never thought of, that were affordable, original and somehow just perfect.
STOP!! Now Back To The Real World
What most of us need is Help. With the busy life most of us lead, often the hardest thing to find is time. Understandably the world of computer shopping is now a thriving business. For your next bout of Christmas Shopping may I suggest you let your fingers do the shopping and source some fantastic and affordable gifts ideas from the comfort and convenience of your home, not to mention shopping the hours that suit you.
A number of new businesses have tapped into this convenient consumer market and have taken it one step further by offering the technology compatible home, a selection of personalised gifts, never before offered so conveniently. With personal ownership of such things as home computer systems, scanners and digital cameras at an all time high, it is not surprising to see some new and enterprising companies entering the market with gift ideas that are designed to take advantage of this growing home technology.
Treasured captured moments on film or digital format can now be transformed into an array of wonderful personalised gifts. The companies are on line for easy down loads of pictures with samples, ideas and ordering of products all readily available at the click of a button or the drag of a mouse.
Imagine the look on the face of an overseas grandparent unwrapping a quality cushion with a beautiful picture of their grandchildren printed on both sides. Or a pet lover receiving a canvas shopping/beach bag with a print of their loved pet/ pets. How about that beautiful baby photo reproduced as a black and white and printed onto canvas with a modern box frame. As well as this any photo that has meaning and beauty can now also be transformed into a painting on canvas at very affordable prices. Wine bags, large carry bags, Indoor/ Outdoor cushions. Photo reproductions on canvas and techniques that change your photos into paintings are all available on line.
So this Christmas give people gifts they will really love and give yourself back the gift of time.
For a great selection of christmas gift ideas visit http://www.photoart.net.au
Corrina Moffitt is a property developer, freelance writer and a professional gift giver (with a lifetime of experience).

Planning A Holiday Party

2008-12-28T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Frank Dalotto

Just as with any other event, planning a holiday party at your home, or at a restaurant or banquet hall is an exercise of creativity and organization.
Like all events, your holiday party can be as simple or as lavish as you wish. Holding a party at your home can be a little easier on the wallet than a restaurant or banquet hall party.
When to hold the party depends largely on your guests schedules and need to be taken into consideration when planning the time and day of your holiday party. Events welcoming spouses and significant others are best held on evenings and weekends. Events on a Saturday night tend to be more formal and lavish.
Planning a Home Holiday Party
A Holiday party at your house can be a lot of fun. It can also be pretty stressful.
At-home holidays parties have a "warm and cozy" feel to them, and can make socializing more comfortable and enjoyable.
Whether you serve brunch, lunch, dinner or cocktails, be sure the quality and taste of the food and drink is superior; this will add considerably to the party experience.
When deciding who to invite, take into account the size of your place and the fact that some guests will probably bring a friend or two without asking you. Do all your inviting at once so no one feels like they were an afterthought.
Try to make provisions for parking in advance. If you will be allowing guests to park on the lawn or in the back yard, let them know in your invitation.
Choose your finger snacks carefully. Choose foods that complement each other. Try setting a theme for the food in each room or on each table. Allow 4 to 6 hot hors d'oeurves per person. Don't serve gooey, drippy sauces near expensive rugs or furniture.
Create items you can prepare in advance. Select what you can make from scratch, but don't be afraid to use takeout. Also, a restaurant may be willing to fill your casserole dish with your favorite choice from their place.
Use shortcuts, like bagged lettuces for salads and bottled dressings. People feel that they have to be the ones to make everything; it's not important who does, just that it's done.
Create a festive party atmosphere with decorations, scents and music. Use scented candles or fill the house with a delightful aroma. However, don't use scented candles at the dinner table. No matter how pretty they are, you do not want to mix the smell of one thing with what you're eating; it can throw off the whole taste.
Choose your favorite music and have it playing softly in the background when guests arrive. Consider unplugging or removing your television if it's located in the party area. Nothing spoils the interaction of guests quicker than a group of people huddled around a television set.
A scented candle in the bathroom is a nice touch. Leave an extra roll of toilet tissue in easy view.
Consider removing all the chairs from the party area. This will create more room for people to mingle.
Be sure to have plenty of hot coffee and snacks on hand for late in the evening. A coffee bar is a simple but elegant touch. Along with hot coffee, offer a bowl of whipped cream and an assortment of liqueurs (Kahlua, brandy, rum) so guests can create their own coffee drinks.
If you choose to have alcohol served at your home holiday party, don't offer a full bar. Serve one specialty cocktail, and then offer wine and water. Make food available when the alcohol is served. Hire a professional bartender to serve drinks. Consider putting the alcohol away an hour or two before the conclusion of your party. Have a back up plan for people unable to drive home safely.
Note: The social host law, passed by the New Jersey legislature in 1987, says that if one of your guests consumes too much alcohol and injures someone in a car accident after the party, the injured person can recover damages from you. In some ways, the social host law runs counter to our natural impulse to please our guests. As hosts, we want to be generous; we want to have more than enough food and drink on hand, so that our friends will want for nothing. But it is through this natural generosity of spirit--and of spirits--that we might expose ourselves to lawsuits.
Whichever way you choose to go, -- keep in mind that if you do serve alcoholic beverages, this could lead to some unpleasant, unsafe or litigious consequences: embarrassing or inappropriate behavior, unsafe driving, accidents or claims of sexual harassment. Avoid liability and keep workers safe by keeping a watchful eye for any over-indulgers and having designated drivers on hand if needed. Be sure to serve non-alcoholic drinks as well
Be sure to give yourself enough time to get ready. You want to be able to shower, do your hair and put on a nice dress. If you're working right up until when your guests come, you're going to look as frazzled as you feel
Restaurant and banquet hall parties A benefit with the holiday season is that Christmas and holiday decorations are available almost everywhere you look, and if your event is being held at a restaurant, the facility may already be decorated for the holidays.
Another benefit in hosting a holiday party at a restaurant or banquet hall licensed to serve alcohol is the availability of professional bartenders and waiters that can monitor alcohol intake and politely cut off anyone they perceive has had enough to drink.
Luncheons are typically less expensive than dinners. Many restaurants offer a number of party menus to choose from; i.e., lower priced menus featuring less expensive foods such as chicken and pastas, or higher priced menus featuring entrees such as steak and shrimp.
Those plans including unlimited wine and beer are also considerably more expensive.
Because holiday parties are so popular, December is one of the busiest months of the year for the special events industry. That means hotels, restaurants, caterers, D.J.s, entertainers, are running at peak capacity. They book up quickly. So if you are planning your holiday party during this time of year, extend your time-line.
Hint: Consider moving your Holiday party to January or February. Facilities are in less demand and providers are able to be more flexible. Plus, during the middle of winter, people will welcome a chance to celebrate.
The holidays should be a festive and fun time, a time of good will and as much generosity as one can muster.
Frank Dalotto is a freelance writer and travel consultant. His specialty is writing articles about New Jersey travel, including attractions, events, and restaurant reviews. Frank works in New Jersey and is the owner and editor of New Jersey Leisure Guide http://www.new-jersey-leisure-guide.com and a travel consultant for Leisure Travel Mart. He is a member of ASTA (American Association of Travel Agents) and CLIA (Cruise Line International Association).
His academic credentials are:
MBA, Pace University
BSEE, University of Missouri

Decorative Holiday Candles

2008-12-27T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Rondi Davis

Supplies:
A glass, religious candle or votive
Colored tissue paper
White glue
Water
Craft brush
Ribbon
(9-inch tall glass religious candles work great for caroling because the wind won't blow out the flame and the base doesn't get hot. Even the children can carry them. The candles cost about $1.00 each at dime stores or ethnic groceries.)
Directions 1. Make a glue solution that is equal parts white glue and water.
2. Measure your candleholder and cut a piece of tissue paper that is 1-inch taller and wide enough to wrap around it.
3. Brush the glue solution onto the glass, then cover it with the tissue paper. Tuck the excess paper under the base of the candle.
3. Brush more glue on top of the paper and allow the candleholder to dry.
4. Finish with a decorative bow.
You can use a grouping of your candles as a centerpiece before giving each caroler one of their own.
You have permission to reprint this article electronically or in print, free of charge, provided that each article is:
1. Printed in its full form with no changes
2. Includes an active link
3. A courtesy copy of your publication is sent to the above contact
4. And the following byline appears at the bottom of each article:
About the Author: Rondi Hillstrom Davis is the co-author of the award-winning book Together: Creating Family Traditions. To check out her website that's jam packed with family ideas, visit http://www.togetherparenting.com
About the Authors Janell Oakes and Rondi Davis are co-authors of the award winning book, Together: Creating Family Traditions. They want to give you the most important gift you can give your family. You can be a part of an irresistible offer available for one day only.
http://www.TogetherCreatingFamilyTraditions.com

They've asked several of their friends to join in making available hundreds of dollars of complimentary gifts as a special present to you.
http://www.TogetherCreatingFamilyTraditions.com
We don't want you to miss out on this amazing 24 hour offer.

The Ideal Gift For Christmas

2008-12-27T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by George Wood

When we spend money on gifts, we want them to be really special and something of real use to somebody. Giving a gift a personal touch and putting some thought in buying it makes it very special. You cannot just buy anything for anyone. You have to think what each person likes and what his or her reaction would be on receiving a particular gift. Making small notes of appreciation and gluing them on top of the gift, or making some shapes using the gift-wrap are some of the ideas to personalize your gifts.
A gift is a symbol of your love for others, so it should be chosen with care. You want your loved ones to feel that they are being loved and cherished by you. You can combine a few ideas to make unique gifts this year. A pouch of chocolates and some nice small gift items is a good idea. You can make a colorful pouch yourself. There are so many cool things on the Web. You just have to search and note down some funky ideas to make wonderful gifts.
Humorous gifts also tell others how much you care for them to have thought of such an idea to make them smile. It's always very touchy to give something out of your own possession which somebody may have admired or appreciated at some point. Polish it a little and wrap it in a beautiful gift wrap to give it a new look. Buy something for the bedroom or living room and help them in deciding where it should be placed. Try to have everything in perfect harmony so that nothing may look out of place or disoriented.
A little planning can save you a lot of money on expensive gifts. There can be so many ways by which you can make Christmas the happiest time of the year with special and perfect gifts for your loved ones.
George Wood is a successful webmaster of many popular sites including candy and blog site. If you want to read more about Christmas, click over to George Christmas site.

Reflect Upon Your Harvest At Thanksgiving

2008-12-26T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Susan Dunn

I don't know about you, but at this time of year I always think of work. It's harvest time. Because of the years I spent in the MidWest, I was around people who were harvesting produce, bringing in the crop for the year. The quirks of nature notwithstanding, they would be reaping what they had sown. The result of their work was visible, and commensurate to the amount of effort and care they had put into it. They also had an ending. The crop that had been planted was now being harvested. Then it would all begin again.
We do not all have work like this.
My musings started the first of October this year, as I volunteered a lot of time working at the church's pumpkin patch, which raises $50,000 each year for local charities.
Most of the time I just sold pumpkins, but two Saturdays we unloaded huge trucks of pumpkins hauled in from a Navajo pumpkin farm in another state. We formed a chain of humans and passed the pumpkins down the line to eventually be arranged on the church lawn.
On one side of me were 2 parolees doing community service time. They talked about how much better this job was than the one they'd done earlier, and how nice it was to be out in the sunshine. Both of them expected to be "out" by Christmas. I didn't ask them what they were "in" for.
On the other side of me were teenagers from the youth choir who complained a lot about how hard it was and had to be reminded to pay attention. I'm sure they couldn't imagine working at anything for 8 hours in a row, especially something so, like, boring, dude.
The pumpkins came down the line in various sizes and shapes, shiny and wet, some with dirt on them.
It was very primal.
I wondered if the Navajos on the other end of the process had formed a line to pitch them into the truck. And if they took pride in their work. If they even saw the marvel of the pumpkins any more.
One time there was a middle-aged woman standing next to me. "You're a good worker," she said. "You don't complain." If only she knew how much I was enjoying myself. "I was raised with the work ethic," I said. It's stood me in good stead. Having been taught that work was work and play was play somehow frees me from the "complaining" side and allows me to enjoy work. Most of the time anyway.
As the pumpkins passed by us we noted you couldn't tell how much one would weigh by looking. There were some surprises. It's the density.
Such different shapes, too. "Squash" someone would yell and down would come a pumpkin that didn't know it was a pumpkin. Sometimes nature errs. What is the line between "pumpkin" and "squash" anyway? One or the other must have been a mutant at some time. How exciting to discover one. There's no such thing as a mistake, I'm reminded.
Twice a "perfect" pumpkin came down the line and work slowed as each person paused to admire it. No one reprimanded, "Move it along." We understood our mutual need to appreciate perfection when it comes our way. Once in a lifetime twice on the pumpkin line life is sweet indeed. We have the archetype of the perfect pumpkin, and the perfect woman, and the perfect love affair, and the perfect job. (Hope you've had yours!)
I enjoy that kind of work a lot. Touching things with my hands, physical labor. It's a nice change of pace for me. I work with my head, with people, with ideas, and with computers.
We were a human assembly-line and I thought of the people who do that kind of work for a living. Maybe you do. We were able to talk, and were outside on two beautiful, sunny, breezy days. And it was only for 3 hours. I wondered what it would be like 8 hours a day, 5 days a week.
Abruptly it was over. "No more," they yelled, and we passed it on down the line. As we workers scattered, I gazed over the sunny scene. The pumpkins, which had grown on the ground were back there, only clean, and arranged orderly by size this time. Ashes to ashes, I thought, to the same place returneth, but then the scene became dynamic. The pumpkins had a lot in store for them. Already some were being used as backdrops for family photographs, while others were being carted off to become a jack-o-lantern, lawn pumpkin, or pumpkin pie.
My job, now completed, was part of a much larger scenario, yet from it I had harvested much.
At Thanksgiving time, a time of harvest and bounty, I invite you to reflect on your work and your life -- the mission and meaning side of it. The planting of the seed part of it. The reaping what you have sown part of it. Have you? Will you?
©Susan Dunn, MA, EQ coaching, http://www.susandunn.cc , mailto:sdunn@susandunn.cc . Individual coaching, business programs, EQ Alive! #1 rated program to increase your EQ simple, no memorizing, it works. Email for information, and free ezine.

Christmas Party Games Fun Ideas

2008-12-26T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Gail Leino

After the cookies are baked and frozen; after the party goods are ordered off the internet; when the guest list has been made out and invitations are addressed and sent then the question arises: what Christmas party games are there to play?
That's when the party planning gets tough! It might help to ask the guests ahead of time what sorts of games they like to play. The answer may be as simple as looking at the game shelf. A small gathering might be happy playing old games before the new ones are unwrapped. It's a perfect occasion to get some more use out of favorite games that were gifts on Christmases past.
Another possibility would be to play games like BINGO which allow for several players. It might be possible to make up a variation of this favorite especially for the holiday. With the use of a home printer several cards can be printed with the custom made BINGO words. Cards with the letters XMAS! or NOEL! could be used for example. Use green and red markers and printer ink for the occasion.
There's a danger in overlooking the obvious. Simple outdoor play is a winter favorite. Snowy places offer many options for outdoor Christmas party games and hotter climates are pleasant enough for outdoor activities reserved for summer in other places.
In any climate a Christmas party game can be made out of handmade ornaments with a letter on one side and a number between one and six on the other. These are then placed on the tree. Dice can be thrown on alternate turns and the corresponding ornament is turned without the other players seeing. The letters eventually spell out a Christmas message. The first person to guess what the message is would then be declared the winner.
Mrs. Party... Gail Leino is the internet's leading authority on selecting the best possible party supplies (http://partysupplieshut.com), using proper etiquette and manners while also teaching organizational skills and fun facts. The Party Supplies Hut has a huge selection of free party games, coloring pages, word find, word scramble, printable baby and bridal shower activities. Free Christmas Party Games, (http://christmas-fun.com) party planning tips, recipes, menus, history with fun fact, printable educational activities and free coloring pages.

First Graders Discovered Quotrealquot Santa

2008-12-25T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Lindsey Williams

It was a shock to discover there was no Santa Claus! Nonetheless, there was compensation for the truth.
I was six years old and approaching the halfway mark in the first grade.
Kindergarten hadn't been invented yet, so a youngster's first encounter with education came with a sudden plunge into reading primers, push- pull penmanship, spelling bees and other hard realties of life.
The cotton crops had been poor that year in Boot Heel Missouri. Credit tabs at the general store still had not been fully paid off for the previous season. There were eight or nine months ahead before there would be any prospect of cash money.
Mr. Avery, owner of our general store, struggled along with his customers. It was the necessity imposed by Mother Nature occasionally.
Usually the next crop was bountiful, as if God tried to make up for the hardships that chance sometimes inflicted.
Mr. Avery went to the bank and took out a loan so he could carry his customers until next picking season.
Awesome Avery
We kids were awed, if not frightened, by Mr. Avery. His face was marked with smallpox scars. His voice was deep and gruff. He never smiled.
When I had to go alone to the store for a can of Pet milk for Mother, or a box of snuff for Grandma Lindsey, I stated my business in a small voice, murmured "Charge it," and skedaddled.
Once he refused to sell me a top because I wanted the deluxe ball-bearing-tipped model costing 10 cents. I had only a nickel, the going rate for a spike-point.
In retaliation, I piled empty boxes against the store's door. Mr. Avery told my mother I "surely would land in jail before I was 21."
Toy Prospects
Economic prospects being what they were, Mr. Avery's stock of small toys that could be put on the cuff was not moving very fast.
Languishing in his glass case were highly desired treasures -- jack knives, jump ropes, marbles, miniature tea sets, tops, jacks, baby dolls, harmonicas, hair ribbons, bouncing balls, kites and -- most desired of all -- little $1 automobiles with wheels that went around.
Playing "cars" was my passion.
Bleak Prospects
Christmas was going to be hardscrabble.
Not that this was a tragedy of modern proportions. One or two small toys and a stocking with hard Christmas candy, two or three English walnuts, an orange and a packet of "penny" firecrackers was a satisfactory haul.
Christmas was every big as July 4 for
fireworks.
Still, there was widespread dismay amongst first-graders -- especially the farm kids -- who expected even less than usual.
It was with great satisfaction, therefore, that we heard Mrs. Bowman -- the matriarch who presided over first grade -- announce that Santa Claus would pay us a visit and bring presents.
Getting Ready
What excitement there was that week as we decorated a holly tree Mrs. Bowman had cut in the woods.
We made endless chains of colored paper. We cut out a galaxy of stars from Hershey Bar tin foil that our sainted teacher had saved throughout the year for the occasion.
We fashioned a bushel basket of curls by scraping ribbons with the backside of a scissors.
One day, Mrs. Bowman brought a large sack of popped corn, needles and thread. We spent hours stringing pop-corn rope for our homemade Christmas tree -- sneaking a few kernels to eat as we worked away.
My ratio was one for the tree and one for me -- another of my passions being popped corn.
The Big Day
On the Big Day, Mrs. Bowman brought dozens of clips and little candles. Carefully we snapped them on the holly tree, taking pains not to prick our fingers on the sharp leaf spines and not to get the tips of candles close to another branch.
By this time, expectation had grown to fever pitch.
"Ho, ho, ho!" boomed a hearty voice out in the hall.
"Hurry, children, we must light the candles. I hear Santa coming."
We crowded around, giggling and squealing with delight as Mrs. Bowman lit the candles.
In strode Santa with red suit, white beard and bulging gunny sack.
"Merry Christmas every one," he bellowed.
Disillusionment
"He's a fake," whispered Joe Henry to his nearby classmates.
"He is not," snapped Mary Lou. "You just hush up."
Santa took the chair of honor alongside our beautiful Christmas tree. He allowed as how it was just about the prettiest he had ever seen.
We sang Jingle Bells" and "Away In A Manager," then lined up before Santa to get our gifts.
As Santa leaned forward to pick up his sack, his fluffy beard of cotton brushed against a candle. Instantly the beard burst into flame.
"Look out!" yelled Santa, leaping to his feet and snatching off the burning beard.
There were shrieks of fright, then disbelief. Santa was Mr. Avery! Known by one and all.
"I told you so," said Joe Henry.
"Bawwww!" cried Mary Lou.
Enlightenment I was bewildered.
I suspected there was no Santa. Yet, I wanted to believe and so had maintained the faith against skeptics such as Joe Henry who enjoyed exposing the mysteries of life.
Mrs. Bowman perceived our shock.
She shepherded us back to our seats, took Mary Lou onto her lap and explained:
"No, children, there is not a magic Santa Claus who comes down our chimneys on Christmas Eve. But there is a real spirit of Christmas in our hearts which we call Santa Claus because we sometimes are too bashful to tell folks we like them enough to give them a gift."
She glanced quickly at Mr. Avery sucking a blister on his hand.
"The spirit of Christmas is much more wonderful," Mrs. Bowman continued. "It is fun to make believe there is a Santa Claus even when you know it is really your parents -- or an unknown friend -- who loves you."
The Pay Off
We all felt better and thanked Mr. Avery warmly as he handed each of us a small bag of mixed hard candy. Included was a dime in a twist of paper for a surprise.
No Christmas present has ever meant so much. I spent my dime to buy a ball-bearing top that I soon lost in a knock-top match to a spike- pointer.
Another lesson of life learned the hard way.
I hope that somewhere up in that Great General Store in the sky, Mr. Avery knows the little hoodlum he gave a dime to that Christmas long ago didn't become a jailbird after all.
.
Click here to see this article on Lindsey Williams's website
.
Lindsey Williams is a Sun columnist who can be contacted at:
LinWms@earthlink.net
LinWms@lindseywilliams.org
Website: http://www.lindseywilliams.org with several hundred of Lin's Editorial & At Large articles written over 40 years.
Also featured in its entirety is Lin's groundbreaking book "Boldly Onward," that critically analyzes and develops theories about the original Spanish explorers of America. (fully indexed/searchable)

Photography Songs And A Poem At Christmas

2008-12-25T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Eric Hartwell

Some songs for the festive season
The twelve days of Christmas
( or "Don't keep buying me photographic stuff")

On the 12th day of Christmas, my true love sent to me

Twelve filters filtering
Eleven tripods holding
Ten flashes flashing
Nine models posing
Eight grips a-gripping

Seven hoods a-shielding
Six weddings booking
Five D-SLRs
Four camera bags
Three photo mags
Two shutter lags
And a winner in every photo comp

Jingle Bells
( or "I don't want to be doing this")

Dashing through the snow
Along a muddy track
O'er the fields I go
Camera on my back

Rain and cold and ice
Will never stop desire
My friends that's very nice
- Are sitting by the fire

Oh, snap, snap, sneeze
Snap, snap, sneeze
Coughing all the way
Oh what fun that I could have
If I was snug like they

Twas the night before Christmas
( or "If anything can go wrong, it will")

Twas the night before Christmas
And all through the place
A photographer wandered
To catch Santa's face

He'd set up his tripod
And cocked up his shutter
When he heard in the chimney
A cough and a splutter

He steadied his camera
And charged up his gun
For the best of all candids
In life he had done

With a soot cloud of blackness
Down Santa he came
The photographer pounced
A great image his game

But the lens he discovered,
As he saw Santa's foot,
Had poor optic properties
- it was covered in soot
Eric Hartwell is an enthusiastic photographer. He owns and runs the photography resource site http://www.theshutter.co.uk and the associated discussion forums http://www.theshutter.co.uk/forums as well as the regular weblog at http://thephotographysite.blogspot.com. Anyone interested in getting involved contact him at shutter@theshutter.co.uk

Holiday Treat Traditions Around The World

2008-12-24T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Jane Roseen

When the holidays come around, it always seems as if there are treats galore! The stores quickly fill up with egg nog, wasail ingredients, and chocolate shaped into just about every shape imaginable. But this year, how about looking at the more traditional holiday treats to spice up your gatherings. By focusing on the traditional and meaningful instead of the gaudy and commercial, you may find that you introduce your family and friends to treats that they love to both eat and discuss.
In Austria, families traditionally spend Christmas Eve together, starting the evening with a church service. Following church, they gather for a traditional dinner. While their main course of Gebackener Karpfen, or fried carp, may not suit everyone's fancy, their dessert of Sachertorte may indeed. Sachertore is a chocolate and apricot cake; the richness of the cake is determined by the depth and quality of the chocolate used. The cake is then frosted traditionally with chocolate frosting, creating a delectable treat for almost any palate.
When December 6th reaches Germany, they celebrate the evening with St. Nicholas coming to all the children. For the good children comes a shoe or boot full of delicious chocolates, cookies, and other treats. This just starts the holiday season. On Christmas Eve, each family member receives a plate of all kinds of treats, including fruit, nuts, marzipan, chocolate, and cookies. These treats are sure to bring sweet dreams for Christmas morning!
Mexico celebrates the holiday season with La Posadas, which marks the journey of Mary and Joseph from Nazareth to Bethlehem. Starting on December 16th, this celebration takes place each night with people going from door to door, singing traditional songs and asking for admittance for Mary. When the door is opened, everyone celebrates and the children enjoy the tradition of the piñata. The piñata is a brightly colored container made of either pottery (traditionally) or paper (in modern times) filled with all sorts of treats for the children. One by one, the children are blindfolded and try to hit the piñata with a stick. Finally, the piñata breaks and everyone celebrates by devouring the delicious candies and treats
And in France comes probably one of the most indulgent treats, the sabots. Traditionally, the sabots were wooden shoes that the peasants wore. On Christmas Eve, the children would put their sabots in front of the fire in hopes that they would awaken to sabots filled with treats. In modern France, however, wooden shoes are obviously not as prevalent. Instead, sabots are made of chocolate by pastry shops and filled with all sorts of candies. Obviously, these are no longer set in front of the fire.
For your next holiday gathering, why not pick a traditional theme and impart both delicious food and knowledge upon your guests. They will in all likelihood be thrilled not to rehash the same tired holiday offerings.
Jane S. Roseen became the sole Owner and President of Harmony Sweets in 2005. Since then she has taken a small, successful online gourmet chocolate shop and made it a name recognized world-wide. Harmony Sweets' original mission focused on individual consumers purchasing gourmet chocolates from around the world for their friends and relatives. Roseen expanded that mission to include corporate gift-giving.
Website: http://www.harmonysweets.com

Top 5 Ways For An Add Adult To Have A Happy Holiday

2008-12-24T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Jennifer Koretsky

Holidays have the potential to send an adult with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) into overload. Too many details to plan, kids to manage, and family to cope with can turn a good day into a stressful one. The following suggestion can help adults manage ADD during the holidays.
1. Know Your Own ADD and Plan Ahead to Deal with It
You know yourself better than anyone, so ask yourself "How does my ADD affect me on the holidays?" Make a list of all the things that tend to stress you out on the holidays, and make a plan to deal with them.
Do you tend to say impulsive things that you later regret? Plan to take a deep breath before answering questions, so that you can think about your words before you speak them.
Do hyper kids overwhelm? Plan to excuse yourself and take a brief walk when the kids are so noisy that you can't think straight.
Does a family member really make you mad when s/he starts nagging or becomes critical? Plan a simple response that won't fuel the fire, like "I'm sorry you feel that way. I'd rather talk about a great book I'm reading right now."
Do you get antsy after a long day? Plan to end the day early, so that you don't reach the point of irritability.
2. Don't Expect Perfection
Accept that the day won't be perfect. Nothing is! Whether you are hosting the holiday, going to a friend or family member's, or visiting a restaurant, realize that something is bound to go wrong. That's life. Don't hold it against yourself, or the people around you. Whatever it is, do your best to move on and let it go.
3. Ask For Help/Accept Help
If you're hosting the holiday, ask for help in the kitchen. This is perfectly acceptable, and most people are happy to help out where they can. If you're offered help, accept it with gratitude! You don't have to do it all on your own.
If you're a guest, offer to take over a task that you're good at or don't mind doing. That doesn't necessarily mean offering to cook or serve, it can mean keeping the kids occupied! (Or, in my family, keeping the dogs out of the kitchen!)
4. Remember That People Do The Best They Can
Long days with family members can often end in frustration and hurt feelings. Try to remember that people do the best they can with the skills and tools they have. Hurtful comments probably aren't meant to be hurtful. If someone says something to you that you find hurtful or offensive, ask yourself "What is this person's intention?" The answer will most likely be "to be helpful." Don't hold it against friends and family members who may not have the necessary skills to express themselves effectively.
5. Smile!
Set the tone for those around you by being positive, smiling often, and enjoying yourself!
About The Author
© Copyright 2004
Jennifer Koretsky is a Professional ADD Management Coach who helps adults manage their ADD and move forward in life. She offers a 90-day intensive skill-building program, workshops, and private coaching. Her work has been featured in numerous media, including The New York Times Magazine and The Times (UK). To subscribe to Jennifer's free email newsletter, The ADD Management Guide, please visit http://www.addmanagement.com/e-newsletter.htm.
jennifer@addmanagement.com

6 Popular Gift Ideas For Fathers Day

2008-12-23T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Nicola Kennedy

Father's Day is a special day for any man who is a dad. Handmade cards by little ones and his favorite home-cooked meal are not all you can do for him, though. There is a wide variety of popular gifts for Father's Day that you can choose from to surprise him with. Some easy ideas are:
A gift card to Home Depot, Lowe's, or his favorite hardware store I have learned from years of experience with my husband that hardware stores truly are a man's "toy store". Any man can make twelve trips to a hardware store in one week and never get tired of it. Not only will he appreciate the gift, but you will get something done around the house or yard!
Fun electronic gadgets Think digital camera, MP3 players, wide-screen TVs, DVD players, laptop computersanything electronic. Many of these popular gifts for Father's Day can be pricey, so make sure you save up.
Personalized gifts Picture frames, plaques and figurines can commemorate a particular Father's Day. You can also purchase mugs and t-shirts with photos and special messages.
A gift certificate to a hobby or specialty shop Whether dad likes golfing, photography, woodworking, or wine, there is a specialty shop for that! Get him a gift certificate that he can use however he would like.
A gift certificate to his favorite restaurant Most restaurants offer gift cards or certificates in many amounts. Choose dad's favorite restaurant and get him a gift of a meal. To make it extra special, plan the whole night out on Father's Day and treat him to a meal there instead!
Apparel Dads can always use work clothes, casual clothes and chore clothes. Find out what area of dad's wardrobe is lacking the most and fill in the gaps. Trick dad by taking him to the mall and finding out what colors and styles he likes before you buy.
Other popular gifts for Father's Day are, of course, the crafty items you can make with your children at home. Anything from the heart will be popular with dad!
Nicola Kennedy takes great care in celebrating Father's Day, both as mom to her husband's children, and as a loving daughter. She can help you find great Father's Day gifts with tips and news, information and views at http://www.ILoveMyPop.com
This article may be reprinted in full so long as the resource box and the live links are included intact. All rights reserved. Copyright http://www.ILoveMyPop.com

In Honor Of Labor Day

2008-12-22T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Mary-Ann Shank

The word "work" hardly brings a smile to anyone's face. But stop for a moment and think of the millions and millions of people who came to America just so they could work.
And work they did. Some of these immigrants built our railroads and our skyscrapers. They studied hard, and some of them became internationally recognized scholars, artists and statesmen.
For instance, we have had at least two U.S. Secretaries of State who were themselves immigrants: Henry Kissinger from Germany and Madelaine Albright from the Czech Republic.
Both stood tall for the ideals we embrace: "We will not be intimidated or pushed off the world stage by people who do not like what we stand for, and that is, freedom, democracy and the fight against disease, poverty and terrorism." (Madeleine Albright)
The statesman Kissinger understood well the transition from labor to art: "Art is man's expression of his joy in labor."
The joy of labor is what many immigrants brought with them. What would the world be without the joy of Bob Hope: "If you haven't any charity in your heart, you have the worst kind of heart trouble. "
Mr. Hope had more than a little charity in his heart. Every single Christmas of his career he entertained soldiers and sailors of every ilk in every foreign country imaginable, bringing with him a plane load full of comics, singers and lovely ladies. The deserts and jungles of the front lines have yet to see the like of him again.
Truly, as the immigrant Irving Berlin wrote, "There's no business like show business."
It was also Irving Berlin who wrote the immortal "God Bless America, Land that I Love. Stand beside her, and guide her, through the night with a light from above."
There is immeasurable joy, too, in the dance world through two very famous Russian immigrants: the incomparable choreographer George Balanchine, and the spectacular dancer Mikhail Barynishnikov. Not only would American dance not be the same without them, but the entire world of dance would not be the same without them. It took the freedom of American expression to let loose this creative force into the world.
Balanchine's secret of success? "First comes the sweat. Then comes the beauty - if you're very lucky and have said your prayers."
Immigrants in other lines of work know exactly what Balanchine is talking about. Look at how much Sammy Sosa accomplished in the world of baseball, and he did it with hard work: "It's going to be unbelievable, you know. There's going to be a lot of people cheering for Mark McGwire and me. And, hey, we'll see how it goes."
Surprisingly, a number of very significant writers have come to America as immigrants. I say "surprisingly" because English is not an easy language to conquer. But conquer it they did, with relish. I would not have guessed that Kahlil Gibran was an immigrant. His book "The Stranger" is read by nearly every high school student in the country.
There is one line from Gibran that I especially like: "Generosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need."
That is a lesson that many immigrants have learned well. Not only in their own communities, but reaching out in the larger communities, many immigrants have brought a wonderful generosity to this country. Do you recall Father Flanagan? He was an immigrant. He was the one who established Boys Town, taking in hundreds of boys that no one else wanted. "There are no bad boys", Father Flanagan said. . "There is only bad environment, bad training, bad example, bad thinking."
This list has but touched the surface of the immigrants who have brought their talents and toiled in American.
There's still Albert Einstein, perhaps the most famous immigrant of all. There's Max Factor of Hollywood makeup fame, and Elia Kazan, the playright.
There's Andrew Grove, founder of Intel Corporation, I.M. Pei, the internationally known architect, and Midori, the violin virtuoso.
Rudolf Valentino, the silent movie lover, and Zubin Mehta, the renown conductor, are also in the group.
All came to work.
So as we celebrate Labor Day, let's take a moment to rejoice in the work that makes our lives what they are, the work that makes our country what it is.
Each morning MaryAnn Shank checks her email to see if anyone has submitted new quotes for http://www.Inspirational-Quotes-Cafe.com. That's the best part of the day. She shares the quotes and photos on the website, and in a morning email called Cup o'. Join her for a touch of inspiration on all sorts of topics.

Taking Jesus Out Of Christmas

2008-12-22T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Mike Bradley

I am sure you have all heard by now how the secular forces in our country are attacking the true meaning of Christmas. These secular forces are trying to literally replace the term "merry Christmas" with "happy holidays." They are trying too re-name our traditional Christmas tree as the "holiday tree." They are trying to take out the baby Jesus, Mary and Joseph from the manger scenes.
President Bush himself has taken out the term "merry Christmas" from his yearly standard Christmas card that he sends out in an attempt to try and be politically correct. Many of our major department and retail stores have also replaced the term "merry Christmas" with "happy holidays" for fear of offending the minority in our country if they are not Christians.
In the last poll I saw taken, it has been estimated that 80-85% of the people in our country still consider themselves to be Christians. We are thus looking at 15-20% of our population either being atheists, agnostics or of another faith and religion.
In an effort to try and appease and not offend this small minority, many in the political, academic and social fields are literally trying to take out the true meaning of Christmas - the celebration of the birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. And surprisingly, many liberal Christians are now in this secular camp.
I have seen many of them on the local news and cable talk shows. They are telling the rest of us conservative and traditional minded Christians that we are getting too upset over nothing, that we should be willing to completely separate Church from state, that we are too thin skinned and that we need to go along with this secular agenda and take our faith and belief right out of any kind of public arena.
As a result of this dark side attack, many Christians have risen up and have done battle with the secular forces trying to remove Christianity from the public square. We have been successful in some of the court battles along with some of the battles against some of the schools who are also trying to remove every tenant of Christianity in their teaching systems. For those of you who don't know what the word "secular" means, Webster's Dictionary describes it as follows:
"Worldly, profane, heathen. Relating to worldly things as distinguished from things relating to church and religion; not sacred or religious, temporal."
Another term that you will often hear is the phrase "secular humanism." Webster's describes this term as follows:
"Humanism that systematically opposes the introduction of religious ideas or standards into the functions of the state, especially into public education. A system of doctrines and practices that disregards or rejects any form of religious faith and worship."
Remember this word. You will be seeing a lot more of this demonic movement in the coming years.
Per the series of articles I have done on all the end time events that will be occurring before Jesus returns to us for His second coming, one of the heavier signs that will be occurring will be the moral disintegration of many people from all walks of life.
The Bible tells us that in the latter days many people will become lovers of self, boasters, proud, blasphemers, unthankful, unholy, slanderers, brutal, without self-control, headstrong and lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God. The Bible also tells us that some of these people will be falling for "doctrines of demons."
There is no doubt in my mind that the secular agenda and their basic philosophy is a demonic doctrine straight from the pit of hell. Not only do they not believe in God - but they want to try and take Him right out of any kind of pubic arena - even if they are considered to be in the minority!
You thus have liberal judges, teachers, professors and politicians who are doing everything they can to try and remove God from all of the public areas of our life. They are doing everything they can to try and remove the Bible and the Ten Commandments from every major public area of our lives.
Many of our school children have literally lost their faith in God and Jesus by the time they graduate from some of these liberal and secular colleges. If that child has not been raised up with a good, solid Christian upbringing, he will become easy prey for some of these demonic professors who are teaching them that man does not need a God to answer too and that man and science can eventually solve all the world's problems.
What you will find that is really funny in all of this is that these secular forces are not attacking any of the other false religious faiths and beliefs. They are not attacking any of their holidays or trying to take out any of their system of beliefs out of our public arenas.
The reason for that is that all of these other false religions and beliefs are not considered a threat to them and their beliefs. Christianity is the only faith and religion that will draw a major battle line in the sand and call out things the way they really are. Christianity is the only faith that will call man as he really is - a sinner in need of a Savior.
Secularists don't want to be told that they are all sinners. They don't want to be told that they need God's grace and mercy through the death of Jesus Christ in order to receive redemption and a pardon for their sinful states and natures.
They don't want to be told what they can and cannot do. They want total freedom of expression and they don't want to have to answer to a real live living God for the moral decisions they want to make with their lives. In other words, they do not want any moral absolutes dictating how they should live in this life.
This is why you are seeing such a fierce and relentless attack on Christianity in every area that they think they can get away with. With us now approaching what I believe are the latter years as told to us in the Bible, I am afraid that not only is the secular movement not going to be going away, but it will be getting stronger in the coming years, eventually leading up to a real live antichrist who will literally be ruling this entire world for the last 7 years on this earth.
If a real live antichrist is really coming to rule this entire world, then you can bet that an antichrist spirit will start to invade the entire world to help prepare and set up for his coming. And that is exactly what you are starting to see more of. That is why some of these secular movements are getting much more bold and much more aggressive with some of the things they are now doing.
You now have an atheist who is trying to take out the term "in God we trust" off our national currency. This man has now filed the appropriate actions with the supreme court in an attempt to try and do this. Many secular teachers are trying to keep our children from reading and bringing their Bibles into the schools. They are also trying to stop any type of prayer groups from forming inside the schools.
The battle lines are now really being drawn between God's people and the rest of the unbelieving world. Now, more than ever, God will be looking for anointed soldiers to do battle against some of this demonic secular activity that has now launched a full scale attack against Christianity.
We have good solid Christian men and women in the field of politics, the court systems, the teaching professions and the media. Some of these men and women have been instrumental in getting a lot of this secular activity either defeated or at least stalled to some degree.
But the battle is now on and it will only be intensifying in the coming years. This latest attack against Christmas is just another torpedo shot that we are going to have to deal with. With this secular force being more in the minority rather than the majority in this country, this means that we can win some of these battles if there is enough of a public outcry from the believing majority. You can write, email or call your local senators, congressmen, school officials and local stores and chains to voice your opinions on all of these hot issues.
Look how far the homosexual movement has been able to advance its cause and movement with all of their protests and public outcries. They have literally been able to get their entire movement accepted by many in our country as normal acceptable behavior. The squeaky wheel still gets the grease - and we can all do the same with some of the secular demonic activity that has now invaded us right in the heart of where we all live and work at.
To those Christians who consider themselves liberal and who are siding with some of these secular agendas in trying to remove Jesus and everything that He stands for not only out of Christmas, but out of the rest of the public areas of our lives as well - I will give you with two bone chilling verses from our Bible that perfectly describes what is going on with all of this.
Our Bible tells us that we have to be representatives and ambassadors for Jesus, that we are to carry His light and testimony and we are not to be ashamed to testify on His behalf to the rest of the world.
President Bush had a major window to do all of this by keeping the merry Christmas in his Christmas card, but he buckled under the secular and political pressure to try and be politically correct. As a result, he lost a golden opportunity to show the rest of the world how strong his faith really was in his Lord and Savior. That is why the Bible tells us that our faith will be considered "dead" without any good works to back it up.
As I stated at the top of this article, now, more than ever, God is drawing a major battle line in the sand. He is asking each and every Christian to take a stand and decide which side of the line they are going to stand on.
You can either choose to totally dedicate and commit your life and your way of living to God and Jesus, or you can choose to take a stand with the world in general and walk and live with how they want you to live in this life. That is why the Lord has told us in His Word that we will literally become His enemy if we choose the world and the ways of the world over Him and how He wants us to live in this life.
For a complete copy of this article and what those two bone chilling verses from Scripture are, you can click on this link and it will bring you right into the full article.
Article written by Michael Bradley of Bible Knowledge Ministries. Their website is a resource of Bible knowledge.

Decade Costumes Make Great Halloween Outfits

2008-12-21T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Phil Sikes

It's fun to look back at the various decades and dress in decade costumes once the occasion arises. Each decade had its own unique charm. From poodle skirts in the 50's to the grunge look in the 90's, they all offer something unique.
Dressing in decade costumes may be a little easier than dressing in a superhero costume, for example. Most of us have decade costumes already in our closets and we may not even know it. Plus, these items are easy to replicate and find clothing for.
Here is some advice on how to put together your own decade costumes for your next dress-up event.
The Fifties
Poodle skirts and pony tails characterize this era. You can actually find outfits from this decade in costume shops and even in stores. Also check in your relatives' attics, vintage clothing shops and of course eBay.
The Sixties
The sixties were a fun time. This is the era of the hippie. Think John Lennon, long hair, long skirts, and lots of flowers and beads. Sixties style clothing still comes in and out of style so chances are pretty good that you have the clothes in your closet. If not, they should be fairly easy to obtain in a regular department store or in second hand clothing shops.
The Seventies
Bell bottoms and disco music- these things are just two of the items that characterize the seventies decade costumes. Lots of glitter and sparkles for the ladies and dramatic afros for anyone who is willing are just a few of the accessories to choose from. Bell bottoms came back in style not too long ago so they should be fairly easy to locate. You can also check in second hand clothing stores and costume shops.
The Eighties
Teased hair and heavy metal and all the fashions that were attached to this music are just some of the things you can do to make yourself look like you were from the eighties. On hair the longer and more teased it is the more authentic you will look. For inspiration, makes and females alike can learn a lot by watching those old music videos. For a change of pace you can also use other movies such as Flash or even shows such as Miami Vice for yet even more eighties inspiration.
The Nineties
The nineties really weren't so long ago but it may be fun to dress up in grunge clothing for your nineties decade costumes. Think Nirvana and Pearl Jam. A pair of thick combat boots and lots of flannel will do a lot to give you the right look.
Phil Sikes writes about costume accessories and other related topics for the Get In Costume website. To read more about costume ideas for Halloween and other events, visit http://www.getincostume.com

Marketing Strategies Using The Law Of Attraction To Create Your Own Unique Version Of The Holidays

2008-12-20T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Maya Bailey, Ph.D.

What do you think of when you think of the Holidays?
If you're like most people the first things you think of are the long lines, the massive amounts of traffic and the over emphasis on consumerism. What if this Holiday Season, you could turn that around by creating your own unique version? What would your version be like?
Using the Law of Attraction as our model, let's explore how through the focusing of consciousness, you can magnetize more of what you desire. What would that be? Warmth, coziness, closeness of friends and family, peace and harmony?
The Law of Attraction:
The Law of Attraction is simple. There are basically 5 steps:
1. Clarify what you don't want
2. Clarify what you do want
3. Clear your beliefs
4. Create your "desire statement"
5. Allow it to come to you
Step 1:
Clarify what you don't want:
Take a piece of paper and draw a line vertically. Then an inch from the top draw a horizontal line, so you have two columns. On top of the left column, write "Don't want" . So when it comes to the Holidays, what are those for you? Some examples might be stress, confusion, exhaustion, pressure and family feuds. Write those in the left column.
Step 2:
Clarify what you do want:
On top of the right hand column, write "Do wants" Regarding the Holidays, what are those for you? Some examples might be love, harmony , peace, and joy. Write those and any others you can think of in the right column.
Step 3:
What hidden or not so hidden beliefs do you have that might get in the way of you receiving what you want? Here's some examples:
"My relatives never get along in Holiday gatherings"
"The more expensive my gifts, the more approval I'll receive"
"There's no way around the hustles and bustle"
"Every year someone gets sick"
"My income never meets my expenses during the Holidays"
When you have identified your self limiting and self sabotaging beliefs, ask yourself if you still want to hold onto them? If yes, then you'll pretty much get what you've always gotten. If you decide you're really ready to let them go. Then write a set of new beliefs that cancels out each and every one of the old ones.
For example, you could start to reprogram yourself to think that:
" I can help to facilitate the interactions between my relatives and myself"
" The only person's approval I need is my own. I'll give gifts from the heart"
" I can create my pace to be any way I want. I give myself permission to experience balance this year."
" I visualize radiant health for myself and everyone"
" I can figure out a way to raise my income or I can figure out a way to minimize my expenses. "
Once you have ridden your self of your old beliefs and created a whole new set of empowered beliefs, you are free to create your "desire statement."
Step 4:
Create your Desire Statement:
Now that you have more clarity about what you don't want and what you do want and you've cleared out the old beliefs, you're ready to write your Desire Statement. It's simple, just take your top 5 items of your Do Want list. Then make a statement of what it feels like to have them now.
What does it feel like to have a warm, cozy, relaxed Holiday Season that you custom designed? Write down all the emotional and physical feelings you get as you experience it happening right now. It's similar to acting "as if".
Read your Desire Statement aloud every day for at least 16 seconds. This is enough time for you to create a vibrational vortex. Remember like energy attract like energy. So you are making yourself extremely magnetic to having what you want.
Step 5:
Allow this to come to you:
How does one "allow"? To allow you must suspend your fears and doubts. Notice you don't have to get rid of them, you just need to dis-identify from them. Keep your focus on what you want and give yourself supportive, encouraging self talk. Withdraw your energy from your fears and doubts and they will start shrinking.
So what does it feel like to have a Holiday Season that is unique to you? Relish in the enjoyment so you are ready to roll in the New Year.
Tip: When you find yourself focusing on the negative, i.e. what you don't want, catch yourself and ask this question instead, "So what do I want?" Then focus on that.
For more information on powerful marketing tips and tools, please visit Maya's website: http://www.90daystomoreclients.com While you're there, get your Free Audio Mentoring Session by clicking the first button.

Party Goods For Halloween

2008-12-20T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Gail Leino

Halloween is coming up and you'll find that, especially this time of year, you'll need more party goods than ever. Halloween is such an involved holiday. It is both extremely fun because of all the make believe involved and also can be quite harrying. Those throwing parties will certainly be rushing around to get all their ghouls in place, so to speak.
Luckily party goods are made to fill just this partying need for Halloween. You'll find the basic necessities such as themed tablecloths, napkins, silverware, plates, and pumpkins along with all those wonderful extras that make the holiday so creepy. Are you going to try and scare some trick-or-treaters?
Since Halloween involves an outdoor activity such as trick-or-treat, the practice of decorating the porch and front lawn is almost a requirement. Almost everyone has a Jack-O-Lantern on their porch. Those who want to go further can find decorations to literally turn their front yard into a cemetery. Styrofoam grave markers are very popular to stick on the lawn and usually they are also very funny, coming with funny epitaphs on them like, 'Here lies Captain D. He had bad seafood.'
Other ingenious decorative accents include fake spider webs, with rubber spider included, plastic skulls and skeletons of all kinds, scary laughter music discs and other gory objects.
To add a cool touch to your party you can also string up some glowsticks tubes. Glowsticks give off a phosphorescent light and come in several colors such as purple, green and blue and you can connect together longer glowsticks necklaces to make a chain or garland to hang up around the party area. You can also give out glowsticks as party favors or instead of candy to trick-or-treaters.
You can purchase special balloons that look like UFO's for your party or you can get balloons with scary faces on them. There are also a lot of streamer and confetti type products themed after Halloween which you can scatter around your party for festive fun.
Mrs. Party... Gail Leino is the internet's leading authority on selecting the best possible party supplies, using proper etiquette and manners while also teaching organizational skills and fun facts. The Party Supplies Hut has a huge selection of free party games, coloring pages, word find, word scramble, printable baby and bridal shower activities. Halloween Party Games, party planning tips, decorations, costume ideas, recipes, printable activities and free coloring pages.

Celebrating Christmas 2005 With A Humorous Twist

2008-12-19T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Louise Anderson

Maybe you were looking the other way, but Christmas is here. For hundreds of millions of people around the world, Christmas is the biggest holiday of the year.
How about going out on a limb and trying something new this year? Why don't we return to an old fashioned slow Christmas where people carol in front of houses? Why don't we return to a time of family gatherings and exchanging modest but meaningful Christmas gifts? Christmas is a time of year in which we are to express our love, and love is not measured by the size, amount or price of our gifts to one another, but by the size of our heart.
Getting back to real family values! With Audio4fun products, you will give Christmas gifts that keep on giving on this holiday season. Make this Christmas the quality time, which is the best expression of love you can give. Start your family project which requires spending quality time, and in which everyone has the opportunity to input their ideas and voice their own opinions. You and your family could:
- Sing along Christmas songs, morph them in a fun style with Music Morpher Gold, record them and burn into CDs as "happy together" memoirs.
- Stay in contact with distant family members by using Voice Changer Software Diamond: have fun in voice chat with them with new Christmas package.
- Create and send a meaningful Christmas card to your beloveds and wish them a very merry Christmas.
- Make funny Christmas ringtones for your cellphone to suit the holiday seasons.
- Why do you guys go out for a movie on this cold winter? Stay at home watching your favorite old Christmas movies in a new funny way with DVD Player-Morpher Gold. Your family will surely have a joyful Christmas season!
How easy it is! You can visit Tutorials at http://www.musicmorpher.com/free-tutorials.htm to learn how to use Music Morpher Gold to remix songs, make ringtones, make medley, duet songs, etc. Make your own "handmade" gifts by spending time instead of money.
http://www.audio4fun.com/season-greeting.htm
Louise, Audio4fun Community writer, shares a special focus on how to celebrate holidays in unique ways, reflected in specific holiday articles that help you choose gifts for others. http://www.audio4fun.com

Lets Not Talk Turkey

2008-12-19T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Kristin Johnson

The carving. The leftovers. The endless stuffing. Actually, you love the stuffing, cranberries and turkey trimmings. However, it's been seven years and you know your family will throw the turkey out the window if they have to eat the bird one more Christmas (and never mind the lectures about starving children in Ethiopia---or better yet, send them the turkey if you can get it through security.)
The Pilgrims and your third-grade teacher started something by preaching the turkey gospel. But if you didn't have turkey---as your vegetarian friends remind you, it's so much better than Big Macs--- what would you serve?
Some ideas:
Lasagna---it's always a crowd-pleaser.
Slice avocadoes and combine with sliced cucumbers, chopped green olives, diced tomatoes, and sliced onions for a winter red/green salad.
Serve Mexican and have a "Feliz Navidad" party.
Serve Holiday Noodles---Thai, lo mein, crispy, or egg noodles tossed with scallions and covered with red curry powder or red pepper.
Get your Omega-3 boost from salmon, made festive with salsa and guacamole toppings.
Make a "Christmas pizza": green peppers, tomatoes, goat cheese, green olives...let your imagination run wild!
Of course, don't forget the Christmas cookies!
Enjoy the turkey-free healthy and tasty holiday traditions you've created.
About The Author
Copyright Kristin Johnson.
Kristin Johnson is co-author of the "highly recommended" Midwest Book Review pick, Christmas Cookies Are For Giving: Stories, Recipes and Tips for Making Heartwarming Gifts (ISBN: 0-9723473-9-9). A downloadablemedia kit is available at our Web site, www.christmascookiesareforgiving.com, or e-mail the publisher (info@tyrpublishing.com) to receive a printed media kit and sample copy of the book. More articles available at http://www.bakingchristmascookies.com.
kristin@poemsforyou.com

Christmas In Another World Romania

2008-12-18T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Jeremy White

While much of the civilized world celebrate ancient Christmas traditions, it wasn't always so in Romania, a country once shackled to the now-defunct Soviet Union. Prior to the country's break from the communist-led Soviet bloc, Romanian residents were forced to abandon - or at least submerge - many of their Christmas traditions.
It has been 15 years since Romania regained its independence, and its citizens are once again filling the Christmas season with joyous celebrations. Young adults are now experiencing the Yuletide traditions they previously heard their parents and grandparents discuss. Christmas - called "Craciun" in Romania - is once again alive and well.
Unlike many Americans, Romanians do not open gifts on Christmas morning. Instead, gift exchanges take place on Christmas Eve. Therefore, Romanian children do not leave milk and cookies out for Santa Claus - "Mos Craciun" - to consume on the night of December 24. And while children in the U.S. typically ask for video games and electronics, those in Romania live with a harsher economic reality.
Romania is a tale of two classes. The urban population is typically much more affluent than the rural population. In the cities, some children will receive expensive gifts and money. In the villages, however, kids often receive sweets, fruit, nuts, and pastries as Christmas gifts. A common and popular gift is knot-shaped bread, which, in Romania, symbolizes an abundant harvest.
The sacrifice of a family's pig is customary in rural villages. Often grown to around 300 pounds, the pig's throat is cut in the back yard and the pork's hair is burned. After this, a small portion of meat is immediately fried. That meat is then shared with friends and neighbors, along with plum brandy. This ceremony may seem barbaric in the U.S., but it is performed to ensure the soul of the pig - which will provide the family with nourishment - receives ample gratitude.
All the women in a family cook for three days leading up to Craciun. On Christmas Eve fir trees are decorated. Groups go door-to-door singing carols and churches present concerts. Carolers are abundant. School children make large stars out of glossy paper and light them from within. They carry the illuminated star with them from house to house, singing carols such as Steaua ("The Star"), Trei Pastori ("The Three Shepherds") and Mos Craciun ("Santa Claus"). Young children begin the singing, then the caroling is taken over by adolescents and then, finally (often after midnight), the adults join in. At each house, carolers are given apples, nuts, traditional cakes ("cozonaci") and sometimes even money as a reward for their efforts.
Christmas dinner is a rich, multi-course meal. Several types of pork sausages are tabled, and plum brandy, along with home made pickles, are requisite. "Sarmale" then follows. This dish consists of pickled cabbage leaves stuffed with a combination of pork and beef, along with rice, pepper, thyme and other spices. It is boiled slowly for hours and is paired with polenta. That dish is followed by roasted pork and turkey with red wine. The wine is consumed to celebrate the birth of Jesus. The meal ends with cozonaci, which is a cake with nuts and raisins. The entire extended family - children, parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins - gather around the table to enjoy the feast together.
Though Romanian Craciun differs from a traditional American Christmas, it's easy to see the similarities as well: it's a magical time filled with celebrations, family and generosity.
Brought to you by Imaginary Greetings, a regular contributor of valuable family oriented content. Learn how to truly light up your child's eyes this holiday season like never before with a personalized phone call from Santa.

Ebay Selling Tips For The Holiday Season

2008-12-18T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Mark Kenny

The holidays are one of the busiest times of the year - both online and in stores. Buyers are shopping for the perfect gift idea for friends and loved ones. But, what if a store is sold out and online shops are out of stock? Many shoppers look to eBay, where you can find almost anything and ordering is as simple as the click of a mouse.
Every eBay seller looks forward to the holidays and tries to remain competitive, but it takes work. There's always another vendor waiting to lower their price below yours or add a special bargain to get your customers. In order to stay afloat amongst all of the holiday hoopla, consider the following tips to make your business sparkle and shine during the holiday months:
Tip 1: Offer a gift wrap service. Many shoppers are pressed for time. Perhaps they are traveling out of town to spend the holidays with family, or maybe their family is coming in to visit them. Either way, the holidays take a lot of preparation and planning for everyone. Sometimes, gift wrapping is saved for the last minute and it can be a huge help if a business offers a convenient gift wrapping service. It's up to you whether to offer this service free or at a small fee but, either way, it's an option that will make your business stand out above the rest. Gift wrapping service is also a huge help to those last-minute shoppers.
Tip 2: Offer to gift ship direct to the recipient. Many families are forced to spend the holidays miles apart, so it's nice to be able to order something online and have it shipped directly to the person who the gift is intended for. This saves the buyer from having to pay shipping, get the item and re-ship to the recipient. By offering to ship a gift directly to the recipient, you will be saving your customer both time and money.
Tip 3: Package everything as if it were ready to be given as a gift. If you sell jewelry, ship in brand new gift boxes. If you sell clothing, fold it nicely and ship in tissue paper and a gift box. You get the idea. Always ship an item in such a way that the customer will have to do very little if the item is intended as a gift. If it's not a gift, and the buyer purchased it for themselves, they will be pleasantly surprised to receive such a nice presentation. Customers will always appreciate the extra effort, especially near the holidays.
Tip 4: If you know for certain that someone celebrates the holidays, include a holiday card in with their order. This is just a nice way to add a special little touch to every order and it's always nice to be thought of during the holidays.
Tip 5: Always make sure that any specialty services, which you make available, are noted in your auction description. Whether it be gift wrapping service, shipping a gift directly to the recipient or perhaps a shipping discount for multiple purchases, let your customers know of them. Don't go overboard with the typeface, but make sure it's bold and noticeable. Make your business stand out, and above, all the rest.
Mark Kenny is an eBay expert who specialises in launching eBay related online businesses. You can see his selection of his recommended eBay resources at: http://www.eBusinesseBooks.com or read his blog via http://www.Trading-Web-Solutions.com/blog

Santas Workshop Diary Of An Elf Day 5

2008-12-17T18:00:00.003-08:00
Writen by Ashlee Williams

Hello everyone,
It has been very busy around here today! Christmas Eve is getting closer and we are working many hours a day. Any way most of the fire trucks are painted, but the water hoses haven't been connected as we ran out of the connecting nozzles. Our supplies don't arrive until the end of next week. Our Senior Elf, started sawing the wood for the blocks. They take a long time to cut into blocks and paint with alphabet letters on all four sides.
We had to get our own meals today, as Mrs. Claus was in bed most of the day. She has a cold and Santa thought she should rest. We all had a chance to make our favorite sandwich ~ Of course that's peanut butter and jelly. I hate to see Mrs. Claus sick, but the sandwiches were great!! Yum! Yum! I could eat them at every meal.
The reindeer had a long session of exercising ~ they were tired and hungry at supper time. Got to get them into good shape for Christmas Eve or no boys and girls will get their presents.
We went looking around the attic for some clothes to wear to our Halloween party. Mr. & Mrs. Claus always holds a costume party for all his workers. It's always fun bobbing for apples, eating ice cream and soda.
Well, I have to leave for now and hurry to the tv room. BE GOOD BOYS AND GIRLS!! SANTA IS WATCHING YOU!!!!
http://santasworkshop.blog.com

Read This Article If You Think The Merry Christmas Debate Is Ridiculous Indeed

2008-12-17T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Lance Winslow

Did you say Merry Christmas today in spite! Did you say it a little extra loud so as to make sure everyone around could here you? How did that make you feel? Did it empower you? Do you think it empowered others around you; did they laugh and smile, nod their heads in approval? Well, they did when I said it. You know all this talk of the "C" word; the word you cannot say anymore is silly and ridiculous isn't it?
Christmas is a special time of the year and should be treated as such, as it is a tradition and it is part of American culture. It does not matter what religion you are or even if you are of no religion at all. Christmas is Christmas and Merry is a nice touch to use in a greeting; So, have a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS and take that!
Do not let anyone spoil it or take away your right to say Merry Christmas. Say it like you mean it and say it like you feel it, with warmth and conviction. It is a great way to say you care and you wish all the world well over the holiday season. Do not worry if the other person is Jewish, Hindu, Buddhist or Muslim because what it is saying to them is that you welcome them into your midst, all of them whether a believer or an atheist, you are saying I value you as a person and I wish you well.
That is a good thing and helps bring people together. If someone is offended by you saying Merry Christmas it is an internal problem with that individual, that is their problem not yours. You wished them well in a positive way by saying Merry Christmas, which is a compliment and a way of saying; "I Care" and that is a good thing. Of course if you cannot stand the person you can say Go to Hell, Delightful December, Merry Month or nothing at all. Think on it.
Lance Winslow

Outdoor Lover Gift Ideas

2008-12-15T18:00:00.001-08:00
Writen by Kathy Burns-Millyard

Outdoor lovers are known for their take no prisoners approach to enjoying nature and all its wonders. If you know someone who is a camping, hunting, fishing, hiking or gardening fanatic, or who just loves to get outside, below are some great gift ideas that are sure to delight.
Digital Compass: The days of the traditional Boy Scout compass are long gone. Today's compasses come in a variety of formats and are used for multiple purposes. Digital compasses are a top pick, because they don't have to be adjusted for different geographical areas. The user will get a precise digital reading of the direction that they're headed in. Most of these clever little gadgets can function as vehicle compasses, travel alarm clocks or handheld for the outdoors.
L.L. Bean Gift Certificate: If they love the great outdoors, chances are they do a little bit of shopping at L.L. Bean. The leading outdoor apparel and gear maker specializes in a broad line of children's wear, outerwear, sportswear, house wares and footwear, as well as camping, fishing, hunting and hiking gear. Your gift recipient has the convenience of using an L.L. Bean gift certificate in-person or when ordering online.
Thermal Underwear: Help keep them warm and cozy with a thoughtful gift - thermal underwear. There are many styles and types to choose from. Some of the more popular are those made with wool, polypropylene and cotton/polyester.
Waterproof Binoculars: If that favorite outdoors person has yet to pick up a pair, then this is the gift for them. Waterproof binoculars are built to be 100% water resistant in both fresh and saltwater. They are designed to deliver a bright and clear picture when scanning for navigational markers, other watercraft or feeding fish. This is a must have item for any outdoor enthusiast.
National Parks Pass: This is the ultimate gift for the outdoor lover. A National Parks Pass is an annual pass that provides admission to any national park that charges an entrance fee. The pass costs just $50 and is valid for one full year from first use at a park. According to the National Parks Service, more than 80% of the proceeds from the sale of these passes go directly into supporting priority projects in national parks. You can purchase the passes one of three ways: directly at any national park where an entrance fee is charge, online at www.nationalparks.org or by calling 1-888-GO-PARKS.
Lantern: For the avid camper, lanterns always make a great gift. Today's campers are moving to the propane models versus the fuel lanterns. Keep that in mind when comparing models.
Good luck on your quest to find the perfect present for that outdoor lover!
Additional resources for this article can be found at: http://www.homegiftshopper.com/giftideas/1958/outdoor-lover-gift-ideas/
© 2005, Kathy Burns-Millyard. Need more great gift ideas for a variety of people and occasions? Visit The Home Gift Shopper at http://www.homegiftshopper.com - And don't miss our new, full article RSS feed!

No More Ties Homemade Fathers Day Gift Ideas

2008-12-14T18:00:00.002-08:00
Writen by Adriana Copaceanu

If you are like me, you never know what to get dad for Father's Day. Well, today, you'll get a few ideas that will get you out of a bind any time.
Wallet Memories - Cut a business card size rectangle out of poster board. Decorate both sides with stickers, photographs, small messages, or drawings (for kids). Laminate it, and give it to dad. He can keep the card in his wallet - a reminder of your kind gesture.
Daddy Cake - Your child will love creating this Father's Day cake. Bake a cake and then get busy decorating. You can create a golf scene for the golfing dad, a briefcase for the businessman, or simply, just a smiley face. Oh, what fun!
Short story - Write a short story where the hero is your dad. Don't forget to mention some of the things you've always taken for granted, and never thanked him for. This will be a great keepsake for him. An alternative to this would be to write a poem for your dad and frame it for him.
Father of The Year Banner - design a father of the year banner and post it in the front yard before dad gets home on Father's Day.
Breakfast in Bed - we always do this for mom, but this time, make dad's favorite breakfast and serve him in bed. Better yet, make breakfast for 2 and leave him and mom alone to enjoy it.
Scented Pillow - sew a small pillow and fill it with cotton and a few drops of either clary sage, marjoram or ylang-ylang, or a combination of them, for an anti-stress effect. If you like, you can also hand-embroider some sweet saying like "World's Best Dad".
Adriana Copaceanu provides people with creative gift ideas that don't blow the bank. If you are looking for Father's Day Gift Ideas, look no further. Want regular reminders on gift-giving? Sign up for her free monthly newsletter, Gift News